We've been seperated 9 months. Both of us have been dating. Divorce was final at 3:15 monday. He remarried at 3:30. When I talked to him he informed me she was 3 months pregnant. Don't want him back, but still feel like he's betrayed me and his two children. Am I crazy?
2006-12-20 04:50:08 · 12 answers · asked by Amy M 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Yup.
2006-12-20 04:53:52 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
too feel betrayed, maybe. but to hurt by the his actions not at all. he couldn't even wait until the ink was dry before he married this other woman. it takes a long time to heal from a divorce, I mean my parents divorced almost 10 yrs ago and my dad is still bitter over it, and he's remarried 2x's since then. so you are entitled to your feelings no matter if anyone thinks you are crazy or not.
2006-12-20 12:56:31 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry about this. You are not alone. The same thing happen to me.
The divorce was final 18 November
He re-married 2 of December.
Right after our divorce was final he informed me that his mistress gave birth to thier love child on November 12, just a few days before the divorce was final. I had NO idea and I felt bretrayed. He didn;t tell me anything until then.
I'm over it though, I'm happy that she took him off my hands.
2006-12-20 12:58:02 · answer #3 · answered by Blunt 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, you've been betrayed. But I wouldnt give the scumbag a 2nd thought. But DO be sure that you collect child support from him for your 2 children. He'll begin to realize very soon, the mistake that he's made. But then again, he probably doesnt have a conscience to begin with. And it is at that time you can rejoice in his misery!
2006-12-20 13:30:21 · answer #4 · answered by iyamacog 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
IT is okay to feel bad or even angry, not because of him but because what he did was not fair and he was no honest .. but don't worry he will get his pay back sooner or later in a way or other (what goes around comes around) or something like that I'm not sure is it like this..... The same happend to me we got divorce after he beged me on not living him and even "cry" in front of the judge but after a couple of months of our divorce he got married because the girl he cheated with was 4 months pregnant ..But months after he got married he told me that he was not happy that she was a good for nothing and that she treat him bad .. I just told hiom that I feel sorry for him but that was what he desrve fro being a trador and not honest, she is still with him as far as I know but because he can't leave her because of their 2 kids and she doesn't alllowed him to visit or see our daugther and I feel bad fro my daugther but he got what he deserves !!!! Just live your FREE life and don't worry for him anymore he didn't deserve you !!! GOOD LUCK !!
2006-12-20 13:33:41 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No you are not crazy. it is strange when the father of your children has a child with some one else. and that was real quick to be re-married sorry to hear that. stay strong good luck
2006-12-20 12:57:29 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
damn-he could at least wait till the ink dried, it does seem a little inconsiderate
2006-12-20 13:03:18 · answer #7 · answered by Annie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No it is not crazy. It is understandable that you would feel betrayed by him.
2006-12-20 12:57:15 · answer #8 · answered by Mystic 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
he is divorced, and separated for 9 months........what is he supposed to do, sit around and wait for you........now you need to stop sitting around wasting your time thinking about him....chop chop.......
2006-12-20 13:33:05 · answer #9 · answered by besthusbandever 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, you are being irrational...let your EX husband go.
2006-12-20 13:12:51 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋