Earlier today i ask my fiance why he didn't spend christmas with me and our 2mo daughter he said he didn't feel good his throat was sore etc. I said my throat hurt to but it's alright for me to be around her. I'm like this was her first christmas. He said so what she will have more, it was just another day, and that he been thru first christmases with his other daughters,but i was like she is not them. I said if she ever ask let her know that you were being selfish and your other daughters had you at their first christmas. I swear i wasn't nagging, i wasn't fussing, i was just hurt that he talk so nasty like. Yall ready he told me women like me are why men don't c their kids that hurt,i'm like, like me, what a woman that is patient, 1that don't cuss you out, or disrespect u, 1that has showed unconditional love and he said don't call him unless its a emergency but by 2morrow he will apologize becuz he was sick. How wood u handle this please help. I am just about fed up.
2006-12-26 18:23:26 · 6 answers · asked by k2u 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
You better do samething to him. he will know how you felt first place.
1= won't be there for his birthday
2= won't be there for valentine day
3= won't be there when he need you in the bed
he will miss you. LOL
2006-12-26 19:14:45 · answer #1 · answered by foxxmay2001 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say he isn't going to marry you.
He isn't in love with you.
He isn't serious about being a family with you, period.
If you let him treat you this way, you will continue to do so.
Call off the engagement, get your life together. File for child support and set visitation and get on with your life to find someone that will love and respect you and your baby.
I wish I would had this advice long ago.
Good luck!
2006-12-27 03:51:01 · answer #2 · answered by LC 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldnt put up with it. hes wrong for not wanting to be there for you guys during your 1st daughters christmas.
2006-12-27 02:30:47 · answer #3 · answered by ~*Jenny*~ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Men like him use those kinds of excuses, because their self-centered, selfish, coward, little men and your child deserves better period!!!!!!! End of discussion.
2006-12-27 02:34:48 · answer #4 · answered by Diana J 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would have never had a kid to the man. Shouldn't have put yourself in that situation.
2006-12-27 02:26:10 · answer #5 · answered by waxingtheturtle2 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He sounds like a jerk, follow your instincts
2006-12-27 02:26:11 · answer #6 · answered by caralinar 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋