I got really drunk one night and things happened. Things i can't explain, but I liked it. I have been with my spouse for two years, and he just doesn't please me ever since Constance came into my life. Am I gay? Please help...
2006-12-20 19:00:10 · 12 answers · asked by nikki 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
sorry to be harsh but you are a mans worst nightmare.. i have been drunk plenty of times and things dont "just happen" you know who you are in the back of your head. your gay and you had problems with the marrage. Anyways, uhh. yeah, tell him so he can drop you.
2006-12-20 19:14:49 · answer #1 · answered by Ryan A 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It's most likely a phase. More and more women are going through a "bisexual" phase which eventually plays out, and they later go on to fall in love with and marry a man, and live normal lives thereafter. Some carry the tendency on, and never give up the interest. Some even entertain the bisexual interest, and introduce it into their married sex-life by way of a second woman in bed, etc...
Sounds like too quick a conclusion to be jumping to. Give it time. Work out your own issues before creating new ones for those that love you the most. And MOST OF ALL: Discuss this and all resulting possibilities with him. This may improve your sex lives, or at least satisfy the urge until it's worked out.
Good luck with this, I hope it all works out for the best!
Jack
2006-12-20 19:16:22 · answer #2 · answered by JakCannon 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yup - sounds very much like you are gay. Tell your spouse, be frank and honest. He's surely going to be hurt but it's better not to hide anything from him, so you can both move on
2006-12-20 19:15:57 · answer #3 · answered by PikC 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry to say, I not too sure myself. What happened might be curious and new to you, thus you like it. Its a totally new experience. Maybe you are the type who like excitement but your spouse could not satisfied you.Try talking to your spouse abt him not being able to please you. If it improved, congrats. If not, fill him with the truth. He deserves to know it. You might put your marriage to an end. Sorry for my bluntness.
2006-12-20 19:20:41 · answer #4 · answered by Joy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be frank with him. Bring Constance into the picture. Well, he might accept her too! A threesome could definitely liven things up. You might not like man anymore, but please don't deprive him, ok? Good luck.
May the 'F**k be with You'.
2006-12-20 19:04:57 · answer #5 · answered by william hunk 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him to join you and Constance so you can compare.
2006-12-20 22:33:03 · answer #6 · answered by Nick R 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you are gay... Just be honest and see what happens...
2006-12-20 19:02:27 · answer #7 · answered by Forlorn Hope 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like, tell your husband so you can both move on.
2006-12-20 19:06:58 · answer #8 · answered by ~*~Tessa~*~ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
all of the answers are very help full and friendly,read them again and again,there is nothing to add,good luck,
2006-12-20 19:52:36 · answer #9 · answered by dermatoz 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Could...........
Include him in......."Giggity"
Tell him......."bad idea"
leave him and never tell him......"good idea"
I'm just saying from a male stand point , I wouldnt take it well. Im not sure what kind of guy he is . but i could see it going bad.
2006-12-20 19:08:29 · answer #10 · answered by Andrew G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋