about a year ago i started talking to this guy that is really good friends with my guy friend. me and this guy started talking more and more. then he started to like me but i didnt really like him that much, just as a friend. and then my best friend started talking to him because of me..then she started like him and now he kinda likes her. but now i like him, alot. and i dont want anyone to know because i dont want to hurt my best friend. and im really mean to him now because im mad at him for liking her.what should i do?
2006-12-26 18:32:13 · 14 answers · asked by lcw 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think you only like him now because somebody else likes him grow up!
2006-12-26 18:36:12 · answer #1 · answered by caralinar 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I think if you look at him real hard (without your friend around) you'll see that you really don't like him your just jealous that your friend may be taking a friend off you because now they spend a lot of time together and don't really include you as much... you'll see he's really only just a friend and you can find better some place else... dont be mean to him... he has no idea whats going on... thats a little cruel? hehehe.
2006-12-26 18:44:13 · answer #2 · answered by lorfie 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You're mad at him coz you've missed the chance. That's okay. He is not the ONLY guy in town. Accept the fact that you and this guy are not meant for each other. Stop being mean to him. You can do better than that. Then move on.
All the best.
2006-12-26 18:42:57 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
The question here is really DO you really like this guy? Ok, give you benefit of the doubt, you like him, so what? Sometimes, we make mistakes, and sometimes we can make changes to it when we realise it. But sometimes, it does not work that way. Grow up lady, what you have decided to let go when you had the chance will be gone. Someone else will slot in that vacant position. I feel that you should treat the both of them nicely, give them your blessings, and get on with life, there is no use fretting over spilt milk
2006-12-26 18:51:23 · answer #4 · answered by glastnot 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
what the hell does, "he's surely grimy" advise? grimy as in 'i dont bathe and that i scent like rotting fish' or 'im a pervert'? those 2 are the two undesirable, yet very distinctive. yet considering that he touches your *** whilst no longer relationship, that seems somewhat weird and wonderful to me. i could see if the thoughts die off. did they basically start up occuring for some reason? in case your individuals do in contrast to him that is going to likely be no longer uncomplicated to have a relationship with him and them one by one with out somebody getting mad.
2016-10-28 11:03:42 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow. You've really got yourself in a bind there. My advice is to let life take its course and just leave to problem alone to fan out. I know the feeling in you conflict. Your resolution is not what your going to expect. Just a heads up. Best of luck!
--bowski--
2006-12-26 18:36:48 · answer #6 · answered by Bowski 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First u didot like the guy, and now u suddenly started liking him????? how is dat??????? may be u are just feeling a bit lost becuze u freind is getting along well with him. i think dis is a passing phase.
2006-12-26 18:45:10 · answer #7 · answered by sonia 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He liked you, but you didn't like him? Then your best girlfriend liked him and he liked her back and now you are jealous? Sounds like you need to back away.
You had the opportunity to be with him, but you turned him down. Don't get angry or be mean just because they could be hooking it up. You have no word in this situation.
2006-12-26 18:39:34 · answer #8 · answered by poorprae 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
first give this a thought..maybe you like him because he's giving someone else that attention that you like ..second of all if you REALLY do like him..mention it to your best friend say "hey you know ive really tried avoiding this but you know that guy well ever since he liked me I have liked him also but I was just too scared to say it, and now you like it and i'm feeling bad but i cant help but like him cuz ive liked him for so long."..itll work well if she's your best friend she will give him up or agree to the fact that neither of you pursue him. good luck!
2006-12-26 18:37:18 · answer #9 · answered by yourgirl11 1 · 1⤊ 2⤋
just tell both of them u like him. Dont have these feelings bottle up inside. tell them and get it in the open. good luck and have a happy holidays
2006-12-26 18:35:10 · answer #10 · answered by Joho 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋