Have you ever cheated, and was it worth it? if not would you if you were attracted to some one else immensley and could not shake the feeling?
2006-12-26 18:25:43 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It might feel good at the time but when it's over, everything is ruined. EVERYTHING.
2006-12-26 18:28:05 · answer #1 · answered by waxingtheturtle2 4 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Yeah, I've cheated. My boyfriend and I were both incredibly busy in our own seperate lives that we barely got to see each other. I was having some family issues and he simply didn't care enough to make time to talk to me about them. I was on a business trip and met an associate that I was instantly attracted to -- not only physically but also his personality. We ended up going out for drinks after the business meeting and I broke down and spilled everything out about the problems I was having. This guy was actually a very good listener and gave me some great advice. Next thing you know ... one thing lead to another ... Me and this other guy never went on to have a long term affair or anything, but he gave me what I needed at the time ... which was attention and affection. It made me realize that I deserved to have someone like that all the time and my boyfriend and I broke up.
Turns out, the other guy ended up being married with 4 kids. Oh well. I still managed to figure out I was wasting my time with my boyfriend and now I have moved on to someone I love very much!
2006-12-26 18:33:13 · answer #2 · answered by ♦Hollywood's Finest♦ 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First question you must ask yourself is are you really attracted to the other person? what kind of attraction is it? Does the person you are currently with not meet your expectations as a partner? If not then you should not waste his/her chances to find someone who will treat them with the respect they deserve.. Cheating is another word for cowardice and selfishness.. Too much of a coward to let go of what u have in case the new thing doesnt work out, too selfish to have to find out then be alone.. someone wants the best of both worlds and inevitably someone undeserving gets hurt. Think of the consequences..
2006-12-26 18:37:44 · answer #3 · answered by ultimate_emchick 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow sweet heart its only worth it feel you dont love the person that your in a relashionship with the sex is bad you dont conversate or go out and communicate and if the other guy can top all of the above pluse more .its not worth it when your man does all of the above pluse more and you no he actually loves you and u no he wount ever hurt you its just you aint ready to stay faitful and is afarid to change or afarid of commitment with him and is a nenfo you need more than one partner or one man just cant satisfi you so think about all of this befor you make a sudden move.
2006-12-26 18:45:23 · answer #4 · answered by ebony 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well i have been with ym boyfriend for 1 year and 4 months and i wouldnt even dare have a thought about cheatin on him he means too much to me. He has done so much for me and i wouldn't want to loose the love of my life to some dumb stupid ***** just wanting to **** a girl. MY boyfriend means the world to me and i have never developed a crush for another guy and i have never met anyone like him. But to me i don't think nothin is worth loosin my boyfriend over i love him too much
2006-12-26 18:34:30 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think i'm no longer properly worth a famous individual because of the fact i've got not gotten one (i do no longer ask sturdy questions so that is comprehensible, i would not provide my questions a famous individual the two), yet i could be properly worth ten factors because of the fact I actually are starting to be to be terrific solutions
2016-10-28 11:03:20 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have never cheated in body only in mind,and was accused of actually doing it..was punished. It was not worth it.. Maybe if I had done the act I was accused of.
2006-12-26 20:10:30 · answer #7 · answered by knowlegeSeeker 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
YES I DID CHEAT ONCE YEARS AGO AND I FELT HORRIBLE THE LYING AND DECEPTION...IVE ALSO BEEN CHEATED ON...AND IT FEELS WORSE, IF U EVER REALLY CARED ABOUT THE PERSON U ARE WITH AND U HAVE THE URGE TO CHEAT, BREAK-UP W/ THE PERSON BUT DONT CHEAT BECAUSE THE RELATIONSHIP IS NEVER THE SAME...TRUST IS EVERYTHING AND ONCE ITS BROKEN ITS ALL DOWN HILL FROM THERE...
2006-12-26 18:31:49 · answer #8 · answered by kelly 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Ultimately you are the sufferer. You are torturing yourself. To shake the feeling is not easy, so let it drain out of your system slowly.
2006-12-26 18:36:05 · answer #9 · answered by ANU U 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
this is the way one woman told me some time ago...
sex was so different when i was a virgin
sex was so different when i was a tease
sex was so different when i was easy
sex was so different when i was a sl.ut
sex was so different when i was a whore
life was so different when i became an adulteress
interesting huh
2006-12-26 18:34:12 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cheaters and adulterers are one of the lowest forms of human beings. I would only place child molesters lower than cheaters and adulterers. They have absolutely no regard for other people and only care about themselves.
2006-12-26 18:29:45 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋