Family & Relationships - 20 December 2006

i just had the biggest fight with my wife and we separated how do i get her back

2006-12-20 19:04:40 · 26 answers · asked by Benjamin H 1 in Marriage & Divorce

i have been seeing him off and on for a couple of months.

2006-12-20 19:03:55 · 4 answers · asked by NAUGHTY68 1 in Singles & Dating

Ok, so my boyfriend and I have been dating for 2 years. We love each other deeply and are very happy. Except one thing has been taking a huge toll on both of us. He is in the Navy and his career is so demanding. I try and support him, I don't cheat, I work hard and do everything I can to make a better life for us.

For a while now we have been talking about marriage. I can see myself being with him, however, because of his job he has been very tired and cranky lately. I moved 6,000 miles away from my family to be with him, but I don't ever get to really see him. His workdays are from about 7 am to 5-6 and I get out of work around 5-6 as well and we are both tired. I'm really not sure what to do. Part of me feels like I am wasting time, yet, when I think of leaving him I can't imagine it. What should I do? Or are there any recommendations?

2006-12-20 19:01:54 · 18 answers · asked by PuNk 2 in Marriage & Divorce

My husband of 13 years divorced me last year, it was a heart breaking experience for me and it has taken me most of this past year to work on getting over it. Last week, out of the clear blue sky I met a man that just captured my attention. We chatted for about an hour and have been visiting on the phone and had a couple of dates and it has been wonderful. Problem, I am a professional person and my children who are grown, and my other family will never think this guy is good enough for me and would never accept him - what do you do, just go for it for the sake of being happy again or try and understand their feelings? thanks

2006-12-20 19:00:46 · 14 answers · asked by a_cervantez05 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I got really drunk one night and things happened. Things i can't explain, but I liked it. I have been with my spouse for two years, and he just doesn't please me ever since Constance came into my life. Am I gay? Please help...

2006-12-20 19:00:10 · 12 answers · asked by nikki 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-12-20 18:57:31 · 18 answers · asked by aleem k 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

how reduce the temptation of wanting 2 call my bf everytime. i am begining to think he does'nt love me as he says cos he hardly call, and i think its cos i always call.
wat do u guys think do u think he loves me as he says but is nt just good at always callin.
do u guys also think i should reduce the way i call him? cos i am beginin to think hes takin advantage of that.

2006-12-20 18:56:37 · 13 answers · asked by beyunceee 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-20 18:56:16 · 19 answers · asked by wendy k 1 in Weddings

When my parents married 27 years ago(they split about six years ago)my dad was in the Royal Green Jackets and he always regretted giving it up,even though he did this because they had me and he didn't want me to have the unsettled moving around life that this can bring,and at times i have felt bad for him.This is why when he split from my mum and was dating like a teenager,always with girls younger than me and my brother,i could understand the reason for his bachular ways.There was a girl he was with for 5 years but she ended up breaking HIS heart,but other than this he lived life like he had never before,and he loved it.That was until six months ago when he met his older and less appealing bride to be,YES I DID SAY BRIDE!.Now if i knew that this was that he really wanted or if he looked happy then i could relax but everyone i know has agreed that there is something unsettling and strange about this woman and i just can't figure out what it is.This then put with his past history,

2006-12-20 18:56:12 · 19 answers · asked by grandmasangel 1 in Marriage & Divorce

ive been single for 5 months and i just dont want to be single anymore.Im a guy so only girls.

2006-12-20 18:55:38 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

this guy and i just recently found out we have liked each other for years but we never acted on it. we have been talking about it for about a month now, the problem is we live far away from each other so we usually talk online or on the phone.

he has told me he is "really into me" and he cant wait to see me, and get to know me more. while talking one night he kind of joked about moving somewhere far away together and if we did it we could get married in vegas. i have always known when i get married its gonna be in vegas so i would not mind.

anyway, i now am completly in love with him. im serious i would drop everything in my life if thats what it took to be with him.
he says he likes me a lot. but i am scared to tell him exactly how i feel because i dont want to freak him out. should i go on the same and see what happens or do i tell him right now?

and if i do tell him, how should i say it? i mean i dont want to make it awkward

2006-12-20 18:54:49 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

For the past two years I've been to church and have had a crush on this alterboy. It's been a year now that we have been exchanging our looks in church, and while he was at the alter! God forgive me but I try not to look at him. I'm older than him I think...he looks like he is 20. Just guessing there.... but I feel that there is an attraction between us.........None of us ever made the move, how could we? We are in church? By the time mass is over, it's time for me to go home.....what should I do? It's like a never ending game we're playing....I look at you and you look at me.....but nobody wants to make the move.....

2006-12-20 18:53:47 · 10 answers · asked by Beverly 1 in Singles & Dating

i want some new ideas ofr sex to make it ful of passion, love and lust.. please give some ideasss....

2006-12-20 18:53:19 · 11 answers · asked by gorgeous girl . 1 in Singles & Dating

There is a girl whom I like and I feel she likes me too. I ve never talked to her.How do I show her that I love her without talking to her?

2006-12-20 18:52:19 · 21 answers · asked by him h 1 in Singles & Dating

A friend of mine is going through a divorce and not able to see her 3 children at this time of moving out. I've never been through this, so I honestly don't know competely how she feels. I was wondering if anyone could help me out on something I could tell her so she knows I am thinking of her and wishing I could be of more help?

2006-12-20 18:50:21 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

we're still VERY close and see each other on a frequent basis. we pretty much are taking a "break" from the "relationship" world. we still do basically everything regular couples do, but there's no "label" to the relationship. we're best friends. he went and bought me a whole bunch of stuff for christmas and i really don't have a whole lot of money to buy him a whole lot. we lived together, and moved into our own apts, so i'm pretty much broke now, living on my own..lol!

he's a guy who likes snowboarding, skateboarding, the style of those type of clothes. he likes computer gadgets and electronics. he is also a chef and loves to cook!! (and is good too!)

any suggestions for a christmas present that doesn't cost much but is something fairly new??

2006-12-20 18:48:39 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

If I don't like to party (I don't drink at all) or go to crowded social places... Does that make me undesirabl
...e???? I'm 20 years old in college. I've never been on a date or done anything with a girl for that matter ;), but i'm definitly straight.

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It seems like everybody but me likes to drink and party

2006-12-20 18:48:11 · 13 answers · asked by Wocka wocka 6 in Singles & Dating

i just cant seem to be able to let go

2006-12-20 18:48:05 · 3 answers · asked by jezdolly 2 in Singles & Dating

if a guy starts to tickel your thighs in te middle f the night then start to touch you everywhere except your breasts and tries very hard to unhook your bra?then uses his hand to go into your underwear trying to touch your private parts...
and he is not your boyfriend.

2006-12-20 18:47:45 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

This christmas I just want to spend it with my husband and my son. Only the three of us. We use to invite people for this day bu this you i do not want to do so. my son is nine months old.

2006-12-20 18:46:55 · 35 answers · asked by Nina 2 in Weddings

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2006-12-20 18:45:49 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Guys would that weird you out, or make you feel like you're not in control? Girls would you do it? do you know any girl who has done that?

2006-12-20 18:45:23 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

Neither my nor his family know about our affair.Everything happened fast,he was not the person I thought.He was disrespectful and only wanted to had sex with me while I thought I felt something for him.I didn't have sex with him, so he started to get away from me without telling me the truth.We know each other since I was born,so this is somehow painful to me and it feels weird because we used to talk a lot before everything happened and we don't talk anymore.I only see him when there are family parties.I feel anger for obvious reasons and because he forgot about the friendship and everything.I know he is not worth it and it was good to know it after all.Now, I haven't had the opportunity to tell him what I really think about what he did to me and that he is not worth it.When we see eachother we pretend that nothing ever happened,he is getting married.I can't stop thinking about what he did to me to the point that I have nightmares about him and I would like to know what to do.Thank u!

2006-12-20 18:44:39 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

my mom says i am to young (19) turning(20)soon.

2006-12-20 18:43:30 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-12-20 18:43:27 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

He has shown up at my home, way buzzed, with his kid in tow. How do I keep him from drinking and driving with his kid in the car?

2006-12-20 18:42:24 · 6 answers · asked by Greed...Is Good 3 in Friends

2006-12-20 18:41:04 · 27 answers · asked by ill take it straight with no ice 3 in Marriage & Divorce

do all boys and girls get arroused if their ear was licked ?

2006-12-20 18:37:11 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

there is a man in nigeria who is 30 years old I am 48 he says he is madly in love with me. we have been talking for almost 8 months now. He talked about coming to see me and he attempted to twice, but could not make it. Am I being a fool. He has not asked me for anything we just chat and talk about our feelings, I hear Nigeria is a country full of scammers but they all cant be that way. what would you do in my situation.I have fallen in love with him also and I want to believe him and trust him and I am nieve sometimes I choose to see the good in people, but I hear so many bad things about Nigeria. Is he into illegal things that I dont know about. He said he works at some company that is there doing a job for USA and he is from Florida. Please someone give me some advice. He really sounds sincere but I am now questioning myself. whenever I dont hear from him for a day or two I start thinking things like he is not sincere. is that my insecurity or he may have more womam online chatting!

2006-12-20 18:36:44 · 13 answers · asked by ? 1 in Singles & Dating

I am just wondering because there is this really hot Russian guy in my class :)

Example: Do they like shy or outgoing girls ?

Please give me all the information you have :)
Thanks for your help :)

2006-12-20 18:36:25 · 3 answers · asked by Tessa L 1 in Singles & Dating