i have been going out with a boy now for 5 months and hes already cheeted on me although i took him back. I now realised hes done it again and i still want to take him back!..its really so hard and i cant cope!..I dont wanna meet anyone else and i love being with him?..how can we get back without this happening again? or is it always going to happen?..He told me he was differnt and the last week ive seen a changed person in him. He was crying when i stated it was over and he seems really sorry although i cant believe that. What should I do??
2006-12-20 21:55:42 · 9 answers · asked by kierra m 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Crying doesn't solve anything.....
Sorry, but a cheater is always a cheater!! If he did it not only once but twice....he'd be history in my book!
2006-12-20 22:05:46 · answer #1 · answered by Nikki 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some time you can not get the things back when the time is gone.
Be strong, move on and be yourself.
Do you remember before him, you can live in this world by yourself and family?
Do you know how long you will live in this world and meet another good person, just give your chance to take time and think but not give him even a chance?
2006-12-20 22:57:05 · answer #2 · answered by Sean 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This boy doesnt desurve 2mins of your time! The only way to get yourself away from this scum bag is to get in the correct state of mind "i can do better than him, I desurve better than him"
The only way to get over him is to stop seing him, make sure you dont run into him at all and dont show him you are hurt! Show that boy what he is missing because he is the one who screwed up. YES it will be bloody difficult but i have done it and it was the best thing i ever did!
2006-12-20 22:34:30 · answer #3 · answered by Lex 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
MOVE ON!!!! This is from experience. My highscholl boyfriend was the same way, I kept taking him back or just acting like I didn't know what was going on. We eventually got engaged, he still cheated, eventually got married, still cheated, got pregnant, still cheated (even kicked me out while pregnant so he could be witht his other girl) I took him back again. afater my second child and found him with my babysitter I had finally had enough. I guess I finally had enough self worth to not allow myself to be treated like this anymore. You have to search deep down in your soul and want the BEST for YOU!! I know right now it seems like you love him and Need him in your life but honestly you can and will do SOOO much better for yourself. You deserve better for yourself. You have to love yourself enough to not allow yourself to be treated badly. If you set standards low then thats how you will be treated. Love yourself enough to allow yourself to go out there and find a man that loves you enough to give you the love and respect you deserve. Change is hard and scary at first, but you will get through it. I did and now have been Happily married for 7 yrs now. It all comes down to how much you love yourself and how you allow yourself to be treated. Hope this helped!!
2006-12-20 22:15:25 · answer #4 · answered by beech_babi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dump him! If you keep doing what you keep doing you will get what you keep getting. You can see a change in him cos he is just changing tactics to keep you onside. Dont be stupid,life does go on and you should think more of yourself than thinking you deserve to put up with being cheated on.
2006-12-20 22:22:06 · answer #5 · answered by dolphinesque 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's only sorry that he got caught. You could put aside your feelings of his cheating and just deal with it if you want to stay with him but he isn't going to stop cheating until he is too old to get a woman.
2006-12-20 21:58:32 · answer #6 · answered by fabrat1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on and have sex with loads of other guys... Several at once if you can manage it...
2006-12-20 21:58:38 · answer #7 · answered by Forlorn Hope 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
give him another chance - the final one ...if he strays again, dump him!
2006-12-20 22:03:38 · answer #8 · answered by Shubho 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
find me and chat
2006-12-20 23:50:43 · answer #9 · answered by adventre4me 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋