wants to hang out with me. Which is kinda weird because the two of us haven't hung out in a while. He has a girlfriend by the way. I just came in from school for the holidays and we were talking online the other day and he said he wanted to hang out for "old time sake" and he told me to think of something to do. Should i even hang out with him, and if i do what should we we do?? Some advice would be nice. thanks!
2006-12-26 18:22:03 · 12 answers · asked by jennifer h 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
unless you know he will not try anything funny with you i would hang, but only if you feel ok with just hanging. think of how the girl would feel if she knew? are they serious? go with what u know, and ur gut. good luck and have a happy new year!
2006-12-26 18:38:49 · answer #1 · answered by jocelynnicolep 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe he likes you as a person?
How do you feel about him, do you like him as a person?
HE might be missing the good loving that he used to get. be careful.
Most men think that they can get the ex into the sack with out too much trouble. Is this what you want?
Could be that he just wants to see you and talk a bit also. you have to discern his motives.
Meet in public. No dark movie theaters.
Bowling? Ice skating? something like that should be a good backdrop for a nice afternoon with an old friend.
2006-12-26 18:26:58 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he has a girlfriend, then it is not appropriate for him to "hang out" with you. How would you have felt about him wanting to be with a past girlfriend when the two of you were together? It is not fair to her OR to you because he sounds as though he wants to "have his cake and eat it too." No, do not socialize with him. Move on with your life which it sounds as though you are doing because you are in school, presumably college. Good for you!
2006-12-26 18:29:57 · answer #3 · answered by jom 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He has a girlfriend but wants to hang out with his ex-girlfriend. Doesn't anyone else see trouble brewing or is it just me?
Stay away from him! Unless of course he invites his girlfriend along. Then you will know what he really has up his sleeve.
2006-12-26 18:32:02 · answer #4 · answered by †♥mslamom♥† 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he honestly misses you. If he has a girlfriend, he probably doesn't miss the relationship, but he may be seeking a friendship with you. I say give him a little bit of a chance and do something really casual with him- like something you do with a buddy. No movies or anything like that.
2006-12-26 18:43:12 · answer #5 · answered by Xenia 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you two get along, then I see no reason why you shouldn't hang out. There's nothing wrong with being friends with an ex if he isn't a jerk. Just grab a bite to eat, or whatever you typically do with your male friends.
2006-12-26 18:24:28 · answer #6 · answered by Esma 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
just don't .. he may have some problems with his gf... feels som loneliness,,,, and wanna have some happy times... so it's upto u ... if u wanna do it for the old times.... and if u believe it deserves... just go.... but don't eat with him .... just have a walk ... or a set in a park.... but gurl .... "DO NOT EAT WITH HIM"
coz if u did he'll ask u for more....
u o me a good answer if he stoped at the request of hunging out!!!
2006-12-26 18:45:24 · answer #7 · answered by blues_iris 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
question, do u still have feelings 4 him cause it sound like you do. Answer that question and if you do, you shouldn't go hang, unless you know u can control yourself.
2006-12-26 18:37:39 · answer #8 · answered by a good listener 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont hang out alone with him. Definately not... bad things happen..
2006-12-26 18:33:13 · answer #9 · answered by Christines256 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you still like him as a friend? If so just do something that is comfortable
2006-12-26 18:34:48 · answer #10 · answered by caralinar 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋