1.said he loved me numerous times
2.said he wanted to marry/have kids with me
3.gave me a special thing he got from another country
4.put off going to work abroad to stay with me
5.saved up to take me away in January
recently he's has family probs and i havent seen him much,i talked to him and said i would wait til issure resolved and i said if its over just tell me and he said if it was over he would have said.
What do you think?
2006-12-20 22:15:34 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Stick around, sounds like he's into you, but has to deal with something, in order to get back to you.
2006-12-20 22:44:27 · answer #1 · answered by Floss 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If the problems have been going on for less than a month, I'd say for now, give him the benefit of the doubt because his previous actions toward you deserve it. He COULD be having problems that he doesn't feel he can or should discuss with you.
But if things go over approximately a month without him sharing something about the nature of these 'problems', then you should rethink things (whatever that will mean!).
Good luck to you two.
2006-12-21 06:22:00 · answer #2 · answered by Dilettante 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Greenie,
Any marriage is full of times and troubles involving families. When you marry, you marry the family as well. So if there are troubles he is unwilling to discuss now, take that as a big red flag. These family issues must be resolved before any trip down the asile.
Best of luck to you
2006-12-21 06:20:43 · answer #3 · answered by b4thespur 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The treu person is known when things go wrong.. And this is one of the check of knowing the person .
How does he respond when things are not well...Just think if he can't even think about you...I feel love is sacrificing.. and he is been selfish.. thinking about himself and family..
Not even thinking about you even though you are understanding him and giving him time.. My suggestion is talk to him what he expects of you.. If he thinks that his family is imporartant and doesnt want you to wait for him..give him some time to think and breakk.I know it is not easy ..But i'm concerned of ur future ..If he cant stand for you before marriage what is the guarentee.. In marriage i think one of the role of the husband is to protect his wife.. He is not protecting you in other words he is not even giving u a word or assurance.. that he wants you.. so pls think about it.. its good that you talk to him and come to a point
2006-12-21 06:42:42 · answer #4 · answered by deva 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
and how long has this relationship been? it all sounds genuine and sincere, if he says he's got family issues, give him the space and time he needs to deal with his issues, dont go insinuating what happens or about to happen, he doesnt need another subject matter to deal with at the moment, just be there for him when he decides its time to come home and welcome him with open arms and an understanding heart and you will be amazed at what patience can bring!
2006-12-21 06:43:59 · answer #5 · answered by Phaque tu" 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think he's having problems with his family and needs to sort that out - like you said.
Unless the family problems are specific to you then I dont think anything will have changed.
2006-12-21 06:20:02 · answer #6 · answered by Leiani 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hang in threre. People's familys can be quite difficult to deal with. If you love him, give him time and whatever type of support he needs from you.
2006-12-21 06:19:35 · answer #7 · answered by cabriojazz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
based on 1 thru 5 i say he loves u
2006-12-21 09:51:32 · answer #8 · answered by Jim G 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
That you're annoying. Grow up already he told you how he felt!
2006-12-21 06:33:35 · answer #9 · answered by SheRa 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i give u the ans in one sentence. U LISTEN TO YOUR HEART. thats it
2006-12-21 06:38:21 · answer #10 · answered by kashish d 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋