Family & Relationships - 20 December 2006

I can't help feeling so depressed and lonely, espeically with the xmas and new yrs eve coming..
Eveyrone seems to with their gf and bf unlike me who's always alone (i'm 20 yr old guy btw)
I actaully know this girl, she's only my friend atm but i'm reluctant to ask her out, since we out friends within a group within our univerisity...like i I've met her for the first time now, I would...but now i'm not so keen to ruin the positive friendship that's keeping our group together..

Dilemma dilemma.

Afraid of being single forever...already 20~ ; S

2006-12-20 21:54:18 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I dated this guy for 2 years. In those 2 years he cheated on me twice. That I know of. I have recently ended things with him because of the mistrust and affairs. One of my friends has started to see him, but he is still sms'ing me and phoing me all the time tell me how he's sorry, he loves me and whants to be with me...In the mean time he's telling her, she's so wonderful and he wants to be with her and she's so fantastic and she is exactly what he needs. I am really not a jealous person and I am glad if he is getting out there and dating but why does he have to date my friend. I know what he is like and he is lying to her and he is going to cheat on her like he did to me? Please help!! How can I convince her he is wrong for her?? I have told her all about him and what he is doing but she seems to think that he is differnet with her and she can make it work cause he is acutally such a great guy!! Help!!

2006-12-20 21:53:20 · 9 answers · asked by cicarr 1 in Singles & Dating

She must be attractive.

2006-12-20 21:53:16 · 4 answers · asked by aminu2763 3 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-20 21:52:00 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I think u require more of that for a relationship to work for me...

I think sex is just the desert & whil friendship companionship & all the good things of being together are the main course..

What do you all out there think

2006-12-20 21:51:30 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-12-20 21:50:26 · 25 answers · asked by pOLlY 1 in Singles & Dating

by the term 'property' I include also property of our human body, intellgence and ability.
in today's world it is given to us freedom to use our own bodies, minds, money and influence in the way we like.
The girls think: "My body is my own property and I can give it to person I like". of course, it is their right. But, the same as with money, if such property is not invested properly following the advice of older and wiser person and teacher, such property may be lost.
And therefore we end with females beaten, with females cheaten, with females with broken hearts and with females unhappy in relation or marriage. and why? Because although they have property of their body, their mind at young age was too shallow to invest such property wisely.
I do not feel responsible for any girl that has chosen somebody else. it is their own responsibility.

2006-12-20 21:50:15 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i feel really down recently, i feel like i always have so much spare time on my hands doin nothing, i have an amazin bf but his life is so so so busy, he has so many mates and football and so much to do. he gets offers to go places all the time, whereas when he goes out i struggle for things to do as i dont have alot of friends. and even when i do go out im not enjoying myself at the moment. i was pregnant last month and lost it, and now i just feel empty. my bf is movin into his new house in 2 days with his friend, and in a way im really jealous as i live at home and i hate bein there as i dont get on with my dad and i dont talk or see my mum as she lives away. i just wish i had more friends and more things to do. i am in a job i hate, but hopefully that will change once i get my qualification, ive not started the course yet but when i do that will make me more busy. i jus wish i cud move in with my bf but hes not asked, i wish i cud b more happy but i feel so low right now

2006-12-20 21:50:09 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-12-20 21:48:51 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-12-20 21:48:25 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i am 23 year old gal (good looking, sweet, caring) but i have a speech problem, sometimes i stammer while i talk. I was just curiuos to know what do guy's think about dating a gal with this problem...
is it something that would make a guy back off or am i making a big deal out of nothing?
thanks for your opinions :-)

2006-12-20 21:48:09 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-12-20 21:46:34 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i got depressive anxiety the doc wont give me any meds
no girlfriend - no1 wants me

life is horribly boring
im not going to school
i dont have a job
dont have any money
i got a ***** family that i cant stand anymore
none of my friends ever come visit me

why go on?

2006-12-20 21:44:29 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I dont exactly want to say 'its over' any other sugegstions?
He just doesn't have the right time for me lately and I want to end it but I don't know what to say to him...
Its ONLINE and thats the tricky part cos we cant see each other often and he didnt message me in 3 weeks and I did once but he had to go soon and I know he's busy but I can't take it I need someone who has the time for me

so to cut things short, what can I sat to him without saying its over directly!


Additional Details

Do I pretend I've found someone else? Do I say the truth? ther are so many times when I just feel like saying its not fair how you have time to change your display message and to log onto myspace but you cant say hi to me! but people said that would be too hurtful and direct so I really need help Im confused
or just to ignore him but Ive tried that a billion times but I end up wanting to message him and I dont have the guts to block him completely!

2006-12-20 21:43:43 · 7 answers · asked by ██████████ 3 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-20 21:42:12 · 16 answers · asked by fairydust 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-12-20 21:42:11 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2006-12-20 21:41:34 · 26 answers · asked by montathra 4 in Singles & Dating

Has any of you, guys, ever been trapped in a lady ? in the sense that, you fall madly in love with someone you didn't know completely and once you comed to know that this person is a kind of weird person, it's too late, you are already in love and can't get back, and you find yourself under the total influence of this person willing to do whatever that person asks to you to do ? ever been in that situation ..? how did u get out of it ?

2006-12-20 21:41:09 · 2 answers · asked by bobby s 1 in Singles & Dating

start snooping around and try to find out the truth? I dont want to invade his privacy, but I have very good reason to think he is cheating and I need to find out for sure. Talking to him doesnt help at all. He is completely irrational. What should I do?

2006-12-20 21:37:09 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

some people, males and females, think that they should have perfect freedom. So, they choose lovers and choose jobs; they choose friends and choose religion.
it is legal right, of course. But where it leads? if everybody insist of his/her perfect freedom, many will abandon boring or demanding jobs and many will abandon boring or demanding lovers.
If such fashion spreads, the society will end in ruin and many marriages will be lost because of better and younger lovers.
Furthermore, such free people will receive the recompense of their freedom in their old age with less money and less love.
So, will you choose to enjoy your freedom until your 40 (years age) and suffer the rest of your life?

2006-12-20 21:36:05 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

how can you tell?

2006-12-20 21:33:44 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-12-20 21:33:42 · 11 answers · asked by Katie W 1 in Marriage & Divorce

we broke up for a month now. Im always the one who is engaging communication between us. she says we broke up and but its not over. when we are together we act like a couple. even though we dont see each other often. she knows i want her back. she tells me she still loves me. she about to take entry exams for grad school and feels a lot of pressure because its difficult to get in.she broke up with me because of the routines in our relationship. she didnt feel special. I have tried to show her how much she means to me and try to be romantic to her by singing to her , writing a poem and stuff. She doesnt ever call me or try to hang out with me when i feel she can. I dont know if i she wants me back or not...what do you think.

2006-12-20 21:33:11 · 3 answers · asked by J Z 1 in Singles & Dating

To make this as short as I can, I have 4 Beautiful neices in foster care in Ohio. They have been there for over 1 yr. and my brother and his soon to be ex-wife (in jail now) are going to loose their parental rights. I am 38 with a very small income (basically lucky I am getting by) and they want me to take all 4 girls. Currently 3 (age 2,3 & 6) are currently in a different home then the 12 year old. I could really use some input, because I am not sure if I am up to the task, this would mean moving amoung many other things. I just graduated college in 05 and have not even started a carer in my field. Please all input will help me I have until Feb 27th to figure it out.

2006-12-20 21:30:45 · 17 answers · asked by ? 2 in Family

MY son is getting maried on the 30 of december and i have been elected to buy the food for the reception.
i need help planning the menu, and where the best place to buy the food would be.
something simple but nice, need to have a punch drink of some kind

2006-12-20 21:30:44 · 15 answers · asked by chicklet 2 in Weddings

2006-12-20 21:26:28 · 19 answers · asked by Tropicalboy 3 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-20 21:25:39 · 10 answers · asked by starone 3 in Singles & Dating

in detail but quik answer

2006-12-20 21:22:32 · 15 answers · asked by sweetu 1 in Friends

from one year we are in affair and before 4 days she got married and now she wants to marry me before the marriage i told her to break the engagment but she didnt now tell me what shall i do

2006-12-20 21:19:11 · 10 answers · asked by tarrytal 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My little girl died last year aged 2 and a half.She was born with many things wrong with her and when she finally came out of hospital after a very long 6 months she went to live with my mum as i was 19 when I had her and was in a violent relationship.I visited Charlie most days at my mums and tried to bond with her which was very hard as the whole six months she was moved to several hospitals and always on machines, then living with my mum away from me.Now shes gone, and I cry most of the time even though I have a new partner and my two sons josh 6 and oliver 6 months because I feel so alone.Everyone feels sad for my mum and not me I know this sounds like jealousy but I was her mummy and no one can take that from me. No-one will know how I feel unless they have been in the same situation them self. Please help me.Desperate mum 24

2006-12-20 21:18:44 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships