Family & Relationships - 20 December 2006

i really like this guy..he's a really popular celeb...and weve been seeing each other for a while,..just innocent flirting and stuff..i just broke up with my boyfriend of 2years..then this guy said he'd like us to be an item....then he wants it that were gonna be.."friends with benefits"...im not that kind of gurl..weve only been out for a couple of times...

2006-12-20 04:46:42 · 18 answers · asked by ♥ hOnEy ♥ 3 in Singles & Dating

I have my in-laws (Monther In Law & her boyfriend,& Sister In Law )..staying at my house for two weeks (they drove in from Texas, I live in Caly).

They know that I practically hate them and they don't care for me either... so why are they staying with us (my hubby & I) during the holidays for two weeks? I could tolerate 5 days, but two weeks is too long?

My husband has a sister that lives 5 minutes away from us. Why don't they stay with them.

It is really bothering me that they are at my house during the day sitting around and doing nothing, talking on my phone all day. It is making me sick to my stomach. I am not kidding.. Sick to my stomach.

I think they are doing this on purpose. Why is my husband allowing them to stay for so long?

2006-12-20 04:46:32 · 7 answers · asked by just me000 4 in Family

what do i do if my best friend asks me if we can share my boyfriend? i keep telling her no but she won't listen to me she keeps buggin what do i do plz help me!

2006-12-20 04:46:29 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2006-12-20 04:45:39 · 9 answers · asked by John A 1 in Friends

or do you just allow them to be who they truly are without predjudice...and accept them for themselves...???...;0)

just in case you are wondering i really dont do expectations...;0)

2006-12-20 04:43:52 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my man knows that i have been broke.. he knows i needed gas money and he refuses to give me money. this morning i couldn't help but to go in his pockets and take 40 bucks.. do u think i should tell him or wait until he finds out the money was missing..we have been together for 5 yrs and lived together for 5 months

2006-12-20 04:43:17 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I really like this guy. He has been divorced for 2 years, says he has not dated since. Owns his own business, business is bad, has a 10 year old who he adores, ex-has custody. Says his life is a mess. He flirts with me a lot, jokes, has pet names for me, and is really happy when he sees me, but never has asked me out., What is his problem? Should I give up or what. Don't want to seem like I am chasing him. I told him that I liked him, but I don't send out consistent messages to him. I am going nuts.
Whenever any one who asks him out he says no. So don't suggest this. I will also get a no. He spent Thanksgiving alone!!
Help.

2006-12-20 04:43:07 · 7 answers · asked by WANTSTOKNOW 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I like him still but I don't think it is right to go out with your ex boyfriend... What should i do? I want to go out with him but then again I don't! HELP!!!!

2006-12-20 04:42:57 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

We hung out with friend from work and he was all over me all night holding me, hugging me, picking me up, and we finally went to eat at 2 in the morning and when he drops me off at my car he asks me to kiss him on the cheek. I;m kind of surprised we didn't kiss for real. WHY? the last two times we were together we did kiss, but this time he asked for a kiss on the cheek and so i did but then that was it.

I dont understand, is he not interested anymore? I recently had to tell him that i was still figuring things out about an ex id broken up with. i thought we wouldnt chill again but we did today and we like each other. maybe he's playing hard to get? just confused.

2006-12-20 04:42:37 · 20 answers · asked by coochie1 2 in Singles & Dating

I am 9 months pregnant, and a stay at home mom of two other children. My husband used to work 70 hours a week, and while he did this, I did every chore without complaint including making him breakfast before he leaves for work, and preparing him lunch and dinner to take with him.
He just got a new job that requires a regular 40 work week. Last week, I was feeling particularly tired, due to the pregnancy and asked him to give our 3 year a bath. He got very upset with me and told me not only did he have to give her a bath, but mentioned that he thought it was unfair that he had to vacuum twice in the last couple weeks. I understand that the majority of the housework, cooking, laundry, childcare is my responsibility and I do it happily, but I don't think it's crazy that he helps occasionally. Do you think I am being unreasonable?

2006-12-20 04:42:14 · 16 answers · asked by Justwannaknow 1 in Marriage & Divorce

MY FIANCE AND I HAVE BEEN TOGETHER 4 1/2 YEARS AND ENGAGED 1 1/2 YEARS. HE IS 21 I AM 19 WE LIVE WITH HIS PARENTS. HE AND HIS FAMILY ARE HERE ILLEGALY FROM MEXICO. I AM FROM PAKISTAN. HIS PARENTS DONT SPEAK ENGLISH AND HAVE LOW PAYING JOBS. MY FIANCE AND HIS BROTHER ARE THE ONES THAT TAKE CARE OF HIS PARENTS AND PAY THEIR MORTGAGE. I DONT WANT TO LIVE WITH HIS PARENTS WE HAVE BEEN THERE A YEAR AND A HALF BUT NOW I THINK ITS TIME FOR US TO MOVE OUT AND BE ON OUR OWN. ALOT OF PEOPLE LOOK DOWN ON US SINCE WE LIVE WITH HIS PARENTS AND I THINK WE SHOULD JUST FIND AN ALTERNATIVE TO HIS PARENTS LIVING SITUATION BUT HE GETS ANGRY EVERYTIME I BRING IT UP AND IS SO NEGATIVE ABOUT MOVING. EVERYTHING IS GOING ACCORDING TO PLAN AND EVERYTHING IS FALLING IN PLACE FOR US FINANCIALLY, FOR ME SCHOOL WISE AND WITH THE NEW YEAR COMING I WANT TO START A NEW LIFE WE ARE CONSTANTLY BUYING STUFF FOR OUR FUTURE HOME AND NOW WE NEED THE HOUSE IM SORRY BUT HIS FAMILY'S LIVING SITUATION IS NOT MY PROBLEM.

2006-12-20 04:41:43 · 8 answers · asked by noori_unisa 3 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-12-20 04:40:25 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-12-20 04:39:48 · 35 answers · asked by that_one_day 1 in Singles & Dating

So check this out my bf and I have been going out for about 1 1/2 years and I am really confused because just recently I started talking to this guy who at about 8 years ago was the love of my life I mean for gods sake his name has been my password for the past 4 years because I never quite got over him and this perhaps happened because we never got together lately i've been a little confused because he's been telling me whazzup between me and hin\m? He doesn't know I have a bf but for some reason I don't have the nerve to tell him? I mean I finally found him but now i'm with someone I love and that i'm sure loves me what do I do about this dilemma it's driving me CRAZY? I don't want to lose my boy but I don't wanna lose my BABY either because I really truly love him but I can't understand why i'm so confused?

2006-12-20 04:38:59 · 3 answers · asked by turtle 1 in Singles & Dating

So people say its a good idea because leaving with a person is a lot different than just dating and a lot can be learn about your partner. I personally don't think its a good idea. What are your thoughts?

2006-12-20 04:38:30 · 21 answers · asked by gentlgodis 4 in Marriage & Divorce

i have been seeing this guy since oct, at first all was fine he would call send e cards and always answer his cell, he lives far and i do the driving every time, we have slept w/ eachother, and was great but this one time i grabed his writs and fliped him over to be on top and he freaked out and plamed me in my face & jumped out of bed since then things have changed never calls me dont like me to stop by, gives so dumb *** excuse..he says its because of the hoidays? we have made plans to go to dinner and he says he to tired, or just wont call but to watch the game w. his firends thats different. he has a daughter, he see's ever weekend and when she is w/ him he dont call at all! the whole weekend like he cant sneek a call in, so i have been on his case about seeing him and he gets mad and will hang up and not talk to me the rest of the night! he say he likes me and miss's me and wants a relaship but i dont know what to think? i realy like him alot, and i just dont know what to

2006-12-20 04:37:22 · 22 answers · asked by Lisa S 2 in Singles & Dating

He got out the Army and wants to move in with his dad, instead of moving in with me and my daughter, but he does not want to get divorced. I think that he just wants to keep us as dependents to get more $ from the VA. We've been married 5 months and lived in seperate households until his discharge. He always said that he would move in, and then he changed his mind. Now he said that he can't handle a preset family. So I packed all his stuff and said lets get an anullment/divorce. He changed his myspace profile to divorced. When the day came for him to get his stuff, he changed his mind and said he wanted to stay married, but just needs a break and that we shouldn't date other people either. I am confused. This man does not know what he wants. The fact is that we dont live together, but he claims that he loves me, but he needs to "chill" for a few months. I think its bull, at first i was devastated, but now I am starting to heal. I cant have a man in and out of mine and my daughters life

2006-12-20 04:37:10 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Thanks to this website I discovered that my friend Marlon Reyes lives in Kenylworth, but how can I contact him? I need at least an email address.

2006-12-20 04:37:02 · 3 answers · asked by JEAN B 2 in Friends

My mother is 50, and she and my dad divorce a LONG time ago. She continues to talk about how she was virgin when she married my dad in this holier than thou attitude.

Her family doesn't believe she is telling the truth since she spent the night at my father's apartment a lot before they married. They met and married 9 months later and my dad wouldn't have gone without sex for 9 months!

I was engaged to my wife for 3 years before we married and we did have premarital sex, but it was 3 years! My mom constantly talks about how she would have NEVER had premarital sex like I did!

She had 2 boyfriends a few years ago and they had sex (condoms on her dresser), and now she has had a boyfriend of one month and she is having sex with him already!

Do you think she is a liar? Yeah, its none of my business, but she keeps rubbing it in my face!

2006-12-20 04:36:17 · 41 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I love my partner but he a bit bossy at ties and we bicker at times! Nothing too bad though but not a 10, is this normal?

2006-12-20 04:35:56 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Ok, I have known this guy for about 3months and we speak on msn every day (we didn't meet on the internet), we also text and speak on the phone almost daily. I saw him the other day (not for the first time) and we sat talking for ages. Whenever I was speaking he was looking into my eyes really intensely and was really listening to what I was saying (we were just talking about general stuff). Then when he went to leave, he kissed and hugged me several times. He lovingly held me in his arms, it was so nice. He said he didn't want to go home but he did have to go (hes not got another girl and hes not gay). Two hours later he text me apologising about before and said he thinks we should "carry on being friends". I have spoken to him since and he hasn't mentioned it at all. When we were together I could tell there were feelings between us and I just don't understand why hes now saying we should just be friends? Pls help!!! Serious answers only pls!

2006-12-20 04:35:54 · 17 answers · asked by cutiexoxprincess 2 in Singles & Dating

What do guys like the best in a girlfriend? Do they like a clingy needy girlfriend who is always calling them once or twice a day? Or, do they prefer a girlfriend who does not call them at all and waits until the guy does the calling?

2006-12-20 04:35:22 · 5 answers · asked by brooke992002 2 in Singles & Dating

you would say???

2006-12-20 04:34:34 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have a nephew who is 16 and he has been wanting his tongue pierced for some time. I sell body jewelry and of course I think it is great. However I know with tongue piercings they are played with a lot and I am concerned about him chipping his teeth. Not that age has a lot to do with it...but as he gets older I am thinking he will be a little more careful. The confusion is ....I sell this stuff www.steelnpleasure.com so I feel weird telling him to wait while I sell it to people of all ages all the time. What do you think? Also I am his guardian so it is up to me..

2006-12-20 04:33:06 · 9 answers · asked by steelnpleasure 2 in Family

2006-12-20 04:31:36 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

1st time i asked him to hang out....he said yes but we missed eachother. last we he said yes but he didnt know when because he had exams. my friend said he was sick today. We talked online and I told him I still had to go shopping for xmas. He said u should do it quick. I said why don’t u help me pick something out…I waited for a repsonse for a minute but he never gave me a response back. I had to log off since I had class...should i ask him again or does he not want to hang out?

2006-12-20 04:31:00 · 14 answers · asked by Ashley 1 in Singles & Dating

im in this gang right the blood s and iv been trying to get out but if i try to get out i can die or lose someone i love and if i saty in i stay ther for life should i stay or get out plz help

2006-12-20 04:30:35 · 13 answers · asked by mariely 1 in Family

I like a boy, but I don't know is he likes me back. He's always joking around with me, like bumping me, and touching me(nonoffensive ways). One day he grabbed me around my hips then just smiled at me. I've never been in a real relationship and don't know if he likes me really. I tried giving him a note, but he lost it which was a relief to me. But I just feel like it would have been better if he had read it. He said that he wanted to know what it said, but I don't know if I should tell him. I'm pretty sure that he knows that I like him. This will be the last time I see him in school till Janurary, so I really want to make sure I do the right thing. My friends say he likes me, but I don't know. so if a guy or girl out there knows what I should do then please answer.

2006-12-20 04:30:32 · 14 answers · asked by Daniela15 2 in Singles & Dating

well i guess you all know that i have been rejected by this girl and im mad about it. So what do i do? I'm tired of getting hurt. but i want a gf. I don't like this. maybe jacking off will make me feel better

2006-12-20 04:30:26 · 6 answers · asked by chris d 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-20 04:29:57 · 22 answers · asked by jess jess<3 1 in Singles & Dating