Family & Relationships - 20 December 2006

Seems like my kids got the worst grandparents! They never remember their birthdays, forget about christmas and other important events. We live overseas, so grandparents flew all the way from the US just to ignore two little boys completely. No presents or signs of love whatsoever. I feel terrible for my boys, but how can I tell my in-laws that they way they treat their only grandkids is not fair!

2006-12-20 22:22:48 · 6 answers · asked by Natalya J 1 in Family

I had a friend who was a 35 year old divorced mother of 3 who had bipolar disorder.Now first off i'm not just saying it's all her behaviour because I know I can try and control myself.Since we broke our FWB relationship off due to jealousy and mixed feelings I have been trying to contact her and apologise for my behaviour, now she has reported me for harrassment!!!

Thing is it's not just me who finds her addictive, her ex-husband used to be a college lecturer now after 14 years of marriage they are divorced and he is now suffering with depression and jobless. She also has restraining order on him

Also her ex-boyfriend had a tendency to wait outside her house in a car watching her
I spoke to my best friend and he said sounds like she enjoys mind games, when I mentioned it to her she even said "do you ever think it's me that makes men like this"
I find it strange how one person can have so much power and I would love to break away from this. Does anyone know anybody like this

2006-12-20 22:22:30 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I know its sick and wierd but we can't help feeling this way about each other. I mean even though we are cousins we can't fall out of love. I feel for him deep and I haven't felt like that about any other boy before. I am 16 and my cousin is 21 and I have loved him like forever and I wasn't planning to tell him that I love him romantically until he told me that for some reason he gets jealous whenever he sees me with guys. The only thing we have ever done was kiss once and it was scary. I want to tell my family but he thinks that we should keep it a secret. Please I'm confused and need help!

2006-12-20 22:20:04 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

or are some still out for the chase???

What makes a guy want to settle down???

Are some guys afraid to settle down???

2006-12-20 22:17:59 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i m totally bored doing all the same things again and again.
hey guys and gals please help me

2006-12-20 22:15:49 · 9 answers · asked by coolguy 2 in Singles & Dating

1.said he loved me numerous times
2.said he wanted to marry/have kids with me
3.gave me a special thing he got from another country
4.put off going to work abroad to stay with me
5.saved up to take me away in January

recently he's has family probs and i havent seen him much,i talked to him and said i would wait til issure resolved and i said if its over just tell me and he said if it was over he would have said.

What do you think?

2006-12-20 22:15:34 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

He moved all the way from Tampa to Kentucky. Of course, I don't think he was satisfied with his life there, anyway. I kind of get the feeling that he just wants a home.....not necessarily a close relationship.

I feel bad for him that he moved this far. I feel too guilty to kick him out. But, the truth is....he just isn't the one for me. And, I don't think I am exactly what he wants, either. Yet, he seems so content just to have a roof and be in a family environment. I feel sorry for him.

What am I gonna do????

2006-12-20 22:15:20 · 9 answers · asked by treefrog 4 in Singles & Dating

Is it possible to die of boredom?

I am so bored it is unreal, need something to keep me occupied

2006-12-20 22:13:28 · 26 answers · asked by Peachy Girl 4 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-20 22:11:38 · 14 answers · asked by brian f 1 in Friends

is it alright or not alright can have some opinnions plz?

2006-12-20 22:10:09 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Does youtube have those stufff, or pornsites????

2006-12-20 22:09:58 · 4 answers · asked by theguy932 2 in Singles & Dating

Who do you over come from situation when your parents force you to leave and forget your BF and to marry the GUY as per there choice…. ?...

2006-12-20 22:09:30 · 7 answers · asked by Soman R 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Don't be shy........

2006-12-20 22:07:18 · 4 answers · asked by new18000 1 in Singles & Dating

My weirdest experience was when I was a recent college graduate. We went out to a bar for some drinks. We each had one drink, and he rushed me out of there. When we got back to my place, in the time it took for me to walk across the room and put my purse down, he was completely naked, except for his socks! I was horrified. It was a first date, and I was unsure how he got that impression of me. I was also amazed at how fast he was able to disrobe!!! I still laugh about that one!!!

2006-12-20 22:06:06 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-12-20 22:05:35 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

What is a good place to go for a newlywed couple to honeymoon and is exotic and inexpensive.

2006-12-20 22:05:14 · 4 answers · asked by almost married 2 in Weddings

here is my problem my ex g/f of 4 years broke up with me she has anarexica ,i'm fine with not being her boyfriend but want to keep our friendship it's been 5 wks now for the last 6 months we have not slept together that much i think she still loves me but can't with her problems she needs to love herself first.she has confussed me with what she said when breaking up with me like staying friends with extra's still buying me a xmas prestent etc; i have pushed her a bit like anyone would so she said then she did'nt want me.i got a xmas card in the post + was not happy b/c i expected it in person so i sent it back saying this.thing is i think she does love me still.She said she will call over xmas and arrange to see me i will not push her or expect to get back with her just i really care about her as a person and it seams she is pushing me away when i no she needs all the friends she can get.One thing that might of caused this is i think someone told her i've been having a good time!!!!!

2006-12-20 22:05:03 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

He has lied to me since the first day he moved in with me. I saw his e-mail which he left open on my computer from a girl that he was also seeing. I forgave him but he still after 2 yrs gets caught in lies, not coming home, not answering cell phone, hides cell when home or turns it off and never will you find it other than his pants pocket. I have caught him with another cell phone that I never knew he owned, He is obsessed with hiding all info on computer. Why does he always accuse me of cheating? Yeah at times It may look that way because I'm so angry, but come on now he has to know why? I've caught him telling his friend that I constantly accuse him of cheating and that I'm insecure, but he fails to mention none of the crap that he has done to make me feel this way? He even lies to his own friends. Can this relationship ever be real?

2006-12-20 22:04:58 · 20 answers · asked by imajen66 1 in Singles & Dating

what a girl need from her boy friend?

2006-12-20 22:03:23 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

by sharing his thoughts and feelings with me.

Thanks to all who help me with this question.

2006-12-20 22:02:08 · 5 answers · asked by happy inside 6 in Singles & Dating

Im shattered...after going out for a year me and my girlfriend have broken up (mutual thing) but the problem is its silly cos we both still really have strong feelings for each other. The timing just not right for us because her parents are going through a nasty divorce and shes an emotional wreck at the moment. We both agreed that we would be better off and happier to leave the relationship now before things got really bad between us and so she wouldnt put me through all her pain. I wanted to be there for her through this but she decided it was best for me not too. But she is the girl i want to end up with and i just hope that one day we can get back together and give it another shot. Yet im worried that as time goes by we will most likely move on and find other people. We broke up on really good terms and have agreed to stay close friends...i just really hope that by doing that it leaves the door open for us to be together again. Is this likely or am i just giving myself false hope?

2006-12-20 22:01:41 · 5 answers · asked by ausbloke1987 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-20 22:00:24 · 29 answers · asked by laylazim 1 in Marriage & Divorce

specially for girls that have been dumped, i am going through a break up, i still love him so much but he says this is not going to work and that his feelings for me are not the same as they were, i feel so guilty because i let my self go in so many levels and took him for granted, its been a week since he left and the grief i feel and the oppression in my chest are almost unbearable. i fear how i will be feeling in xmas and new years, i will be so depressed. how do you move on when you have no energy to do anything and everything that sorrounds you reminds you of him?

2006-12-20 21:59:30 · 13 answers · asked by saminita 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Was depressed for some time and haven't tried dealing with it until now. Parents never helped me out because i guess they didn't know how to and were going through their own thing's. Most of the time when they come to talk to me it's about money troubles and i hate it. I'm 21 now and have not accomplished anything. Now that they're seeing i'm earning money of my own to try and 'fly from the coop' so to speak they are wanting me to support them before i can get my chance to "fly".. I feel so selfish for feeling this way and i'm sure most people wouldn't even think twice about helping out their parents. I wish i could be more mature and understanding about thing's but it seems i'll always be here .. two steps forward and one step back. I don't know.. advice ? I'd appreciate anyone who has any experiences like this they'd like to share maybe ?

2006-12-20 21:59:02 · 5 answers · asked by Em 1 in Family

What should I get my husband for Christmas I mean he has everything a guy could want. He llikes sports and boy stuff like that and he is in the military and help?

2006-12-20 21:58:16 · 5 answers · asked by almost married 2 in Marriage & Divorce

How do girls feel when there boyfriends call other girls cute, hot and that they love them. Do they get jealous or how does that make them feel.

2006-12-20 21:56:34 · 14 answers · asked by realsync1 1 in Singles & Dating

for the past 10 yrs i have received $410.00 for 2 children. I am thinking of having a review done as I feel this is unreal. $410.00 doesnt even cover clothes now a days for 2 teenagers. My question is, Is this the right thing to do? 10 yrs ago we both worked in the resturaunt business and basically had the same low income. We are both remarried, I am now a stay at home mom and he is currently a kitchen manager for a well known franchise Making probably 35,000-50,000 a year. Does anybody know the differnce the child support paid woud be? Does our spouses incomes factor in? Thank you for any advice and help you can offer.

2006-12-20 21:55:54 · 13 answers · asked by beech_babi 2 in Marriage & Divorce

i have been going out with a boy now for 5 months and hes already cheeted on me although i took him back. I now realised hes done it again and i still want to take him back!..its really so hard and i cant cope!..I dont wanna meet anyone else and i love being with him?..how can we get back without this happening again? or is it always going to happen?..He told me he was differnt and the last week ive seen a changed person in him. He was crying when i stated it was over and he seems really sorry although i cant believe that. What should I do??

2006-12-20 21:55:42 · 9 answers · asked by kierra m 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-12-20 21:55:17 · 8 answers · asked by Elysia 3 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-12-20 21:55:10 · 14 answers · asked by afrprince77 2 in Family