So good looking young guys are frightened to approach you and ask you out, because they're worried about rejection? So you are lonely more than you logically should be. So all you do is spend most of your time with wolf whistles, ogles, or old guys with money who you don't really like.
2006-12-20 20:08:01 · 32 answers · asked by Barbara Doll to you 7 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Why should this question not be asked?
I'm referring to the negative marks
2006-12-20 20:14:33 · update #1
you got some negative remarks because they think that you are conceited. NE ways I think that yes they are afraid of rejection but that is there problem not yours. Your problem is you you don't have the confidence in yourself to approach men. Don't wait for the you speak up or you can just wait on that certain someone to approach you however long it may take them??
2006-12-20 20:23:54 · answer #1 · answered by Truble 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
If you are that good-looking I don't think that should be a curse. Sometimes guys are are afraid that they can't measure up in most areas when ladies are rated 10's. Find someone that has more self-confidence, and who is more secure with themselves. Some guys are overly shy, but probably are dying inside to approach you or talk to you. Try to smile more and be friendly to 'em. Even give them a pat on the back or shoulder. They will think that you're more than just a pretty face. Show them you are just an average Jane inside.
2006-12-20 20:18:13 · answer #2 · answered by gone 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I think that by being good looking, it may keep the shy guys away who don't have a high self-esteem. Truthfully, i know i'm not really good looking so if I saw a really good looking girl, i would think she was out of my league. I would feel uncomfortable around a girl like that because I would feel I could never be at the same level as her. Probably, if you became friends with them first, they would feel more comfortable and that problem would disapear. However, I do believe in fate, and if they are the person for you, love will find a way.
2006-12-20 20:20:13 · answer #3 · answered by someon09 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Supposedly some hot models/actresses out there have hard times finding decent dates just for that very reason! But really, it depends on the confidence of the man himself, and confidence may or may not come with a handsome fellow. I think you should just stop worrying, and have some fun out there. Join some more activities, like youth group, choir, volunteer work, sports, etc., you're bound to meet someone you like (both physically and mentally).
2006-12-20 20:12:44 · answer #4 · answered by i♥sf 5 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Firstly just because you get wolf whistles/ogled or end up with men you dont like doesnt mean you're gorgeous. You could just dress provocatively or slutty. There is a very fine line between the two reasons for getting attention.
Then - men may indeed be intimidated by gorgeous women but it they like you enough its not going to deter them!
2006-12-20 20:25:24 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
I dont think you can be too good looking. I think you can be too full of yourself - like 'look at me I'm good looking' type thing or pointing out how many wolf whistles etc you get. This comes across as vanity or being big headed and would put guys off. Or sometimes, beauty isnt always blessed with personality if you get what I'm saying xxxx
2006-12-20 20:13:02 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 2⤋
If someone is too intimidated by the way you look then you are probably better off without them anyway as they will be too pre occupied with your attractiveness and nothing else
Dont you know that beauty is in the eye of the beholder so no-one can ever be too good looking as there will always be someone that doesnt like the way you look...
2006-12-20 20:49:37 · answer #7 · answered by Brown_Sugar 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well you claim to be good looking but you could be lieing , personaly id come and chat with u if i found you attractive and i couldent care less if you reject me it would be no loss as i wouldent have anything to loose if i hadent got u yet . Maybee if i run into you one day and your not a complete dork i might let you be freinds with me .
2006-12-20 21:10:27 · answer #8 · answered by badass-mofu 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, being extremely good looking myself, I find it's a terrible curse sometimes with girls fainting all over the place in my presence. Especially at bus stops when they keel over into the road, very dangerous for motorists.
2006-12-20 23:24:18 · answer #9 · answered by Gilligan 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Who moi? No way!
No, seriously. If you look too unapproachable as in "Why would she/he want to got out with someone like me?" you are going to have problems.
You have to make sure that your personality shines through and people can see that you are approachable, kind spirited and forgiving of people's foibles.
And what is wrong with inviting the guy you fancy to meet you for coffee?
2006-12-20 20:14:24 · answer #10 · answered by Christine H 7 · 3⤊ 1⤋