I'm with a Polish girl at the mo but things are rocky I have now realised that someone I've been working with who is engaged and keeps making hints about the kinda guy she would like to be with. My girlfriend is away and not talking to me. Should I get this lady who says her fiance is not the 1 and she is fed up with him being at her flat or should I blow her out? She has invited me to her birthday! not only that she wants to train to get fit with me! I don't know what to do or think! I can blatantly feel the vibe from her. She is stunning an gorgous but so is my girlfriend, My girlfriend is just not as understanding to me as this girl is. Im sure most guys would take advantage of this situation. But If I get her I want her all to myself but two people will get hurt. I have never felt so right with someone before.
2006-12-20 23:28:19 · 14 answers · asked by mrmacg8 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
personally i think this woman at work is just playing with you. if she didn't think that her other half wasn't the right guy for her she would brake off the engagement and then flirt around you. what happens if you drop your gf and something does happen between you and this work colleague who is the one that is going to get hurt ? correct it will be you she still has her bf and you have no one. forget it, don't go there! if things arent working out with your gf brake it off and find someone new. you say you have never felt so right with someone maybe it feels right because she is giving you the attention you want from a woman. OK think about this...... you drop your gf you end up with the work colleague and is she going to stop there or is she going to give the same flirt sentence to another man while she is with you ? i don't think so she sounds like a player... i don't know what kind of guy you are but it sounds as though you are a one woman man and the work colleague don't sound like the right woman for you....
good luck Hun x
2006-12-20 23:45:23 · answer #1 · answered by kjw 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would have to break up with my girlfriend first....BUT then again i'd expect homegirl to do the same, unless you just want that passionate sex. Cause you dont' want to cheat, so just let the other one go...besides she isn't fulfilling you like you want...hence you need to let her go anyway. Don't be selfish and just take all the intimacy for yourself and keep your other girlfriend and not give her intimacy...maybe she wants to have some intimacy too, that's what you WERE there for....so if you don't want to, and you want something else, then let her go find someone better while you take yours.
As with the girl you want....if she wants out, then i'd wait to see that happen FIRST...one thing to cheat, then be part of the heinous act is another....not to mention if she can't then what's the odds she won't do it to your behind? So i'd EXPECT she'll do the same and start anew with EACH other. THen we'll see how 'RIGHT' it is if that be it the case.
Good luck to ya.
2006-12-21 07:38:01 · answer #2 · answered by Dennis 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well for starters you have done the right thing, by not making a move on this other girl. you just dont know what is goin on with this girls relationship, maybe she is goin through a rocky patch and could end up working in out with her bf, then where would you be (on your own). i think that you have just got to curt up in the whole thing, you should sort things out with your girlfriend first. but if the other girl is what you really want, then you must ends things with your current girl, then she must end it with her boyfriend. dont cheat you will only end up hurt and hurting others.
good luck hope you do the right thing. XX
2006-12-21 07:42:12 · answer #3 · answered by michelle g 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, dump your girlfriend if you decide you want this other girl. Don't cheat. I am Polish and Polish women are the most loyal to their husband. I would think about that while making a decision.
2006-12-21 07:31:11 · answer #4 · answered by Billys girl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Concentrate on your girlfriend and leave this one alone, let her know that she needs to work things out with her man, and remind her that you do have a girlfriend tht you really love. Girls are very smart and she will catch the hint.
2006-12-21 07:31:40 · answer #5 · answered by stringhead3 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she goes out with you before breaking it off with the other guy then she's a cheater. If she'll cheat with you, she'll cheat on you. Is your pleasure worth another persons pain?
2006-12-21 07:32:13 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
dump the girl(nicely face 2 face) and go 4 da other one after she dumps her fiance
2006-12-21 07:33:41 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Follow your heart
2006-12-21 07:31:40 · answer #8 · answered by Scotty 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go ahead.You have your own life to live.Why try to force a donkey downstream??I think you found what was meant to be yours!!
2006-12-21 07:33:08 · answer #9 · answered by Joe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go for the other girl
2006-12-21 07:42:39 · answer #10 · answered by .x.ally.x. 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋