how reduce the temptation of wanting 2 call my bf everytime. i am begining to think he does'nt love me as he says cos he hardly call, and i think its cos i always call.
wat do u guys think do u think he loves me as he says but is nt just good at always callin.
do u guys also think i should reduce the way i call him? cos i am beginin to think hes takin advantage of that.
2006-12-20 18:56:37 · 13 answers · asked by beyunceee 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If this is the nature of you daily communications, I'm going to go out on a limb and assume it's FAR to early to be using the "L" word anyway... so let's leave that out of the equation here, for practical purposes.
Guys don't typically like long phone conversations. That's the sum of the equation. If you call him incessantly at all hours of the day, yes... you will soon fall out of his favor. But do what you think is right. You're young, you've got plenty of such relationships to go through before you meet the one that you love.
So whatever you do, don't sweat it.
Happy dialing!
Jack
2006-12-20 19:02:34 · answer #1 · answered by JakCannon 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The law of supply and demand--- it is that simple with guy.
example- you love chocolate- you can eat it morning, noon and night 24/7 but if you actually had it there ( and by the way, it was calorie free and you actually lost weight eating it), after eating about 10 lbs of it you would be sick of it- no matter how good it tasted, no matter how good it made you feel.
Men are the same way.. there was a song long ago you always want what you can't have--- in reverse they do not want what is there always for them to have---- be less available-- don't call him-- and I know it'll make you crazy but remember one thing- if he doesn't call you in a short period of time-- he is not IN to you like you are IN to him-- so move on to someone who can appreciate your devotedness.
2006-12-21 03:03:20 · answer #2 · answered by mac 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're not comfortable with you doing all the calling, then tell him. If you don't think he's interested in you, you shouldn't be going out with him.
All relationships are different with who gets in touch. I've been in ones where I always let my girlfriend get in touch, in ones that we both got in touch pretty equally, and now I'm in one where she expects me to do all the calling.
I guess I don't mind it all that much. No big deal. I know she cares a lot about me, and she'll even call once in a while, too.
2006-12-21 03:01:03 · answer #3 · answered by Ivan The Not So Terrible 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
U sldn't always call him.Perk up ur social life,go out and have some fun.Occupy urself with stuff so u wouldn't think of calling him.U will get used to it.Gradually,he will wonder y u didn't call and start to call u abit more.
2006-12-21 04:44:10 · answer #4 · answered by Jancy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would keep myself occupied and wait for him to call. and when he does, deliberately miss his call. Then wait for him to call again, then answer. When he asked why you haven't called or answered, tell him you've been busy with...stuff(make something up) and that will make him think of you more often and make him call because he'll be curious about what you are doing. When he's fallen into that trap, don't simply tell him that you're at home bored or something. Let him know you're busy and you're doing something. Make him feel "unwanted" and "ignored" for a little while. Make him want to call you.
So...keep busy and just wait for him to call.
2006-12-21 03:04:17 · answer #5 · answered by Alicia 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm thinking he isnt calling because you are calling. Because if you just called then he really has no need to. I'm sure he loves you just the same its just an over active mind workin for u right now.
2006-12-21 02:59:41 · answer #6 · answered by Andrew B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i wouldnt call him for a whole day and see if he would call worried and if he doesnt call by the next day then maybe something is up on his end. a guy needs to show interest in you
2006-12-21 03:03:04 · answer #7 · answered by loverly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Think of it like this. You want him so you call him because yr thinking about him. If he isn't calling you, maybe he isn't thinking about you. Which just shows maybe this relationship isn't for you or he just doesn't care enough to put forth effort like you do. So, COMMUNICATE with him. Good luck!â¥
2006-12-21 02:59:14 · answer #8 · answered by DiVenanzo™ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes.don't show him that you're all over him.make it real, only if he deserves that! go out with your friends.stop carrying your mobile around.get yourself busy.then you see the number of missed calls, and see if he really misses you..
2006-12-21 03:01:12 · answer #9 · answered by chandni 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop calling so much. If he loves you he'll call. If he doesn't call, forget his *** and find someone better who will call!
2006-12-21 21:43:43 · answer #10 · answered by Jilli Bean 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋