Family & Relationships - 20 December 2006

We have been togeather for 4 years we have lived togeather for 1 1/2 years and recently bought a condo togeather. I am still totally in love with him, and i could no even imagine one day with out him. We used to have sex and fool around all the time, our sex life was great. About six months ago it took a durastic down fall, and now its been 4 weeks since we've even touched eachother, his attitude has not changed, he is still very nice and sweet to me. And I have tried several times at night when we are in bed to try to get some, but he turns me down. When we started dating I only weighed 100 lbs, i then gained 40 lbs, and just recently lost 15, I am and never have been fat by any means, but I can't help but think that the sudden drought in your sex life is cause by that, he tells me everyday how beautiful I am, what do you think??

2006-12-20 04:56:26 · 8 answers · asked by *STAR* 3 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-20 04:56:06 · 3 answers · asked by Steven L 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

she could not stand the way you would treat her. She felt unlved and unwanted in your country (USA). If you really loved her, would you try to show her that you have changed, that you were willing to make it work, even if she was so far away from you, or would you just give up and let her go of your life? Not mentioning that she gave up on everything to go up there for you. The least you could have done was to stand by her side. You two had many problems because of the cultural shock, but would you quit on her if she was precious to you? Please, no jokes, this is very serious.

Are there guys who still care and go for her till the end of Earth?
He is 59 and she is 52. Not just two children anymore.
Is a wife just a disposable thing nowadays?

2006-12-20 04:55:35 · 8 answers · asked by babygirl 1 in Marriage & Divorce

ok so im having 5 girls spend the night adn need things to do besides the obvious (ie movies, talking, calling, etc) so got any ideas? o and hopefully it doesn't lead to my parents killing us, that would be nice. thanx! :-)

2006-12-20 04:55:30 · 6 answers · asked by Chocolate Lover :-) 1 in Family

2006-12-20 04:55:29 · 9 answers · asked by bob a builder 2 in Singles & Dating

How can I know if my friend approved another friend's request to look on his/her private photos?

2006-12-20 04:54:33 · 2 answers · asked by John Michael 1 in Friends

2006-12-20 04:54:21 · 4 answers · asked by Steven L 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

your friend is someone who would show you the right path or those who mislead you?

2006-12-20 04:53:44 · 6 answers · asked by truth set free 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I have a family of six, about to be homeless, very little food in the house, no money to buy anything for the kids, husband breaking his back to bring in an income that gets swallowed up by bills, family sucked me dry and that's why I'm in this mess in the first place... No way to apply for assistance because my husband uses our only car to commute to work, home all day long with a toddler and an infant.... situation seems bleak and hopeless... Sometimes I want to break down and cry but what would that help?

2006-12-20 04:52:59 · 2 answers · asked by In The Same Boat 1 in Family

cause hes a really cute ,funny and fun guy to hang with and ive began to like him a little and i dont want to upset my friend so what the heak should i do?

2006-12-20 04:52:49 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-12-20 04:51:30 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

What do you think of guys that have some grey hair or guys whose hair is starting to go somewhat grey. I'm in my mid 20s, didn't know what girls thought. Thanks!

2006-12-20 04:51:26 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My friend has a gf. I like him as a person and I don't want to ruin our friendship. But sometimes when I see him, I get upset cuz I wish he was my bf.

2006-12-20 04:51:11 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Weve been together for over 2 years, so we know eachother like the back of our hands. I KNOW he doesnt have anything like an std, we have only had sex with eachother. I know hes not gay. And I know he would NEVER cheat on me. We just know eachother this well, so is there any OTHER reasons? He says he's tired all the time and is never in the mood. Ask me questions if you need to.

2006-12-20 04:51:10 · 15 answers · asked by kdamm05 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-20 04:50:42 · 6 answers · asked by Mark D 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I'm quite sure mine is..for im a handsome kid by nature.

Girls,wanna hook up with me? I'm great in cooking,studying,dating,and in bed.

2006-12-20 04:50:33 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-12-20 04:50:15 · 5 answers · asked by Matt R 1 in Singles & Dating

We already have sex and would like to get married next year.

2006-12-20 04:50:14 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Assuming that all the other factors: sense of humor, personality, interest etc. were compatible.
Would you marry an adult film star if they were retired and claimed they would be faithful to you?
Would you marry an adult film star if they were still active in the business?

2006-12-20 04:50:12 · 2 answers · asked by Bruce Tzu 5 in Marriage & Divorce

We've been seperated 9 months. Both of us have been dating. Divorce was final at 3:15 monday. He remarried at 3:30. When I talked to him he informed me she was 3 months pregnant. Don't want him back, but still feel like he's betrayed me and his two children. Am I crazy?

2006-12-20 04:50:08 · 12 answers · asked by Amy M 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I'm seeing this guy who has a girlfreind and I was just wondering if anyone has every lost thier man/girl to cheating after stealing them away from someone else...

2006-12-20 04:50:06 · 3 answers · asked by majones83 2 in Singles & Dating

i cant approach them,im to afraid.a little voice in my head keeps telling me there gonna laugh or run away,im not ugly,i just have no self assteam,what do YOU say to break the ice,are you waiting for the right one or do you go looking.HELP

2006-12-20 04:49:55 · 10 answers · asked by prettypete 2 in Friends

In India, where caste, creed and religion plays a major role, I was in love with a girl for 8 years. At the 4th year of our relationship, i found her sleeping with her friend. She confessed and asked me to forgive her for I did not support her emotionally. I painfully agreed and was preparing to marry her. After that incident, I never even once, asked her about that mistake or pin pointed about that. Now she drinks, smokes, goes out for parties with guys and allows men to stay in her house over night. She says, IT IS MY LIFE. I don't want you in my life any more. I don't want to get into committment of marriage and not interested in marriage at all. She threw me out like a dog. After begging for 3 years to marry her, and when she refused (am now 33), i married a girl to satisfy my parents atleast. Now, she is free and moves with a colleague of hers. SHE HAS DECEIVED ME AND CHEATED ME. WILLL ONE DAY, SHE WILL FEEL FOR HER MISTAKES AND COME BACK TO ME..ASKING TO FORGIVE HER.

2006-12-20 04:49:48 · 10 answers · asked by Klizzi i 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-20 04:49:38 · 18 answers · asked by bubbles 1 in Marriage & Divorce

i know i did a little, but i still think a little outburst was warrented:

two days ago, my BF was poking and prodding and stabbing at me with his fingers in my ribs and side and chest and i kept telling him to stop and that it hurt but he kept doing it and doing it and doing it. then yesterday our dog was chewing on a rawhide and he took it from her and kept poking me with the slimey end, and rubbing it in my hair and putting in my face, but on top of that, he's a much bigger person that me, and he was holding me down and the dog was on top of me too, and i just kept yelling stop stop stop and he wouldnt and then i finally pulled away and just screamed "i'm tired of this sh*t, i'm tired of you hurting me and treating me like this." and his reply was "whats your problem" so i told him i was leaving.

i never left, i got upstairs and the dog wouldnt let me leave so i broke down in the bathroom hysterically.

but really, i had just cause to freak out, right?? maybe not that much..

2006-12-20 04:48:58 · 36 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

if they do i'm screwed because i had a dream last night that my sexy bf was gonna dump me 2 day at church for this fat ugly chick and i don't kno what to do!

2006-12-20 04:48:46 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

her boots, and thought I should know that? Is that flirting?

2006-12-20 04:47:54 · 19 answers · asked by heymanchase 1 in Singles & Dating

It is better to have loved and lost than never to have lost at all?

2006-12-20 04:47:14 · 7 answers · asked by nowhere 3 in Singles & Dating

i been through a whole bunch of bull**** and i have a friend that been there i mean throuh eveything i was married and my hubsand had left me and it was hard fro me to adjust to being in a relationship because how my ex-husband had done me i mean this ***** really did me wrong i had co-sign for a car and he left with it and when we had a place together he didn't want to pay the bills or help out with them and aslo when there was things needed for the kids i had always did cause he was never home he was to busy at the casino or in the street hanging as for my friend he wonder what made me get into a realtionship like but now we are together and it been kinda hard for me to adjust into being in a relationship again and i respect him and i love him but as far Us how would i be able to understand each other after being in a trouble relationship with my Ex-Husband cause i don't want to go through that again i want to make things work with the realtionship that i am in now my new man

2006-12-20 04:47:03 · 2 answers · asked by MRS DEE 2 U 3 in Marriage & Divorce

I've been dating this guy and we do everything together and have lots of fun. He is the most caring man that I've ever been involved with but the only problem i have now is that he is married. My friends say he treats me as if I'm his wife and that is just the thing...i'm dying to marry this man. I'm with him on trips and it seems that when he isn't with her...he's with me but now i've become supper jealous of her. Help

2006-12-20 04:46:54 · 23 answers · asked by Cameka H 2 in Singles & Dating