Is marriage a source of happiness and bliss or a bundle of problems which may unfold lateron?

Question

Can there be sprit of accomodation and smooth reconcilation between partners to
continue the marriage in modren cultures as we see in india or other oriental cultures?

Answer 1

You can never tell when you get married, it depends on the couple and how hard they both work at it, but even in the best of marriages there will always be times when the 'bundle of problems' raises its ugly head. I was married for 10 years and there were more problems than bliss, but that was because we wernt compatible and would always argue. My Mum and Dad were happily married for 36 years, then suddenly my Mum went off with someone else. Like I said, you can never tell.

Our culture is completely different to that of India and other Oriental countries, we don't have the same family closeness as they do with extended family for a start, and there is no shame in getting divorced in our culture, where in some others divorce is not something that would be considered even in the worst of marriages because of the shame is brings on the whole family.

Answer 2

Marriage in most cases can be a source of happiness and bliss but inevitably the gloss does go off over a period of time. If the marriage was based on sex and sex alone then it is doomed unless a new feeling takes over. If the marriage is on a firmer foundation then when the sex part reduces the friendship part subsides it. Enjoying each others company, talking, yes actually talking to each other, enjoying the same pass times etc. Among all this the sex becomes making love and enjoying each other to the full. There will be sticky patches but doing all these things, especially the talking will help you through them. Finally, without questioning you must allow your partner their own space and not be in each others pockets the whole time. Then respect each other.
Happy New Year.

Answer 3

You have to have a sense of humour at all times and both see the funny side of everything but never take your marriage for granted always work on it and you don't always have to agree with the same things and if a difference of opinion comes about then talk about it but always get back on track and never stop telling her you love her and always hug one another and above all be happy and being married to the right person is heaven its your life and when alas she's not here anymore after 65 years I can look back at all those wonderful years together and look at our wonderful family right through to 18 great grandchildren, a wonderful life with a wonderful lady

Answer 4

It's both, but most people seem to prefer being married to being single. You both have to enter into the marriage with sincere hearts, wanting it to work. If one of you doesn't want it to work, then no matter how hard the other tries, the marriage is probably doomed.

Married people live longer, are more healthy and have more successful lives in terms of career, social life and material wealth. They are also more able to bounce back after a setback, having someone at home who is always on your side is a real source of strength. I would be nothing without my beloved.

Answer 5

Hi Suresh, I think marriage stinks. Most of all men want to do, is control you,and tell you what to do. I was in a controlling marriage,and was not allow to have my friends over. If i wanted to go visit one of my friends,he would say, something terrible about them,and then i wasn't allow to go.He had no trust what so ever. You cannot have a marriage without trust, it just doesn't work.I would say,marriage is a bundle of problems which will unfold later on. A person that has been there. Oh, i will be divorce in Jan.15 2007.

Clowmy

Answer 6

Both? My marriage is mostly happy and runs along smoothly, but there are times when our 'bundle of problems' unfold. I think this is true in all marriages and it is the ones who can work it out that make it back to being happy and smooth. Most of our 'bundle of problems' is because we dont' see eye to eye on things and have a hard time explaining the way we see them. Once we hash that out, things are quite peaceful

Answer 7

Marriage is created by mankind. No matter whom says it either wise, a human being wrote each new version of the bible, and what ever it says about marriage.

Feelings between two people will Only remain loving , if there intent is upon there love of each other, instead of what they do not like about each other.

Everything depends upon one s point of view.

What ever One s focus is , that determines there reality.

And if the person they are with is focused on the same vision, then they will remain happy with each other, if not, then they will not and its time for change.

Answer 8

Marriage is a mixed bag of blessings and struggles. It can be a great source of happiness and comfort at times yet very frustrating at other times.

As with any relationship you have to work on your marriage to keep it alive. I don't think any marriage is always perfect. There are arguments and communication is very important. I think compromise is also necessary on both sides. It's when one or both parties give up on working things out that marriages fail. Unfortunately I think some couples give up to easy because divorce is an easy way out for some people rather than taking the time to work things out...

I do believe in reconciliation. I have been married for nine years. We have had our troubles and yet we have found ways to work on them and deal with them as they arise...

Answer 9

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Answer 10

You have two choices in life:
You can stay single and be miserable, or get married and wish you were dead.

At a cocktail party, one woman said to another, "Aren't you wearing your wedding ring on the wrong finger?"
"Yes, I am. I married the wrong man."

A lady inserted an ad in the classifieds:"Husband Wanted".
Next day she received a hundred letters. They all said the same thing: "You can have mine."

When a woman steals your husband, there is no better revenge than to let her keep him.

A woman is incomplete until she is married. Then she is finished.

A little boy asked his father, "Daddy, how much does it cost to get married?"
Father replied, "I don't know son, I'm still paying."

A young son asked,"Is it true Dad, that in some parts of Africa a man doesn't know his wife until he marries her?"
Dad replied, "That happens in every country, son."

Then there was a woman who said,"I never knew what real happiness was until I got married, and by then, it was too late."

Marriage is the triumph of imagination over intelligence.

If you want your spouse to listen and pay strict attention to every word you say - talk in your sleep.

Just think, if it weren't for marriage, men would go through life thinking they had no faults at all.

First guy says, "My wife's an angel!"
Second guy remarks, "You're lucky, mine's still alive."

A Woman's Prayer: Dear Lord, I pray for:
"Wisdom, To understand a man , to Love and to forgive him , and for patience, for his moods. Because Lord, if I pray for Strength, I'll just beat him to death."