In India, where caste, creed and religion plays a major role, I was in love with a girl for 8 years. At the 4th year of our relationship, i found her sleeping with her friend. She confessed and asked me to forgive her for I did not support her emotionally. I painfully agreed and was preparing to marry her. After that incident, I never even once, asked her about that mistake or pin pointed about that. Now she drinks, smokes, goes out for parties with guys and allows men to stay in her house over night. She says, IT IS MY LIFE. I don't want you in my life any more. I don't want to get into committment of marriage and not interested in marriage at all. She threw me out like a dog. After begging for 3 years to marry her, and when she refused (am now 33), i married a girl to satisfy my parents atleast. Now, she is free and moves with a colleague of hers. SHE HAS DECEIVED ME AND CHEATED ME. WILLL ONE DAY, SHE WILL FEEL FOR HER MISTAKES AND COME BACK TO ME..ASKING TO FORGIVE HER.
2006-12-20 04:49:48 · 10 answers · asked by Klizzi i 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Forget about her and consider yourself lucky that although you fought and begged to be with her, the cosmos knew that wasn't right for you. You were saved from yourself.
She'll reap what she's sown, have no fear...eventually it'll come back around to her...she may never come to you for anything, but her actions and heartlessness (if your story is accurate) will bite her in the azz at some point.
Focus on your marriage and making it work and happy...think about the girl you married and how awkward it would feel (or does?) knowing her husband is pining over someone else...is that fair? Don't punish her because you allowed your heart to make a poor choice (re: the other girl).
2006-12-20 04:56:10 · answer #1 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's simple. Complete honesty! You have no doubt at least seen one Ben Stiller movie within your lifetime. Let me quickly sum up the plot of every Ben Stiller movie ever: He tells a little white lie to protect an awkward secret. Then he must tell another lie to cover or confirm the first one. It turns into a snowball effect where by the end of the movie, the misunderstandings are so out of control that there's no way he could come out with the truth without extreme repercussions. Don't be Ben Stiller. Tell her now before more time elapses. My advice, just copy and past your exact question above. The one you just posted. And send it to her. At any rate, tell her with feeling. Make sure that she knows that what you are about to say is very hard for you and that it might come off as awkward but that above all you don't want to jeopardize your friendship. Even if she rejects your "romantic" love, if she is a good friend, she will continue to love you as a friend. Let your little secret burst forth from your heart or it will torture you for all of your days and you will always regret it. Live! Be honest! Be free!
2016-05-23 01:04:21 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are some people that have no remorse for there actions so the answer is NO! You need to move on with your life and forget about her I do not feel that she is thinking about you and the many people she has hurt in the past. Make it work for you and your wife life is too short to hold on to the past hurt.
2006-12-20 05:00:23 · answer #3 · answered by Ms Pollyanna 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is awful, but I think you set your self up for disappointment. She is not a nice person ,and she is the only one who knows why she did that . get over her and don't accept her apology if she ever does apologize.
2006-12-20 04:56:11 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont count on her coming back. if shes seen this side of u then she wont be looking back at all. and try to get some anger management help
2006-12-20 04:53:27 · answer #5 · answered by jenivive 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I doubt it. Once a cheater always a cheater.
2006-12-20 04:53:33 · answer #6 · answered by darrellkern 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What a waste of time.
2006-12-20 04:54:16 · answer #7 · answered by Mintygoodness1 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OF COURSE SHE WILL COME CRAWLING BACK TO YOU. WHO COULD RESIST SUCH A WHINER
2006-12-20 04:54:11 · answer #8 · answered by denis5946 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
whoa!
move on dude! it's over.
2006-12-20 04:53:23 · answer #9 · answered by mama dee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
DTB dude...
DTB= dump that b*tch
2006-12-20 05:10:45 · answer #10 · answered by Rat P... 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋