Has any of you, guys, ever been trapped in a lady ? in the sense that, you fall madly in love with someone you didn't know completely and once you comed to know that this person is a kind of weird person, it's too late, you are already in love and can't get back, and you find yourself under the total influence of this person willing to do whatever that person asks to you to do ? ever been in that situation ..? how did u get out of it ?
2006-12-20 21:41:09 · 2 answers · asked by bobby s 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you're not in love if you don't know them you're in infactuation.
2006-12-20 21:42:36 · answer #1 · answered by attila 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, it depends on how she feels about you. If she's extremely into you, then you have a problem. However, if you're the only one with the high interest level, then you'll just have to talk yourself out of dating her. I don't really believe it's healthy to be under the total influence of a person, so it might take some self-control on your part.
But, if you're in a situation where you're losing interest and she has high interest in you, there are a few options, but none of them are favorable to either of you. I've been in this situation before, and it's impossibly hard. You can break up with her cold turkey, which might be the worst, or you could stay in the relationship until you become so uninterested and distant that she starts to lose interest in you and eventually breaks it off. Your only other option is to sabotage the relationship and make her break up with you.
2006-12-20 21:48:22 · answer #2 · answered by constipatednecro 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋