My girl and me have not talked for three weeks now. She told me not to call her, not to email her or have any contact with her. She does this every few weeks, months or whenever the mood strikes her. Usually she picks the fight. I'm not saying I'm perfect but I've done more for her then she's ever done for me and because I don't like confrontation, I don't pick fights with her. I sent her a very expensive Christmas gift and it was delivered to her on the 19th. She has yet to email and say thank you or anything about it but she kept it. I would think if she was that mad at me, she would have told them she didn't want it. Should I leave her alone or should I continue to email her and talk as if nothing is going on? She ignores my emails. This is nothing new. After a while she starts talking to me again. My friends say she's giving me the run around because I allow her to and she knows she can come back whenever. What should I do?
2006-12-20 22:54:34 · 9 answers · asked by Patrick 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Hey dude,
You really like this rollercoaster ride or something????????
She sucks,, move on with a nice adult woman who will treat you great.! There’s plenty of really great women out there !! stay away from the trolls !! Write that Christmas present off as a cheap lesson on what to avoid in women!! (sounds like she’s got serious hormone problems)
2006-12-20 23:12:13 · answer #1 · answered by logicalanswer 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Listen to your friends; she is giving you the run around. How can you believe that nothing is going on still be interacting with her? That's just deluding yourself. The only reason to have her keep returning to you is if you are a masochist who is begging for continual torment. The way she treats you seems like she doesn't like you very well. Moody, unpredictable and a tad self absorbed. Selfish too. Taking your gifts not even the decency to say thank you. How ill mannered. So listen to what she is telling you. Stay away from her, keep away from her and don't call her anymore. How plain can it be? You're her patsy and you let her get away with it. What do you do? Either put up and/or shut up. Or get rid of it.
2006-12-20 23:57:47 · answer #2 · answered by quantumview 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What should you do?
Listen to your friends and stop letting this girl make a fool of you.
You deserve someone that will appreciate you. Trust me when you start giving her the cold shoulder or stop responding to her immature behavior she will realize what she has but I wouldn't take her back, who knows what she's going to do next to test you and treat you with respect. Please move on there are lovely women out there that would appreciate a man like you.
2006-12-20 23:16:43 · answer #3 · answered by LC 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if shes that rude to you and insensitive to your feelings, why then would you want to pursue her and keep a relationship with her? are you one of those who gets off on abuse? your not happy unless your miserable? whats the deal! you sound like a decent guy, find someone who will appreciate the things you do for them.
2006-12-20 22:58:48 · answer #4 · answered by Phaque tu" 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would you even send her a Christmas present if she is treating you this way??? You need to move on!!! The other way from her that is.
2006-12-20 23:02:02 · answer #5 · answered by winona e 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ithink you both should talk about this is never good to leave things unfinished compromised talk about how both feel and what can do to improve it but do not fight i know sometimespeople said somethings you dont want to hear but is neccesary
2006-12-20 22:59:08 · answer #6 · answered by user 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
at was sort of like bf maybe she cant explain or show how she feels and maybe abit imature if you keep donig it shell evetually come back
2006-12-20 23:02:47 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
to long and complicated
2006-12-20 22:56:37 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
MOVE ON DUDE!!!
2006-12-20 22:57:32 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋