Family & Relationships - 20 December 2006

my boyfirend of 3 weeks keeps talking about the people he has slept with in the past! and when he tells me he will fone me he never does and comes up with a silly excuse! i only see him 4 days out of the week because he stays an hour away from me! am only 16 an hes 21 on friday! Is there something hes not telling me? please help me should i end it?

2006-12-20 23:31:11 · 28 answers · asked by natalie g 1 in Singles & Dating

It's been 6 months my girlfriend told me that she was lesbian and didn't want to be with me anymore even though she still loved me. I was desperately in love with her and then I decided to do something that maybe no other guy would ever do for a girl: I subjected myself to a surgery in Africa to change my sex and turn myself into a girl so she woud have no reason to leave me. Last month the whole process was completely done and I hadn't told her anything yet because I wanted to surprise her. However, when she saw me she said that all I did was for nothing because she doens't want to stay with me even after all I've done for her. She said she would never ask me to do such a thing and that I was looking like a monster for her. Now I just don't know what to do. I like girls and I don't know if I will ever find another girl who accepts me the way that I look now. The doctor told me the surgery is unreversable. What should I do?

2006-12-20 23:30:01 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I love a girl since last 6-7 yrs...first four years I ws near to her..bt never dared to say anything to her. Bt when I went far frm her..then realized the pain n any hw gt her mail address n said her all the things.She didnt respond..then I sent greetings see accepted bt never dsaid anything. Now in orkut..I cn see her activities and her presence.
Whenever I say anything gug..she will give compliments through indications bt never say anything...when I do any stupidity she shows her anger by deleting my msgs bt she never respond.I said so many times to add me in frnd list bt she doesnt. Bt in yahoo she added me.I know she is best in all the ways bt she is nt egoistic person.

Sometime I get stress why she doesnt respond...and say I dnt want to contact u further..then again she will show some kind of indications tht I can nt got far from her.

As I know she is a girl who will be very frank and talkative with her friends but if somebody whom she doesnt know ell she doesnt talk well

2006-12-20 23:28:39 · 13 answers · asked by lsa 1 in Singles & Dating

I'm with a Polish girl at the mo but things are rocky I have now realised that someone I've been working with who is engaged and keeps making hints about the kinda guy she would like to be with. My girlfriend is away and not talking to me. Should I get this lady who says her fiance is not the 1 and she is fed up with him being at her flat or should I blow her out? She has invited me to her birthday! not only that she wants to train to get fit with me! I don't know what to do or think! I can blatantly feel the vibe from her. She is stunning an gorgous but so is my girlfriend, My girlfriend is just not as understanding to me as this girl is. Im sure most guys would take advantage of this situation. But If I get her I want her all to myself but two people will get hurt. I have never felt so right with someone before.

2006-12-20 23:28:19 · 14 answers · asked by mrmacg8 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-20 23:28:03 · 14 answers · asked by rbzbcp 1 in Singles & Dating

a lot of my friends are angry at me for something i did to one of them. i would apologize of course, but i honestly dont know what i have done. they also refuse to tell me. I just want to understand and to know so that i can apologize. but its almost christmas, my chritmas party is being held day after next and it doesnt help that we dont see each other in school anymore because of the break. please help me im panicking.

2006-12-20 23:26:42 · 10 answers · asked by Pennexx 2 in Friends

2006-12-20 23:24:28 · 15 answers · asked by barbel_basher 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-20 23:22:31 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2006-12-20 23:22:11 · 16 answers · asked by rbzbcp 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-20 23:20:27 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-12-20 23:17:23 · 15 answers · asked by rbzbcp 1 in Singles & Dating

Only over the years I have been away from several women I was in Love with (including one wife) and when I got back I discovered they had been having affairs!
Couldn't have been true Love then eh?

2006-12-20 23:14:56 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I gave my best friend a present that I thought she would like, but when she opened it, she said 'that's nice' but then 2 mins later told me she already had it. I was a bit upset, as it was quite expensive and also because I offered to take it back and get her something else, but she said don't worry. Whats the point of telling me tht you already have it, when you don't want the person to take it back? What would you have done?

2006-12-20 23:14:50 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

he is getting a divorce from a lady he was married to and they got a divorce and got remarried she was looking for money and was looking for love some he can call his wife his divorce has nothing to do with me divorce was already on the go before I entered the picture. I am still in a unhappy marriage at times its good but most of the time all we do is disagree but I don't believe in divorce. and he w

2006-12-20 23:13:45 · 5 answers · asked by China 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-12-20 23:12:48 · 13 answers · asked by rbzbcp 1 in Singles & Dating

OK, in all seriousness, what does this mean? I know that MY eyes tend to wander in the wrong areas, but every time I talk to this guy, he always looks around my crotch area and stares for like 3 sec (which is a long time to stare there). I really have no clue if he likes me or not, but I kinda like him...so I would be really happy if it was something sexual. But can you just tell me if he's actually thinking something or if I'm just making a big deal out of nothing?

2006-12-20 23:12:39 · 9 answers · asked by JenYA 3 in Singles & Dating

I may be going through seperation or divorce soon. I have a 4 yr old son. I have been arrested about 6 months ago for a mistake of shoplifting i did as i was going through a bit of rough phase then. I am well educated person with good morals but have committed this impulsive mistake. I deeply regret my mistake and have paid the fine. Can this cause any problems in getting custody of my son?

2006-12-20 23:12:35 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

he invited me severl times to go with him..he never said why he always talk about the waether, the nice people their he is a very clever Dr. this time he told me the whle story.. talking about young bodies about 18 y free of infection he is inviting me

2006-12-20 23:12:05 · 5 answers · asked by Omda 1 in Friends

I am going out for dinner tonight with 2 friends from uni. They both have babies (I do not as I dont want kids) and I know they will do nothing but talk about their kids all evening. Am I wrong to get irritated by this? I think it is bad manners to keep discussing the same thing every time we meet. Should I tell them they have half an hour to get all the baby talk out of the way or should I just keep on trying to change the conversation? It is really getting on my nerves now and I am thinking of stopping meeting up with them, to listen to the same boring dribble about babies aaaaargh !!!!

2006-12-20 23:11:41 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Last night my fiance' and I were at my place just talking and enjoying each other's company as we often do. We were talking about the death of my best friend's mom this week. I told him it was depressing me because of the sorry way my family informed me of my mother's death a few years ago. All I wanted him to do was to hold me and let me cry for a minute or two. That is all I wanted. Well, he starts yelling at me that I need to quit living in the past that I was 37 years old not 15! I tried to explain my reactions but he wouldn't listen saying " I don't want to hear it" Well I was in tears then and he said he loves me enough to tell me the truth not sugar coat it. And I just looked at him and told him I just need SOMEONE to understand my feelings . Now this is what I need to know he said "When you come out of the ether you'll know what I'm saying to you is the truth". Could somebody PLEASE tell me what that is supposed to mean? I would appreciate help with this! Thank you!♥

2006-12-20 23:10:39 · 21 answers · asked by ♥misunderstood♥ 2 in Singles & Dating

My mum who has bin married with my dad for 25 years is having an affair outside with a msian guy for the past 1 year.She even went overseas with him and talk on the phone with him daily. My dad knew abt this was sad n hurt.He still loves her despite how my mum ignored him. I felt sad that i couldnt help my dad as he told me as long as my mum is happy he dont mind. He told me no point quarrelling or even have a divorce. Everyday, when i see my mum chatting on the phone with that msian guy i juz simply hate it so much i hate her for hurting my dad. I had even once msg her telling that i felt sad n hurt the way she was doing to my dad. But, there was no response or even reaction taken place. I have given up hopes on her.

2006-12-20 23:08:32 · 19 answers · asked by Endless 2 in Family

I was chatted up by a old guy more than twice my age at work last night as I was finishing off who I don't find remotely attractive and has a permanent self-satisfied smile on his face.

He asked "come to the staff bar on Friday night for a drink", and when I said no, the presumptuous twit asked "is that anything to do with my faith?" I said its my choice and none of your business. Then he asked for my email so he could send poems to me. I said "my boyfriend wouldn't like it too much". He had the nerve to say "he doesn't have to know about it". I said "he will because we talk about everything". He then said he didn't want to get me in trouble and walked off in a flash but was waiting for me at the front exit! The chat-up situation was a bit amusing but made me feel sick, but seeing him at the exit seriously worried me. I've taken an alternative route out my workplace now.

Has anybody else been in a really weird, revolting or worrying chat-up situation, with colleagues or others?

2006-12-20 23:07:03 · 3 answers · asked by angarch83 2 in Singles & Dating

So there is this person I work with, who, I think likes me. I don't like him at all, the more I learn about him, the more weird he seems to me. I'm always nice to people, smile a lot, and say sorry if I've bumped into people (I do that a lot). The problem is he is trying to flirt with me (so gross) and I have no idea who to nicely, with out saying it, that I'm just not interested. Should I just stop saying sorry when I bump into him and ignore him? not smile?

2006-12-20 23:03:05 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

When I started working. I met this girl, who introduced me to her friend, than I met her friends. The thing is..the bunch of us have hit it off.I hang out with them alot.They have all accepted me, for me. and I can actually say that I am happy. The one guy, thinks I am cute, and we have fooled around a couple of times, I spent the night at his house a couple of times. The thing is, this friday my friend from college is leaving for alberta, and they are having a party for her. and that friday I have been invited to a birthday, (we are going clubing) This friend who is leaving, hasn't talked to me in a month and a half. when we would talk everyday, She has started hanging out with her old best friend, who she told me that she hated and hated how she treated her. and I told her I can't come on friday, and now she is pissed off with me. When we were closer friends, she was the one who would talk **** about me to my other friends, and she is the reason why two of my friends stoped talking

2006-12-20 23:01:44 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2006-12-20 22:59:34 · 19 answers · asked by ? 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-12-20 22:56:18 · 29 answers · asked by sabrina 3 in Singles & Dating

ok. i was going to make fudge for everyone, but i dont have off work till xmas day, so i dont have the time to do it. i am shopping before work today, and i still need ideas for my brother and my stepdad.

my brother is loaded *money-wise* and needs nothing. he is 22, i already decided on a pocket knife, but what else?

my stepdad, i absolutely hate, and he hates me, but im spending xmas day there to be w/ my mom and brother, and i dont want him to feel left out. he is the kind of person who hates everything and everyone, therefore, he will like nothing. any tips?

please keep in mind, i dont have alot of money to work with, plz help me out!!!

2006-12-20 22:54:41 · 14 answers · asked by Erin P 2 in Weddings

My girl and me have not talked for three weeks now. She told me not to call her, not to email her or have any contact with her. She does this every few weeks, months or whenever the mood strikes her. Usually she picks the fight. I'm not saying I'm perfect but I've done more for her then she's ever done for me and because I don't like confrontation, I don't pick fights with her. I sent her a very expensive Christmas gift and it was delivered to her on the 19th. She has yet to email and say thank you or anything about it but she kept it. I would think if she was that mad at me, she would have told them she didn't want it. Should I leave her alone or should I continue to email her and talk as if nothing is going on? She ignores my emails. This is nothing new. After a while she starts talking to me again. My friends say she's giving me the run around because I allow her to and she knows she can come back whenever. What should I do?

2006-12-20 22:54:34 · 9 answers · asked by Patrick 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-20 22:53:16 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My husband and I have only been married a year and a half (June '05) but I just don't feel the same anymore. I know I still love him because if I think about how we used to be I feel really bad about where things are now and want it back the way we were. But we fight a lot. About stupid sh!t. I'm a sahm with our little boy (3 mos. decided to quit working after he was born with his lungs collapsed) and I thought that would make us closer, but we still fight all the time. He just doesn't get it. I want to have a life. I want us to do things together as a family and he's happy with this boring, mediocre existance and doesn't understand or care that all I do is sit here and watch the baby all week. The weekends are just as bad because my family all live in another state so we can't see them, we spend every weekend with his family (all his cousins and brothers are our age and so we're more like friends than fam) but anyway..it's just driving me insane. We've even hit each other, (not in the

2006-12-20 22:51:25 · 21 answers · asked by ... 1 in Marriage & Divorce