theres this boy that i like and he told me that he
likes me too. one of my friend likes him too but she doesn't now that i like him thats why she told me.we went to a party and he kissed her so later on he kissed me. time passed and my friend told me he had kissed her, i felt so bad inside but i didnt let her see it because she doesnt know i lik ehim too. instead i was like oh thats good. i like him but as soon as my friend told me she liked him i decided to put myself to the side so she can have him even though he likes me. i dont know what to do. should i tell him i like him and go for his love or should i leave him to my friend? what should i do? tell him my feelings or what?wouldn't that be messed up to my friend? i also told him tahat i wasn't no toy for him to be kissing my friend and then me. did i do right? im so confused right now.i really want to be with him
2006-12-26 18:29:02 · 13 answers · asked by maderline_socute 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
No, You will be breaking the code of friendship! Every friend you have from now on will not trust you! And that boy, he will break your heart, your friends heart and so many more other girls heart in the future. YOU'LL ALWAYS HAVE TO WONDER WHAT OTHER GIRL HE IS SNEAKING AND KISSING BESIDES YOU,. YOU'LL ALWAYS FEEL INSECURE & JEALOUS. That may scar you from any other love in your life YEARS FROM NOW, YOU WILL NOT TRUST GUYS AGAIN.(EVEN YOUR HUSBAND THAT MANY YEARS LATER). Trust me on that one! So you will be gaining nothing with him, only loosing a friend. NOT WORTH IT!!!
2006-12-26 18:30:48 · answer #1 · answered by char__c is a good cooker 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No way. If this guy is kissing various girls on the same night he probably isn't looking for a long term meaningful relationship. You will eventually lose the guy, and more importantly lose the friend. Not worth it at all, especially since you knew (it sounds like it anyway) beforehand that she liked him.
2006-12-26 18:33:30 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask ur friend if she would be ok with that. And if that guys kissing all these different girls, then dont date him. If ur friend gets pissed off and leaves, then u got a guy all to urself. If shes ok with it, then u have a friend and a guy. Its kind of a win/win, win/lose situation, but either way there's a win in it. Or you could ask that guy why he was kissing your friend for in the first place.
2006-12-26 19:39:23 · answer #3 · answered by anonymous 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go out with him if you are willing to lose your friendship. He's not worth losing a good friend over though....he's kissing you both and playing you both. Find another guy for yourself and warn your friend that her guy is a player.
2006-12-26 18:35:32 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
your last line <.i really want to be with him> sums it up. Go for him if your friend trips out then ma bey there not as good of a friend as you think she is. Or you can let her have him and end up not being friends with her out of jealousy. It may be a loose loose but its better to have had and lost than end up the jealous b@tch!
2006-12-26 18:36:53 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Magic 8 Ball says, "Not a Good Idea."
2006-12-26 18:31:14 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just try to keep your options open! There are plenty of men out there!
2006-12-26 18:34:51 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should talk to him about it. if hes kissing two girls in one night and saying he like you noth them hes the one with the problem here
2006-12-26 18:31:37 · answer #8 · answered by your wonderwall 5 · 0⤊ 2⤋
dont bother with him, there are plenty of others to catch out there!
2006-12-26 18:31:23 · answer #9 · answered by jocelynnicolep 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
go out with him don't go out with him who cares you talk to much about nothing
2006-12-26 18:34:39 · answer #10 · answered by TBONE 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋