this guy and i just recently found out we have liked each other for years but we never acted on it. we have been talking about it for about a month now, the problem is we live far away from each other so we usually talk online or on the phone.
he has told me he is "really into me" and he cant wait to see me, and get to know me more. while talking one night he kind of joked about moving somewhere far away together and if we did it we could get married in vegas. i have always known when i get married its gonna be in vegas so i would not mind.
anyway, i now am completly in love with him. im serious i would drop everything in my life if thats what it took to be with him.
he says he likes me a lot. but i am scared to tell him exactly how i feel because i dont want to freak him out. should i go on the same and see what happens or do i tell him right now?
and if i do tell him, how should i say it? i mean i dont want to make it awkward
2006-12-20 18:54:49 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Dear,
just tell him that u like him as much as he likes you , pls remember chatting online and talking over the phone is different than a face to face long term relation. see each other , spend vacation with each-other , see how things goes . relation needs time to get into a mature stage . when u will see him it might be fun , later it might not , so take time and see each-other .if things goes fine and u know him completely ( all his bad & good side) and think he the perfect match for you than u can reveal your true emotion , knowing ur true feeling he will say something , if he propose u then ACCEPT , If he dosnt propose then he isnot ready to get married .
2006-12-20 19:07:36 · answer #1 · answered by tricksy52002 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
trustin a guy wen it comes to marriage is really nt so safe especially someone that u ave been talkin to online and he definitely knows that u would love ur marriage to be in vegas he would definitely say DAT to make u happy.
but if u want to go into a relationship wit him, i think u can go ahead and start something and see how it goes, if u guys are destined to be husbands and wife nothin can change that.
2006-12-21 03:06:38 · answer #2 · answered by beyunceee 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would have a good long talk with him before going along with his plans. You both need to agree on the plan or a marriage just won't work. You need to spend time together before planning to get married.
2006-12-21 03:00:58 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should wait it out it's a little too soon.. the holidays may be give him a chance to reveal things about his character or who he spends time with or how much time he has for you... hope it works out for you =)
2006-12-21 03:00:59 · answer #4 · answered by pinniethewooh 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just tell him, cant go thru life worrin about scarein guys off cuz you cant muscle it up to say you like them
2006-12-21 02:56:30 · answer #5 · answered by kydd 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him, if you wait you may lose him! GO FOR IT, you will regret it for the rest of your life if you hesitate! loveroccks!
2006-12-21 02:58:41 · answer #6 · answered by sorrells316 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just tell him if his as legimate as he says he is the last thing he will do is freakout trust me just tell him, no use bottling it up inside
2006-12-21 03:18:08 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋