here is my problem my ex g/f of 4 years broke up with me she has anarexica ,i'm fine with not being her boyfriend but want to keep our friendship it's been 5 wks now for the last 6 months we have not slept together that much i think she still loves me but can't with her problems she needs to love herself first.she has confussed me with what she said when breaking up with me like staying friends with extra's still buying me a xmas prestent etc; i have pushed her a bit like anyone would so she said then she did'nt want me.i got a xmas card in the post + was not happy b/c i expected it in person so i sent it back saying this.thing is i think she does love me still.She said she will call over xmas and arrange to see me i will not push her or expect to get back with her just i really care about her as a person and it seams she is pushing me away when i no she needs all the friends she can get.One thing that might of caused this is i think someone told her i've been having a good time!!!!!
2006-12-20 22:05:03 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
She needs help. You're right about he rnot being able to love anyone til she can love herself. She needs help. Anorexia is a mental disease and occurs because of the way she sees herself. Get her some professional help. She cant getover this alone or with your help. She needs help.
The best you can do is be there for her and be supportive.
2006-12-20 22:15:13 · answer #1 · answered by Leiani 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give her space. I understand that you still care very much due to your relationship but this is something she need to do alone. A break can do wonders. You should give her space for a month and see how things go then.
2006-12-21 06:13:18 · answer #2 · answered by cabriojazz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋