When I started working. I met this girl, who introduced me to her friend, than I met her friends. The thing is..the bunch of us have hit it off.I hang out with them alot.They have all accepted me, for me. and I can actually say that I am happy. The one guy, thinks I am cute, and we have fooled around a couple of times, I spent the night at his house a couple of times. The thing is, this friday my friend from college is leaving for alberta, and they are having a party for her. and that friday I have been invited to a birthday, (we are going clubing) This friend who is leaving, hasn't talked to me in a month and a half. when we would talk everyday, She has started hanging out with her old best friend, who she told me that she hated and hated how she treated her. and I told her I can't come on friday, and now she is pissed off with me. When we were closer friends, she was the one who would talk **** about me to my other friends, and she is the reason why two of my friends stoped talking
2006-12-20 23:01:44 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
to me..she was the one who talked **** about me all the time. Every little thing I would do, she would call our other friend and ***** about me. and for 3 years I put up with her, I was told by my other friends that she treated me like ****, and I didn't do anything about it. I was never happy with myself. I could never tell her how I felt. I have a really low self-esteem, and she didn't help it. I remember a time she told me something about my body, and from that day on, I would always wear long shirts. However, I have a positive outlook.
I was always there for her, when she was upset, and I would drop everything for her if she needed me, and when I needed her, it was "your going to be ok," she never came down to my house, it was her house.
Now should I go to the party on friday, or should I go downtown for the party. Well I know what I am going to do, I only don't know if I am being a complete ***** for going. I know I will have a better time at the club, and after the club.
2006-12-20 23:08:57 · update #1
I was told about the party things. just yesterday, when I already had other plans. She hasn't called me, and now that she is leaving, she is my friend again. she still talks to our other friend, who I still talk to. I am sick of her being the center of attention, like she always has to be. don't get me wrong, I don't like being the center of attention, but if someone was to pay attention to me, she would be in there in no second flat, "Look at me, Look at me"
2006-12-20 23:13:06 · update #2
Well, I would try and be there for her if you would honestly consider her a "friend".... If not, then let it be and let her be.... Congats on finding a group of friends that accept you for who you are, that's hard to find these days. Best of luck to you hon!! Happy Holidays!
2006-12-20 23:10:59 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You do both. Simple as that. Go to one engagement for a couple hours and have fun. Then finish up at the one you really want to be at. Although you may feel distant, she did invite you so she hasn't forgotten about you.
2006-12-21 07:09:30 · answer #2 · answered by spag 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should tell her sorry. if that doesn't work now, when she leaves she'll wish she had not talked **** about you.
2006-12-21 07:10:15 · answer #3 · answered by jazz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋