2006-12-26 17:23:19 · 17 answers · asked by rajeshwari r 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Get over it and move on.
2006-12-26 17:24:07 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Honey I've been there and it doesn't end well, at least it didn't for me. The best advice I can give u is move on as soon as you can and I know it sounds so much easier than it actually is. There are so many people in this world if he doesn't love u someone else will. It's not ment to be and it's okay. Good luck with that it's a very complicated situation, and many people don't understand that but I do!
2006-12-26 17:26:37 · answer #2 · answered by Amata555 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I highly doubt that you love him. Love is a simple and great thing albeit it also is something that needs to be developed. If he does not love you back, I doubt the relationship was ever developed, therefore degrading, holding you back, and therefore meaningless.
It's always hard to move on, but if you are indeed in love, you would be more considerate and thoughtful to this person than yourself. If you love him and he does not love you back, you should move on, as that would show that your so called 'love' is not lust, and therefore has meaning.
In retrospect, you've probably had the feeling that you're in love several times anyway, you'll get over it when you spot someone better. And trust me, you will.
2006-12-26 17:30:35 · answer #3 · answered by John 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i've been there ,you can't make someone love you.if your friends
then all you can do is be a friend. if you pressure him he might run,if you keep it friendly and no pressure he'll be a friend..(well maybe it depends on what kind of person he is)
there someone out there for you there is for everyone,it'll happen
when you least expect it too.go about your life let fate do it's thing.
2006-12-26 17:36:11 · answer #4 · answered by chan72 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well it's hard to realize you need to get over them. It won't be easy and it won't happen in a day. But try to occupy yourself.. maybe with somebody else interesting or sports, crafts, scrapbooking or some other hobby? good luck.
2006-12-26 17:25:53 · answer #5 · answered by ashley 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i have been going through the same thing but i mean he doesnt really love me back. but i suppose the right thing to do is try to find somone else that will love you.
2006-12-26 17:28:14 · answer #6 · answered by ren m 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't MAKE someone love you. So try to get over it . Don't lower yourself, doing things so he knows how you feel.
2006-12-26 17:25:34 · answer #7 · answered by Nancy D 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Dump his ***......you are wasting your time and lowering yourself by staying with him. Love should not have to be forced or tried to be made into something you want. It should come naturally.
2006-12-26 17:34:02 · answer #8 · answered by R M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get used to the fact that you will never be with him, deal with it and move on, can't force someone to love you and that is all there is to it
2006-12-26 17:40:36 · answer #9 · answered by sarah 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cry it out and move on. Don't do what I did and angst over it all through school, missing out on lots of opprotunities with other people.
2006-12-26 17:24:57 · answer #10 · answered by T.M.Y. 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋