the girl i broke up with is at it again. she has been requesting that we meet for lunch sometime this week. she told me that she just wants to have a chat and catch up. we have not seen each other since march this year and i have moved on with someone else and she has indicated that she has been on dates with other people since that time.
she had a hard time breaking up with me and couldn't accept it. it was her fault we had to break up. she felt sorry but i could not continue with the relationship.
she sent me an sms on christmas day just wishing me a merry christmas. she then later called me at night that day asking to mee t with me. she said she just wanted to have a chat and just catch up; i didn't see a problem with that until she later sent a message sayingthat she missed me and she still loves me. now i'm not sure about meeting her because i'm afraid she will try to get back with me and basically try something. what do you think?
2006-12-26 18:20:21 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i dont think its a good idea to meet up with her anyway. she gets too needy and i don't want to be taken advantage of. im working on my new relationship and i dont want to mess it up because if i do become friends with her the phone calls will not stop.
2006-12-26 22:11:24 · update #1
DO NOT MEET HER! If you do and your new girlfriend finds out then you will be in quite the pickle....and for what? Tell her that she is a nice woman but that you are seeing someone else and that YOU would find it emotionally dishonest to go to dinner with her and that you will NOT be meeting her for dinner or anything else. IF you dont do this you will be sorry! Remember fatal attaction!
END IT
before it ends you
2006-12-26 20:17:59 · answer #1 · answered by lisa s 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think you should not go to see her. I am having the same problem with my ex girldfreind, and we broke up a year ago, if you let it linger on it will. My advice, cut it off now, if you want to, cut it off totally. that is the best thing to do. It hurts but thats the way love is I guess :(
2006-12-26 18:26:14 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You need to put closure to the situation. You need to let her know that it is over between you. You are leading her on by taking her calls. You might need to consider changing your phone number. Put her behind you so that you both can move on.
2006-12-26 18:40:19 · answer #3 · answered by gurly 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
she needs closure. meet up with her and give her that. and make sure you set the mood of being platonic friends or else she'll think otherwise.
good luck :)
2006-12-26 18:53:57 · answer #4 · answered by Stephanie M. Ong 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Be friends with her dude. If she can't accept that, then no need to continue relationshp. What do you think?
2006-12-26 18:27:09 · answer #5 · answered by FearDragons 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋