2006-12-26 18:11:53 · 14 answers · asked by missprissy1004 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Marriage is easiest when you put a little legwork into it. Make sure you have the same priorities, values, character, etc. If you're a spender & your spouse is a saver...constant problems. If your top priority is family and his is fun/friends...trouble. If honor is important to you but ethics aren't high on his list...doesn't work. Make sure there's more to it than physical attraction and the raw, hormonal connection that happens at the beginning of a relationship.
2006-12-26 18:29:44 · answer #1 · answered by DivaDynamite 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
No, it's hard work, but it's very rewarding if you want it to be. Women and Men are very different from each other and finding that happy middle ground at times can be difficult. Also when two people come together who were raised differently (and we all are to some degree or another) it's hard to break habits, and beliefs on the "best way to do things" when you have been subconsciously trained one way your whole life. You also find out how much you are like your mother if your a girl, or your father if your a guy when you get married, which can be interesting. You may not have those feeling you had for each other when you were young and in love, but instead you will develop a deeper more committed love for one another the more you work as a team in both your success and failures.
2006-12-27 02:21:17 · answer #2 · answered by EJB 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Marriage is never easy but doesn't have to be hard either. To make a good marriage both must be patient and understanding. Both must give 110% to the marriage. Give and take equaly. Have good communication skills with eachother. get to know your partner well before getting married and it should be fine. A good marriage is bliss if you can reach it.
2006-12-27 02:43:41 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Marriage is not easy at all, but if you find the right person and have a healthy relationship and the will to sail the ship of marriage, the couple will be able to have a good and smooth life.
2006-12-27 02:39:32 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Marriage is the hardest thing I believe I have ever done! It takes HARD work to make it! And I mean hard work by both parties involved, one person can't be the only one working at it!
Once you get your routines workes out, it can be amazing and comforting, but you have to know that it is always going to take some work! It's never going to be a drive down "Easy Street"!
Good luck!
2006-12-27 03:05:18 · answer #5 · answered by jen 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Marriage is a partnership built on emotions, and emotions is no way to run a business.
When marriages fall apart we think we chose the wrong person, no it is not the person it is institution of marriage where someone will fail expections
2006-12-27 02:45:43 · answer #6 · answered by Ibredd 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It all depends on who answers this question, but it has it's easy moments and it's hard moments. all of which help make or break the marriage. You have to maintain a certain equality to it other wise it will fall apart, plus you have to maintain a good balance of trust in there.
2006-12-27 02:14:40 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Marriage is easy. Unfortunately people and life are complicated.
2006-12-27 02:15:03 · answer #8 · answered by Carole 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It is wonderful, but probably not easy, if you find the right person.
I wasn't so lucky. My marriage was awful...all 2 1/2 DECADES of it.
2006-12-27 02:15:02 · answer #9 · answered by maamu 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
if marriage is easy you're not doing it right.
Not to make light of it at all, but it's true. You get out of a marriage what you put into it. It's constant maintenance and support...communication....
patience.
Never ever easy, but so worth the effort
2006-12-27 02:18:07 · answer #10 · answered by ??? LadyBoyd ??? 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋