I am not the best of friends with the guy, but did know him first...but he DOES treat her like crap. She says she has love for him, but has never really been IN love with him. Then why marry him right? Well she thought no one would ever come along. She wasn't the prom queen in HS, but she's gone to the gym, and is super hot now!! They are each other's only real boy/girlfriend, intimate partner etc...She's had feelings for me, and eventually the feelings grew. We have fallen in love with each other, even though I was quite reluctant. I am a fellow of divorce. so I know how it feels (guys POV) so I made sure it was real by letting her relocate 5 states away for 6 monthes. We talk everyday 3-4 times a day, and I can honestly say that I am in love with her. She seems reluctant now that I have relocted to be with her. She want to divorce, but wants an opportune moment, so I let the holidays pass. How do I get the ball rolling without an ultimatum feeling...Someone please help!!!
2006-12-26
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