cause hes a really cute ,funny and fun guy to hang with and ive began to like him a little and i dont want to upset my friend so what the heak should i do?
2006-12-20 04:52:49 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Stop it! It is wrong
2006-12-20 04:54:40 · answer #1 · answered by Sweet 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Ok, check it out! You have a great thing here and you are teedering on messing it all up.
This can be great, first acknoledging that you have a crush is huge! Now that you know it, take a step back and see the big picture. It's your best friends man! You dont want to lose your best friend and you will if you get her man. The best part about this is that you do get him, in a way. You don't get to cuddle with him or kiss him or the romantic parts but you do get to enjoy his company. Be happy for that and train your brain and heart that you are going to be his close friend. Ultimately they could both end up in your life forever and you will find someone they will like too.
He can be sweet to you and kind and you back because there is no threat there when it comes to dating pressure. Explore this friendship but don't let it go past that. Be a good human!!
2006-12-20 05:00:19 · answer #2 · answered by Cabbage 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well first I would hate to have you as a friend...... Your friend is suppose to trust you and here you are messing with her man come on grow up...... Leave him alone and just be friends because boyfriends come an go but a true friend is hard to find.....
You need to go and find someone else unless you are willing to lose both of these people... because if he leaves her for you what makes you think he will stay with you and not run to another friend.... Don;t give him the chance to hurt your friend and never give a man the right to disrepect you as a person by doing this and you should have more respect... Leave it alone.....
2006-12-20 05:03:10 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You yourself are admitting that the guy is hard to resist.
Ask yourself why are you not able to stop yourself eventhough deep in your heart you feel like there is something wrong in what you are doing?(thats why you are confused and here to ask)
how can you be so sure that your affinity will not grow into attraction after flirting with him?....back off! dont be a 'you know what'
2006-12-20 05:05:45 · answer #4 · answered by Lord Of Lust 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yes yes yes,,,,its in the un writen laws of best friends. You don't flirt or screw around with your bf, boyfriends, uless you want to loose your bestfriend.
I had the same problem with my bestfriend. I was in love with her boyfriend for sometime, but I knew better than to do anything about it. Le sigh.
We could of done stuff behing her back, but i wouldn't. I luved her and his friendship way to much.
2006-12-20 04:58:12 · answer #5 · answered by terri2003anne 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
It not wrong as long as you keep it as that, it is very wrong to flirt with him. Just be a friend to both of them. You will find your own man.
2006-12-20 04:57:32 · answer #6 · answered by stringhead3 4 · 0⤊ 3⤋
Simple answer, yes it is wrong!
2006-12-20 04:54:56 · answer #7 · answered by foxiee_chic 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
control your feelings... likeness may turn into love.. you may lose your bestfriend
2006-12-20 04:57:54 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
find yourself a new friend!!! you dont' deserve her... think about it... if this was reversed... how would you react..??
GROW UP!
2006-12-20 04:57:08 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
grow up and find your own man!!!
2006-12-20 04:59:39 · answer #10 · answered by treez1976 2 · 1⤊ 2⤋