able to support myself and my kids in a work-at-home situation so they wouldn't need to be with a sitter. I wouldn't mind livig in a small mobile home or large motorhome, but I have few skills and terrible credit. I read tarot cards but don't like charging people (& I'm not even a little psychic into my own situation). I am a sucky slow typist and even this message is taking forever.I am smart and likeable and get along with people almost as soon as I meet them. I just really need to take a year or two off to clear my thoughts before my kids are too old to give me the freedom. I love my husband but he is unreliable ( hence my decision to try singledom), so I don't want to be 100% reliant on child support. I am young and so are my kids I just want a fresh start. I would love a big nice rv, but since it is considered a luxuey my credit won't allow it. I am not battered or abused just ready for change.I don't want to be on welfare, so I need some intelligent answers.
2006-12-26 18:50:45 · 18 answers · asked by haniels_host 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
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2006-12-26 19:17:27 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
I don't know of to many strip joints located in a mountainous region other than Colorado (Denver), you have to have a great body though. You said you don't have very many skills and you don't like charging people so being a prostitute won't work either. Did you know that you are entitled to half of whatever you and your husband have acquired. I know, how about a sugar daddy? He'll take care of you give you money and all you have to do is put out (sounds great huh?) whenever he wants, of course he'll be much older and be well established in life (but then you don't mind older men do you?). We can be a little perverted at times but all in all we're better than what you have. We are good talkers to, we can talk smack all day long as long as your giving it up for the cause, we like the young stuff. Okay now that I've laid out a little bullshit for you, I'm not to far off and you need to think about your worldly decisions (The key word here is children); I don't care how unhappy you are make the best of the situation until those kids are at least eighteen, you have some serious mothering to do or you will end up just as I was speaking. Go to marriage counseling and see if that may help? Remember you got yourself into this predicament not the kids and you married your husband for better or worse and if this is the worst it's not so bad. Please take serious thought for your kids sake! Hope you are listening!
2006-12-26 19:29:26 · answer #2 · answered by beamer 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If the only thing you want is change then you can do that with your husband by your side. I wouldn't advise you to leave your husband just because you want change in your life. Talk to him and let him understand how you feel and what you want maybe he will be of assistance. Going away from home with two children and no job is not a good idea. But i would advise you to make the change you want of getting a job or whatever. According to you your husband is a good guy and its not that he is abusing you but just being irresponsible. Please don't make decision without thinking it through time and time again and make sure you are doing the right thing for you and your children.
Good luck
2006-12-26 19:03:28 · answer #3 · answered by auntsid 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You love your husband, he is the father of your children, you are not battered or abused but just want a change...well, aren't you the selfish one. Taking your kids away from their dad to live in a remote mountain village sounds like a real mature thing to do. Why don't you just stay put and work this out with your husband. He may be unreliable but you are illogical.
2006-12-26 19:07:31 · answer #4 · answered by Santa's Elf 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think you need to pursue some MAJOR introspections! Are you even prepared for life period, let alone trying to support yourself and your kids without a skill. Tarot ain't gonna get you anywhere, even in Southern California. Make a plan, get a skill, work your plan, make a better life, then decide if you really want a do-over on your choices. And I am being very generous regarding what I really think.
2006-12-26 19:04:47 · answer #5 · answered by PartyTime 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
How are you going to make a living in a remote village?
I think this shows that you are really anti-social.
What type of life for your kids is living in a RV?
What type of education will they get when you put them in that situation?
You concerns in life changing decisions should first be for your children's well being.
I think you should put the bong down and go get a real job.
Maybe that will help your credit also.
2006-12-26 19:25:56 · answer #6 · answered by Red 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I guess I must reply with a question. Where do you live and how do you propose to get to this mountain village? Secondly, how old are the kids? They will need schooling and things of this nature. If your husband is not reliable, then you should have a nice little chat with him and explain the meaning of responsibility. I hope you find what you are looking for.
2006-12-26 19:03:18 · answer #7 · answered by Scottyboy 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Let me understand you correctly...........
You want to live in a trailer???? If so, you do not have to go to a remote mountain village for that, just go to a park, hence the definition of trailer park.
You sound pretty screwed without your old man, you had better hang with him a little while longer and consider going back to school or something. That way you will be better prepared to care for yourself and children, with out him and without having to live in a trailer park.
2006-12-26 18:57:33 · answer #8 · answered by Staci C 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You sound like you are a wreck really. I feel VERY bad for your children. I would hope you would take a real good look at your life and make your decisions about whats next in favour of your children. They didnt ask to be here and it is your obligation to do what is right for them. I would do whatever it is you have to do to have your kids in the most loving caring safe functional enviroment as you posibly can.
2006-12-26 18:54:51 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 0⤋
HOw the heck can you support yourself without any real skills? Stay with your husband and seek marital therapy. A mobile home is Southern California? You haven't thought any of this out, have you?!!
2006-12-26 18:55:03 · answer #10 · answered by boredperv 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
there's a loophole. it works for youngsters yet perchance not childrens, im not completely confident. once you progression your loved ones in a house. Have the person click on the paper and choose discover own place. whilst the reveal screen comes up asking whos shifting with this sim, decide on the different adults so all it somewhat is still are the adolescents and childrens.
2016-12-11 16:44:19 · answer #11 · answered by gagliano 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋