Family & Relationships - 20 December 2006

Asked a boy what he thought of my friend and he said she was sweet, I haven't got the chance to speak to him again, but my friend is seriously analysing the word 'sweet' and wanting to know what it could mean ie what way does he like her? Without knowing any background, what do you think that generally means?

2006-12-20 05:41:50 · 10 answers · asked by Lawlotr 1 in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend got XM Radio back in May and he also got rid of it back in May. Well I just found out that he's been getting charged for it. It has been automatically deducted out of his account. So I ask him why and why doesn't he call them and say you want a complete refund. He tells me not to worry about it. That it's only 13 dollars, he doesn't care. But I said 13 dollars adds up. He just says I'll handle it. So he calls and they say okay we'll refund your money, come to find out the refunded only December and he's fine with that. I try to talk to him about it but he says stop nagging him. How is it nagging when it's about money not me asking him to take out the trash everyday. So my question is, Why isn't he really concerned about money being taken out of his account? He says, "It's not like it's 50 dollars a month, it's only 13 dollars." As a woman that makes NO sense at all!!! So men tell me how I, as a woman, can get him to see that he should care about this.

2006-12-20 05:40:50 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am totally obbsessed with this guy i met a few days ago. I can't stop thinking about him. I swear if i don't stop i am going to go crazy!!

how can i stop me thinking about him?!?!?!

2006-12-20 05:40:29 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-12-20 05:40:06 · 18 answers · asked by wildcattan 1 in Singles & Dating

Ok, I know that he is not cheating but he is always lying to me. I wonder if he is doing drugs. Money is disappearing from my walet. My jewelry and then he tells me it wan't him. No one comes to the house. he doesn't work. What more can I do?

2006-12-20 05:39:46 · 27 answers · asked by kayla_lopez_2006 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I am married for the second time. Me and my husband have a two year old and I have an 11 year old from my first marrage. My question is, I have christams traditions that I have been doing with my daughter for years, like I have always taken her to church for christmas eve mass and alway have had christmas morning with opening presents and stockings and then a large christmas breakfast. I have asked my in-laws if they would like to particapate for years and they say it interfears with there traditions of going to grandma's house on christmas eve and getting drunk and playing cards. We go to gradma's house but don't stay for the other activities because it is not something the kids can enjoy. Help what do I do.

2006-12-20 05:39:15 · 12 answers · asked by ohiomontana 2 in Marriage & Divorce

P.U.S.S.Y. ???

2006-12-20 05:38:36 · 37 answers · asked by MsNic 4 in Singles & Dating

My husband came home from work yesterday with a carton of cigs wrapped like a present. He said about five times "Oh, the girls were teasing me and gave me these". I didn't really think anything of it I just thought "Hey! Free smokes!" LOL But all night he kept saying it.

He used to tell me about a girl at work who he always told that she was sexy. That did bother me a bit but it's since been a year and I'm not worried about any of them any more. I know he flirts when he's out. I don't know why but it just doesn't make me angry like it used to.

It might be important to add we haven't had sex for over a year and only been together for three. But I still wonder if he's trying to make me jealous why? After I wouldn't take the bait he seemed a little quiet for the rest of the night, but that's on him because I'm not going to cry because some girls gave him cigs. We are both adults and I'm not going to act otherwise.
What do you think, was he trying to make me jealous?

2006-12-20 05:38:10 · 17 answers · asked by musicpanther67 5 in Marriage & Divorce

My friend is 25 years old and is dating this fat girl and for some reason I hate it. He has never really had a serious girlfriend before so I know that he is just going though that "first gf thing" When they first met they would talk crap about each other and just happened to have sex one night when they were drunk and have been together ever since. (it been 2 years now) She is pretty cool but I always expected my friend and I to find a couple of cool and really attractive girls. We are both good looking and now educated so how could give up "the dream" so easily. They both are just getting fatter and fatter and I feel like we have less in common by the day. What do I do?

2006-12-20 05:37:59 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-12-20 05:37:03 · 31 answers · asked by serf m 2 in Friends

i want to get married but i am divorced and i would like to know if there is any way that i can obtain my origiinal divorce papers free online so i don't have to make a trip to ny please help!!

2006-12-20 05:36:51 · 7 answers · asked by labacana1 1 in Marriage & Divorce

how many people have bad dog.what am i suppose 2 do

2006-12-20 05:36:16 · 2 answers · asked by aaron t 1 in Singles & Dating

A friend of me and my fiancee's husband wants to go to Cairo for six months, he has told her that he will leave her if she doesn't go and they have been married for 5 years. The relationship is constantly on the rocks anyway and they don't have anything of their own, everything even their house was handed to them by the girls mom, but the guy has been talking to his best friend and is dead set on the Cairo trip, so if you were her, would you go?

2006-12-20 05:36:08 · 8 answers · asked by raistlinn55 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I told my wife to leave after finding out that she had been having an affair for a year, she has left and is staying at her mothers, only ten doors up, she has taken my two children with her, I have not seen them for 4 weeks now, it is distroying me, she sent me a text saying that it wasn't her keeping the children from me, they just didn't want to see me, My son and daughter e-mail me when ever she is out, they are both coming over on Christmas day to collect their presents at midday.

What can I say to them, either in a text or e-mail to try to find out what is being said. They only know one side of the story.

I have gone through the usual route of contact orders, but that all takes time.

It's as if she wants me to blow up and cause a fight so she can get an injuction on me.

I'm trying to control my anger, but as Christmas approaches I'm finding it more and more differcult.

2006-12-20 05:36:08 · 16 answers · asked by saxons_uk 1 in Marriage & Divorce

honest kind romantic

2006-12-20 05:36:00 · 3 answers · asked by mohamed abdelkader 1 in Singles & Dating

A close mate recently had a very bad acid trip, in which he cried, screamed, threw up and stripped... He could easily have hurt himself or anyone around him.

Now, I know he's not taking acid for a while but how can I get him to stay off it forever? And I think he's getting pretty bad psychosis and flashbacks now... He keeps calling me but this isnt ideal because I don't know how to solve anything for him. All I've done so far is helped him talk through it, hugged him etc.

Should he see a shrink? Rehab?

2006-12-20 05:35:32 · 13 answers · asked by serf m 2 in Friends

no offense.,.. wouldnt it be gross to see her naked with all the flabs hanging in the side? what about the putrid sweat? strech marks here and there... is this out of desperation or is it true love. Im sure a lot of you will say, maturity.. but come on, do feelings really hide the Flabs??? I meant I cant imagine being with a fat woman. I go to clubs alot with my petite girl and i really wonder how dudes can stand dancing with a fat girl.

2006-12-20 05:35:11 · 19 answers · asked by Kyle 1 in Singles & Dating

who refuses to pay you for babysitting? I watched my sister's baby for her while she worked about fifty hours a week. I started watching him in september, and she paid me for the month of september. Watched him again for the month of october. I was trying to help her out, charging her $1/hr for approx 50 hours a week and she was supposed to pay me at the end of the month. She informed me on the last day that I watched him in oct (the day that she was to pay me) that she couldn't pay me right then (didn't make arangements as to when she would be able to pay me) and had never mentioned not being able to pay me until I told her what the total due was. I later that week told her that I would no longer watch her kid. I did this to help her out as well as my family since I am a SAHM with three kids of my own. She told me around thanksgiving, when I called and asked her about it, that she would pay me when she got paid next (she gets paid every other week)

2006-12-20 05:33:43 · 7 answers · asked by bluekitty8098 4 in Family

2006-12-20 05:33:41 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-12-20 05:33:39 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I'm in a long distance relationship. I've met this guy back in October, and we've been talking since. He is interested in me, and is considering on proposing. But recently, I got upset with him not properly answering me about his true feelings, and told him I can not go on like this forever. He agreed and said that he would contact me when he comes up with a decision, and will come over with his parents to finalize things. But at the same time he said we shouldn't talk during the time being. I'm confused, what does that mean? I want to continue talking to this guy because I really like him, and I DON'T WANT TO LOSE HIM. How do I get him back? Should I call him up, e-mail him, text him? Or would I look desperate?

2006-12-20 05:33:37 · 10 answers · asked by Lost 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-20 05:33:24 · 26 answers · asked by jepboiseid 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Does Tiffany jewelers accept credit cards for large purchases?

2006-12-20 05:33:03 · 16 answers · asked by Mr Q 1 in Weddings

If a guy has an interest in a girl (lets say she has been told she looks rather intimidating by more than one person) and she senses that he is somewhat shy what are the chances that he would actually approach her?

2006-12-20 05:32:45 · 9 answers · asked by explosyv 2 in Singles & Dating

She wants a nice watch,but we have a clock on the stove. Any ideas. She already has me.

2006-12-20 05:32:19 · 19 answers · asked by seahorse 4 in Marriage & Divorce

SHE MOVED TO PONCA CITY OK, FROM BILLINGS, MONTANA IN THE 9TH GRADE, THEN MOVED TO LAKE CHARLES LOUSIANA IN THE 11TH GRADE, HER DAD DIED AROUND THEN, HE WAS WORKING AND TRANSFERED WITH CONOCO, RIP! SHE ALWAYS WANTED TO GO TO FLORIDA UNIVERSITY, RATHER SHE DID OR NOT IDK. PLZ HELP, I HAVEN'T HEARD FROM HERE IN AWHILE AND WONDERING IF HER AND HER PARENTS ARE OK, ALSO, SHE HAD AN OLDER SISTER, THE SISTER IS PROLLY AROUND 33 OR 34 Y/O, MICHELLE IS AROUND 27 OR 28, MAYBE 29 AND GRADUATED AROUND 95, OR 96.

2006-12-20 05:32:01 · 4 answers · asked by Fantasy Sports Guru 2 in Friends

I'm 46, average looking guy, no kids married once for 3 years, own a business, blah blah....so ????

2006-12-20 05:31:10 · 18 answers · asked by dj 4 in Marriage & Divorce

He is fine and calls me often as long as thr's no1 around him the moment some work or somebody comes...he'll refuse 2 take my calls if i ask he'll say im busy "call u later"....this is all ive got for past 1 week. im tired of it. i wnat some importance even though he's busy. but he says everythin's fine...we need nt talk 2 each othr 24 hrs jus cos we love each othr. It shd be in the heart tats all!! wat 2 do??? im very unhappy this way....

2006-12-20 05:31:07 · 16 answers · asked by Ice 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-20 05:31:04 · 13 answers · asked by sddavesd 1 in Singles & Dating

ok so i'm having a new years eve party, but only with about 15 people, one being my boyfriend. He already knows that i'm planning on giving him head, but im not sure where exactly. ok. there will be about 15 people there, and my parents upstairs. here are the options---

[garage]-- heated, and away from the party, but right next to the kitchen, and window facing the drive way.

[car]-- pretty far from the house, cozy, but if my parents came looking, that would be pretty hard to explain.

[my room]-- obvious pro's, but i have to walk right past my parents room, and the stairs are right by where the party would be.


[bathroom]--- privacy, but people might start waiting outside the door, and theres no way getting past them without them noticing two people walking out.


help much?

2006-12-20 05:30:11 · 7 answers · asked by Katy kins 2 in Other - Family & Relationships