Family & Relationships - 26 December 2006

2006-12-26 18:40:25 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I found out that my g/f smoked pot with this guy from work a couple months back. But the only reason I found out is cause her friend hinted it to me. She intentionally went behind my back and did it because she knew I wouldn't like it. Then I found out she did it again after I told her not to. I do love her but for obvious reasons I can't really trust her. What should I do?

2006-12-26 18:39:58 · 24 answers · asked by mttcool82 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-26 18:38:54 · 12 answers · asked by citygirl 2 in Singles & Dating

i have a best friend, we've known each other since first grade, she's one year older than me but still in high school when im at the local university. we live in oregon, but she got accepted into princeton, so she will be going there in the fall. we were very close and i think we still are, but i feel our friendship changed when i started going to the university. it was usually almost always just us two but she made new friends and so have i, we hardly hang out together anymore. i feel that she will forget me when she goes to princeton. we always said "friends for life" but im not so sure anymore. we were the best of friends, more like sisters. im scared that when she goes to princeton she will forget about me. i dont want to lose her friendship, its one of the highlights of my life. she's told me that we will be friends even if we live on opposite sides of the world...
any advice would be good too...
thanks

2006-12-26 18:37:35 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2006-12-26 18:34:47 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Any guy 14 -17 ?

2006-12-26 18:33:36 · 12 answers · asked by Trixy S 1 in Singles & Dating

k i like my friend but never told him i never really know if he liked me because sometimes i think he did but i assumed he was nice because we are fruends .....i just found out that he has a girlfriend,but HE didnt tell me ...i found out what should i say when he tells me .......not say anything or say im happy for him

2006-12-26 18:33:16 · 13 answers · asked by BrOwN eYe'D cHiCa 2 in Singles & Dating

Okay...responses are very broad...so let me add more of the situation. She doesn't want to leave him because she's scared of three things. 1) he's the type to use the "kill myself or else". We think, but if not then he will be the one who shows up at her home, her work, and then on to my work. We work together, not same departments, but same employer. 2) How does she explain to her family how a friend of hers and her husbands is her new love? She's scared they may disown her as they are an overly-strict church family. I don't wann give an ultimatum becuase I know how a divorce works...but I also want to be a tad bit selfish..How do I bring it up about taking the next step in getting the ball rolling from her end without the ultimatum fell??

2006-12-26 18:32:41 · 16 answers · asked by in love, but need help 1 in Marriage & Divorce

about a year ago i started talking to this guy that is really good friends with my guy friend. me and this guy started talking more and more. then he started to like me but i didnt really like him that much, just as a friend. and then my best friend started talking to him because of me..then she started like him and now he kinda likes her. but now i like him, alot. and i dont want anyone to know because i dont want to hurt my best friend. and im really mean to him now because im mad at him for liking her.what should i do?

2006-12-26 18:32:13 · 14 answers · asked by lcw 2 in Singles & Dating

When you describe a girl as sweet, what exactally does that mean???

2006-12-26 18:31:54 · 11 answers · asked by S0uRxTr0piCs 1 in Singles & Dating

What is one thing that you...


1. Absolutely hate that a girl does.

And

2. Absloutely love that a girl does.

2006-12-26 18:31:09 · 17 answers · asked by FairChild 3 in Singles & Dating

I consider myself to be adventurous, in any event, it keeps things alive, and exciting.....no room for boredom here...... how adventurous are you?

2006-12-26 18:31:03 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Can there be sprit of accomodation and smooth reconcilation between partners to
continue the marriage in modren cultures as we see in india or other oriental cultures?

2006-12-26 18:30:28 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

I have this friend who is really mean and all. Such examples include her always blaming me that I am the one who starts the fights we have, her making up these really dumb stories like how she got accepted into a model agency and how people thought she was so pretty, claming she's a happy go good person, and I'm a weird one, yet, she's always BRAGGING to me that she has depression pills (and SHE BRAGS ABOUT IT IT"S NOT SOMETHING TO BE PROUD OF), she betrays and backstabs me and her other friends, and she always has this awful mean voice, and is so sarcastic and is always getting pissed at me! I had those times when I thought to give her second chances, but I told her we needed to talk, because than she told me she wanted to be a suicide girl (it means something like a porn star!!!) and so i got freaked out, and now i really don't want to be friends with her because she's mean, and weird to me! But I don't want to hurt her feelings! What to do!?!?!?!?!??!

2006-12-26 18:30:03 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

theres this boy that i like and he told me that he
likes me too. one of my friend likes him too but she doesn't now that i like him thats why she told me.we went to a party and he kissed her so later on he kissed me. time passed and my friend told me he had kissed her, i felt so bad inside but i didnt let her see it because she doesnt know i lik ehim too. instead i was like oh thats good. i like him but as soon as my friend told me she liked him i decided to put myself to the side so she can have him even though he likes me. i dont know what to do. should i tell him i like him and go for his love or should i leave him to my friend? what should i do? tell him my feelings or what?wouldn't that be messed up to my friend? i also told him tahat i wasn't no toy for him to be kissing my friend and then me. did i do right? im so confused right now.i really want to be with him

2006-12-26 18:29:02 · 13 answers · asked by maderline_socute 1 in Friends

since knowing my ex partner for over two years, he stays out weeks on end leaving myself and our children, I am always oppted to take him back, he says he cares about our children but i am inclined to stop contact when he gets his unit in three weeks since we have just mutually have ended things. what advice do you have about visitation for the children and him?, As he has rights but im afraid he will be a no-show and I don't want that upsetting our children.

2006-12-26 18:28:25 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2006-12-26 18:27:53 · 22 answers · asked by AngryAmerican82 3 in Marriage & Divorce

I have only one sibling - an older sister who ive never gotten along with. Im 20 and shes 23. We have to deal with eachother though somewhat closely because we're both living in my parents house right now. My sister is IMPOSSIBLE. Shes almost inhuman. She's critical of literally everything i or anyone else does. Shes had a history of anorexia and depression so mentally shes not all that stable, but shes the most shallow person i know. She doesnt want me marrying my fiance because hes still in school and is right now working as a car salesman. Everything to her is money and looks. I dont know who im having as bridesmaids yet but I couldnt bare to have her in my wedding party and my fiance feels the same way. How does this work?? It would break my mothers heart to know that i honestly dont want my only sister to be part of my wedding. Any suggestions... anybody been through something like this before?

2006-12-26 18:26:12 · 28 answers · asked by Christines256 3 in Weddings

2006-12-26 18:26:08 · 11 answers · asked by ld 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-26 18:25:51 · 38 answers · asked by the sun should burn out tommorow 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-12-26 18:25:48 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Have you ever cheated, and was it worth it? if not would you if you were attracted to some one else immensley and could not shake the feeling?

2006-12-26 18:25:43 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Is it wierd if a girl calls a guy.. hun or babe.. or should a guy only call a girl those?

2006-12-26 18:24:33 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-12-26 18:24:10 · 11 answers · asked by Briar S 1 in Friends

if you know they have a history of cheating on someone. also this person broke up with his girlfriend of two years to just because he had feelings for my best friend. If so do you have any ideas how i can convince my friend not to date them. she wont listen to me. she thinks he has changed and wont do the same to her. so please give me ideas so my best friend isnt hurt.

2006-12-26 18:23:59 · 5 answers · asked by Pirate84 1 in Friends

Earlier today i ask my fiance why he didn't spend christmas with me and our 2mo daughter he said he didn't feel good his throat was sore etc. I said my throat hurt to but it's alright for me to be around her. I'm like this was her first christmas. He said so what she will have more, it was just another day, and that he been thru first christmases with his other daughters,but i was like she is not them. I said if she ever ask let her know that you were being selfish and your other daughters had you at their first christmas. I swear i wasn't nagging, i wasn't fussing, i was just hurt that he talk so nasty like. Yall ready he told me women like me are why men don't c their kids that hurt,i'm like, like me, what a woman that is patient, 1that don't cuss you out, or disrespect u, 1that has showed unconditional love and he said don't call him unless its a emergency but by 2morrow he will apologize becuz he was sick. How wood u handle this please help. I am just about fed up.

2006-12-26 18:23:26 · 6 answers · asked by k2u 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-12-26 18:23:11 · 5 answers · asked by sean_jump2003 1 in Weddings

2006-12-26 18:22:33 · 18 answers · asked by *sexy mocha* 4 in Marriage & Divorce

wants to hang out with me. Which is kinda weird because the two of us haven't hung out in a while. He has a girlfriend by the way. I just came in from school for the holidays and we were talking online the other day and he said he wanted to hang out for "old time sake" and he told me to think of something to do. Should i even hang out with him, and if i do what should we we do?? Some advice would be nice. thanks!

2006-12-26 18:22:03 · 12 answers · asked by jennifer h 1 in Friends

I was told by a male friend that men who have been sexually promiscuous in the past will be less likely to cheat in the future, because they experienced what they wanted sexually and now can settle down. Is this true? Is there more to it?

2006-12-26 18:22:02 · 20 answers · asked by Kritikopoula 1 in Other - Family & Relationships