We were together for awhile, never really fought or anything..Always had great times, enjoyes same things, fell in love...She fell out of love and I dont wanna be without her, I truly believe she is the one, she is my life. So how do I cope, do I wait until things blow over, and what do I do if I think that there is another guy already after weve only been broken up for a short time.
2006-12-20 19:58:37 · 7 answers · asked by bobcat2169 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
If she doesn't want you in her life, then please don't waste your life trying to get her back. She's not worth it! Instead, start rebuilding your life without her.
It's a painful process, my sympathies are with you.
2006-12-20 20:01:33 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
if she fell out of love, than as hard as it is to accept, u have to. all the hoping, wishing, wanting her will not do anything but set yourself up for more heartache. distance yourself, don't beg as it will hurt your self worth even worse if she doesn't want u back.just because we love someone doesn't mean they love us. pain diminishes after awhile, depending on how we respond to it. we have a choice to respond to loss kicking and screaming demanding that person to come back to us, which we will only embarrass ourselves, or we can distance ourselves and accept it and let go of how we thought or wanted our world to be. if u were only broken up for a short time, and she has someone else already, than her heart isn't with u and maybe never was.
2006-12-21 01:21:26 · answer #2 · answered by jude 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You cannot make someone love you. You can hope, wish, pray, and try, but it is a thing that is in their heart, not yours. Half a relationship is not a relationship. It's you as the floor, pal. Find a woman who would climb the tallest mountain, swim the deepest sea for you. That's who you need. Then treat her the same way.
And...the best revenge is still living well.
2006-12-20 20:05:51 · answer #3 · answered by James M 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dude, do your self a favor and move on. I was married to my husband for years, overlooked somethings most people would be in jail for, divorced him when I couldnt take it anymore, still thought that he would come around to my way.... got back with him twice, for yet even more heartbreak.. it is no fun, that special person that is really for you will come around when you are truely over that girl. Not until then will you find true happiness.... I'm still waiting.
2006-12-20 20:04:56 · answer #4 · answered by ms.cat 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try to keep the fact that you still love her known to her without seeming to depressed. and be as nice as you can to her but don't let her think you are trying to "buy her back" or something along those lines.
Peace, Harry.
2006-12-20 20:03:40 · answer #5 · answered by Harry C 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She has moved on. You need to do the same, unless you want to spend your life living in the past.
2006-12-20 20:02:19 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her how you feel and don't give up. If there is someone else involved can you handle being with them again knowing that
2006-12-20 20:18:57 · answer #7 · answered by grace 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋