Family & Relationships - 20 December 2006

A year has passed
A joke, we laughed
With every smile I melt
True feelings were felt
Its all faded now
A thing of the past
No more sweet nothings
No more sweet nothings
The times we shared
A time when we cared
A time that we dared
To fall in love
Inhibitions in the wind
To fall in love
What does that mean
Is it for good
Or is it a dream
Is it reality
Or just a formality
Love is a drug
You act without reason
A shot when she sees him
A dose when he sees her
Never wants to leave her
But he has to go
He had to go
Addicted to love
Can never get enough
But ill tell you again
Love is a drug
The high eventually ends
Just say no
Just say no.......

Im gonna explain this, this is about ONE love in particular not love in general...and the reference just say no is to the crazy things love will make you do such as forget about friends, family, become a different person, become obsessed/addicted...things of that nature....

2006-12-20 20:42:58 · 7 answers · asked by gwbgod 2 in Singles & Dating

For the past two years I've been to church and have had a crush on this alterboy. It's been a year now that we have been exchanging our looks in church, and while he was at the alter! God forgive me but I try not to look at him. I'm older than him I think...he looks like he is 20. Just guessing there.... but I feel that there is an attraction between us.........None of us ever made the move, how could we? We are in church? By the time mass is over, it's time for me to go home before he can get changed.....what should I do? It's like a never ending game we're playing....I look at you and you look at me.....but nobody can to make the move..... What can I do?? Please advice....I can't stop thinking about him!!

2006-12-20 20:41:34 · 23 answers · asked by Beverly 1 in Singles & Dating

Ok, there is a difficult and long story behind the reasons I dislike my entire family and wish to "do away" with all of them. I'm an exceptionally good kid that has only wished for peace in my family but at 21 years of age I've realized that either I'm forced to be a hypocrite the rest of my life or to live without family.

After divorce at the age of 5 I lived with my mother and my brother. Life wasn't great as you can imagine but the divorce and life in general was worsened by our mother and father's resentment and passionate hatred for each other. They used us kids as bait to hurt one another years after the divorce. Eventually my brother left and moved in with my father. I won't get into the nitty gritty details.

But I've acquired the art of hypocrisy from all this and have found ways to totally agree with them about the other parent when the conversations turns in that direction. I'm sick of it all and just want to "do away" with them but should I?

2006-12-20 20:38:55 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2006-12-20 20:37:47 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-12-20 20:37:29 · 26 answers · asked by Gogot4life 1 in Friends

Any idea of what hindi song(for mehendi/dance function) a bride could dance on her wedding(Indian Wedding) ??

2006-12-20 20:37:06 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

my sisters new boyfriend has no foreskin and shes asked me how to masturbate him!! i have no clue what to answer her as i have never come across it myself!! can you please help me find some info for her?

2006-12-20 20:34:17 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-12-20 20:34:05 · 15 answers · asked by nexagon2002 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My mum, brother and i all share a room while my dad has one for himself as he snores really loudly and he doesnt want to disturb us. This might seem perfectly normal to you but i always get this feeling that he is lonely deep inside. He works very hard for my family and always comes home late. And most of the time when he comes home, my mum brother and i are talking in our room. And since he plays the guitar, he always brings it into our room as a way to spend time with us i guess. I ever asked him how to stop his snoring issues and he said that the only way is to go for surgery. As a daughter, i wud really wan the best for my dad as i love him alot and i think he's really lonely. Sometimes i feel like askin my dad to go for the surgery but im scared of how he will react. Just imagine... After a hard day of work, u enter ur room, shower, and get stuff done without seeing ppl. Doesnt that feel as if u were never married and never had children? Tell me what to do. =(

2006-12-20 20:33:07 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2006-12-20 20:31:59 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My boys (11, 9) lost everything they own to a house fire in early October intentionally set by their father (allegedly). Therefore, Insurance is dragging their feet to cover anything. I am completely broke from replacing everything (slowly) and paying for a furnished apt. (almost 2 grand/mo). Now Christmas is days away and I have $50 in my acct. Not even a tree yet. What do I do??? My boys were "gamers" they had handhelds and consoles. Computers etc. First of all don't want to replace their "old" things for christmas, shouldnt it be new and exciting? Also, these boys have been incredible and amazing through all of this...the fire, the separation from their dad, move to a new town and new school etc, all in about 3 months time. They deserve something great!! Where should I turn?

2006-12-20 20:29:43 · 7 answers · asked by JustCurious 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I asked this before and I was told it was a violation

2006-12-20 20:28:43 · 3 answers · asked by gord's360 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

I knew the guy from college because he was my ex's friend.Now we both graduated and again we met in a class we are both attending that's when I was dumped by my bf and started telling my college friend about all that has been bothering me.He stood by me until I got better.Now I developed a crush on the guy.I think he enjoys talking to me but I am clueless what to do.He has had a crush on this girl for 4 years (he said not telling her so was a long story) and now the girl has a bf. In the class, I completely stopped talking to him, looking in his direction or smiling back (way too embaressing for me). A few days ago i gave a wrong answer in the class,2 guys and a girl laughed at me,he asked them not to.He's a real gentleman and its difficult for me to guess if he's nice or it's more than that.The last time i called him on the phone we flirted twice,after the first time he mentioned my ex's name and after the second time we hung up because it was getting late.What should I do?

2006-12-20 20:28:34 · 2 answers · asked by she 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-20 20:24:00 · 20 answers · asked by Lynn 4 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-12-20 20:23:08 · 14 answers · asked by gord's360 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

Would you rather have a really cute boyfriend with no money or an ugly one with lots of money?

2006-12-20 20:20:45 · 30 answers · asked by pammi_b 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-20 20:19:49 · 25 answers · asked by anonymous 6 in Singles & Dating

i really really like a boy.....but how do i make him like me too?

2006-12-20 20:17:54 · 2 answers · asked by anty93 2 in Singles & Dating

ok im invited to my bf family chirstmas and im sacred i wasnt excpeting to get invited then i was like wo i dint say it out loud and im not sure what to wear so can some advice plz? does this mean hes seroius about the relationshiop?

2006-12-20 20:17:15 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ok, so i have this friend that i really like, and i think she likes me too but the only time any sort of attraction or feeling is actually displayed is when she or I are intoxicated...what does that mean, and what should i do about it????

2006-12-20 20:16:50 · 6 answers · asked by Tyler W 1 in Singles & Dating

i wasnt sure to put in under drinking, family or bed sheets category. its a tough one.

2006-12-20 20:15:02 · 21 answers · asked by ill take it straight with no ice 3 in Marriage & Divorce

Our class was playing truth or dare yesterday in our christmas party.. One of my classmates dared him to hug & kiss me.. He went to me smiling and did it..

2006-12-20 20:14:03 · 12 answers · asked by purple_loren 2 in Singles & Dating

I'm beatng my head. She's not my girlfriend, but I want to impress her with something thoughtful... what is a good gift idea?

2006-12-20 20:12:06 · 16 answers · asked by answer this 1 in Singles & Dating

I have a Plenary order of protection against a former boyfriend.
I renew it every two years. My new fiance, and I are discussing this, and would like to present to you for a vote.

Should we renew it, or let it expire?

2006-12-20 20:12:02 · 11 answers · asked by drcc_308 2 in Singles & Dating

females only answer

2006-12-20 20:11:03 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Girls, give me some sign whether Im overreacting or do you think shes seeing someone else? BTW, its a long distance relationship

1.Lately she's alwyas coming up with excuses on the chat room that shes busy or something
2.Doesnt show much interest anymore. as if its mundane or soemthing.
3. not pursuing calls
4. hanging out with friends more than wanting to talk to me

On the brigth side:
1. she still show intimacy as always. you know, XOXOXO, kisses and so on.
2. returning email and explaining why she was out or was nto available.

Im a little confused people. sometimes i feel like shes making things up. sometimes i dont. What do you think. And how i should approach this ? On the one had, theres a twist. 1. I only met her for a few days while I was over there with her. 2. She knows that Im planning to move to where she is within a couple of months. If she know this, wouldnt she wait for me? Or maybe she just need some guy "companionship" while im not there?


thanks

2006-12-20 20:10:49 · 7 answers · asked by Confused 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-20 20:09:45 · 7 answers · asked by Semaj S 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

So good looking young guys are frightened to approach you and ask you out, because they're worried about rejection? So you are lonely more than you logically should be. So all you do is spend most of your time with wolf whistles, ogles, or old guys with money who you don't really like.

2006-12-20 20:08:01 · 32 answers · asked by Barbara Doll to you 7 in Singles & Dating

I love one boy and i thinkso he liks me so how can i know wether he loves me or not because we have no relation beyond hi hi

2006-12-20 20:01:21 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

We were together for awhile, never really fought or anything..Always had great times, enjoyes same things, fell in love...She fell out of love and I dont wanna be without her, I truly believe she is the one, she is my life. So how do I cope, do I wait until things blow over, and what do I do if I think that there is another guy already after weve only been broken up for a short time.

2006-12-20 19:58:37 · 7 answers · asked by bobcat2169 1 in Marriage & Divorce