Family & Relationships - 20 December 2006

to wear to the office party?....should i play it safe and stick to the little black dress, or shall it be a low back top and trousers with heels?....

2006-12-20 05:06:08 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I had an affair at the beginning of the year. It lasted for a few months. I was out of state working for 8 months and because I was in Mississippi working after the hurricane, there was limited housing and not a lot of time off. My wife and I only saw each 5 times in 8 months. Thats no excuse, I really don't know why I did it. It was stupid, selfish, etc etc. It was the first time I ever cheated, and as God as my witness I will never do that to my wife again. I cant bear to see her hurt the way she has. I could never express all the remorse I feel, but I will spend the rest of our lives trying to make it up. She is a wonderful woman and has found it in her heart to try and forgive me. We are active in church ( I have asked God for his forgiveness, and feel that I have repented my sin), and counseling. I hope she finds it in her heart to forgive me, I HOPE I can forgive myself one day. My question is...as hard as she is trying, she has god days and bad days which I (continued)

2006-12-20 05:06:05 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

So that he uderstands..I like them but can`t live with them...........i need space.

2006-12-20 05:05:24 · 10 answers · asked by mika 1 in Marriage & Divorce

a mutual break-up

2006-12-20 05:05:14 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My school shut down(Paron High) and everyone had to go to differnt schools.my BEST friend goes to Fountain Lake and my other one goes to Perryville.well the "other" stoped talking to me and my best bud and forgot all about us.the only time she wants to talk is when her new friends are gone or busy.and me and my best bud will always talk,but we don't know what to do!for example:the other day people from my old school had a meeting(she was there) but she would not go away from me!i didn't know weather to blow her off or go along with it.PLEASE I NEED SOME ADVICE FROM YOU ALL!!!!!!!!

2006-12-20 05:05:00 · 9 answers · asked by rosy_the_bear 1 in Friends

2006-12-20 05:04:59 · 35 answers · asked by memo 1 in Weddings

2006-12-20 05:04:36 · 11 answers · asked by it.was.your.idea 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-20 05:04:27 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

what do you feel about promises? As in when someone tells you to promise to love you or never cheat ect. I dont do promises for the reason that I just can not promise someone something I cant control. Not that I cant be trusted but I feel my word is enough?

2006-12-20 05:03:33 · 2 answers · asked by D'oh! 5 in Singles & Dating

I have this friend and we have been friends for ...6 years...yeah and well I'm kinda a tom boy... I dont like makeup and I would rather play sports then sit around with a bunch of other girls talking about boys!! Well anyway it never use to bother her that I was like that but now..its like she kinda looks down on me....and she is like in to boys now and she has other friends like that too so when they all get togather I kinda feel really left out and some times the way she acts around them really hurts my feelings even though I dont let it show.
I still love her like a sister but I dont want her to treat me like that....I still want us to be friends like we use to be but she is making it so hard for me to like being around her any more.
What should I do?!?!. I'm really shy so I dont let on when I'm being hurt....I just hold it in but now some times I want to really slap her in the face for being like that.....um......HELP!!!

2006-12-20 05:03:28 · 9 answers · asked by Cat 1 in Friends

2006-12-20 05:03:07 · 5 answers · asked by Rachel T. 2 in Friends

2006-12-20 05:02:36 · 7 answers · asked by Faisal 1 in Singles & Dating

My brother's girlfriend is getting on my ****** nerves. Yesterday i steady talking to my brother and she gets in it like i' m sitting there talking to here. BUT the thing that really pushed my buttons was yesterday my mom got home late and didn't cook dinner. She asks so ****** rudely isn't your mom going to cook today. **** ***** you got a house get the **** out. Somebody please tell me what to do before this girl ends up in the ER.

2006-12-20 05:02:32 · 4 answers · asked by ReyMysterio'swife 2 in Friends

My friends' name is Robert Edwaed Lee. He is fifty-three years old. He has lived in Delano.CA for the past three years. I have reason to believe that he may be incarcerated at this time. If this is true the Lerdo Mimium Security Prison, locacated at Shafter, CA. Should have his info. Please this is a very dear friend to me, I need to find out where he is. Thank-you

2006-12-20 05:02:15 · 4 answers · asked by Joe S 1 in Friends

2006-12-20 05:01:55 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Everytime I call my mom's house her nosey boyfriend tries to get info out of me before turning over the phone to her. I can't stand it. It's to the point where I dread calling because I don't want to deal with him everytime. The conversation goes like this everytime: Me: Hey BlahBlah is my mom there? Him: Yes... Whats wrong? Me: Nothing, why? Him: You sure?? It sounds like something is wrong. Me: No, nothing is..you always say that. Him: Tell me what's wrong. Me: Nothing..I swear! then he finally hands the phone over when he realizes I am not going to give him any info. I can't stand it! It's like he is afraid he will miss something or has to know what we're talking about.

One time I totally cut him off and told him to put my Mom on the phone. But I know that he probably bugged my mom after we hung up asking what my problem was, and he went right back to asking next time. What would you do to stop this? I really don't feel like causing drama by being nasty but I am sick of it.

2006-12-20 05:01:52 · 14 answers · asked by Jenniphur 4 in Family

To live with his real dad and probably will only be coming down twice a year.I love him alot and idk b/c he said he loves me and then took it back bc he said he cant love his bfffl. We both want to do it but....idk bc he is leaving and i love him and were both single and would it ruin our relationship?


email me please samantharoxmyworld@yahoo.com

2006-12-20 05:01:40 · 1 answers · asked by lifereject 1 in Singles & Dating

I promise I can do better than unchained melody.

Once in a lifetime
You were once mine
If I was so foolish to let you off
Then I should have suffered all my life

Give me one more chance baby..
I can prove my everlasting love to you..
You're always on my mind..

For you I'm willing to do anything..
Including learning how to be your slave for life..
So honey this is the moment..
That we pledge our true and honest love to each other...

Love relights my fire
Love makes me swirl along with the wind..
Oh rain..do not take away my flames so fast...

My best buddy has fallen in love with my girlfriend. Now I'm really stuck in a moment...and their parents have already agreed to let the both of them marry..should I elope with my girlfriend?

I LOVE YOU.

2006-12-20 05:01:39 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

2006-12-20 05:01:13 · 8 answers · asked by blahhblahhhblahahh 4 in Singles & Dating

The facts are as such:

-- The first week we were dating he had a big fight with an ex-girlfriend that hurt him badly
-- After three months of not speaking to each other, ex-gf has begun emailing him again
--he admits he still has feelings for her & she for him but says he "chose" me. I believe him, but it still hurts. A lot.

Since we share a computer and both use gmail I regularly have access to his email, so I know every time he gets an email from her. (I also know his password, though that's by accident.) I've been resisting temptation and just signing out without reading any of his emails, but it's really hard. I don't know if I'm motivated by insecurity or curiosity or protectiveness (I'm afraid she'll upset him again). I want to read them, but I dun want to hurt the relationship bcause I'm insecure.

My boyfriend has all of my passwords -- lj, email, access to my AIM logs, and I would have no problem w/him reading anything, tho I'd prefer it if he told me what he read.

Advice?

2006-12-20 05:00:24 · 23 answers · asked by Pip M 1 in Singles & Dating

Okay - i work at a teen parents housing/drug rehab supported project in Gloucester ... we have just given a flat to a girl who has a 2/3month old baby. i was looking through her file (i have to do this as i a)work there and b)was trying to sort out her support plan. I saw her baby's surname was the same as my longterm boyf's - now i dont wanna jump to conclusions but suffice to say, his surname is very VERY unusual, she previousy lived just up road from him, he has no brothers or cousins who live in the area and when i interviewed her a few weeks ago she said her baby's father name was Paul - the same as my boyf's...in other words i reckon it MUST be him! i am really really concerned as a few months bk we had a bit of a rough patch tho now we are great again - but totally scared that the baby is maybe his!!! So my question is... how the hell do i find out - i cant just ask him as it'll ruin our relationship if i'm wrong (as well as it being confidential info!) but i cant not know!!!!!

2006-12-20 04:59:58 · 18 answers · asked by *~_**_Jester_**_Girl_**_~* 2 in Singles & Dating

like when he pretended not to know stuff about you but as you chat, he says stuff that contradicts his earlier statements(saying he doesnt know this and that)

2006-12-20 04:59:31 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I need to know if emailing and telephone conversations are some forms of cheating because I think it is but I was told by a guy that it wasn't. Even if the persons are exchanging pictures and some may be nudes ones. Oh, and the conversations are sexually explicit. I was also told that if it's no physical interaction then it's not cheating. I REALLY need help with this one!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

2006-12-20 04:59:29 · 30 answers · asked by rbm_0214 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-12-20 04:59:04 · 18 answers · asked by chaz 1 in Friends

2006-12-20 04:58:45 · 8 answers · asked by cutiepie 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-12-20 04:58:07 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

My story isnt uncommon, bad divorce. He left me in a bad spot. I work on commission & I'm new- start up is hard. My kids are having no Christmas, no lie! I cant pay my bills, I dont know what to do. I know what you think & no, that's not me. I have a college ed., come from a good home, love the Lord & appear to be doing ok. But I can't keep up the facade any longer. I feel like I'm going to disappear & nobody will notice; but where will that leave my kids??

2006-12-20 04:57:20 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

i'm still a teen and i'm alwiz arguing with my family.i noe they want the best for me..but i find it very hard to control my temper and listen to their advice..wat can i do to control dat damn temper of mine??

2006-12-20 04:56:48 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

i've been deployed for 6 months in iraq, come home next month....what could my presents be?

2006-12-20 04:56:46 · 11 answers · asked by Mr. Right 3 in Singles & Dating

what you will possibly be thinking while u are with him/her?

2006-12-20 04:56:43 · 12 answers · asked by mrsbean 1 in Singles & Dating