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I've been dating this guy and we do everything together and have lots of fun. He is the most caring man that I've ever been involved with but the only problem i have now is that he is married. My friends say he treats me as if I'm his wife and that is just the thing...i'm dying to marry this man. I'm with him on trips and it seems that when he isn't with her...he's with me but now i've become supper jealous of her. Help

2006-12-20 04:46:54 · 23 answers · asked by Cameka H 2 in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

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things like this can become very nasty. it's happening to a friend of mine and it has left her crying. the two are still together but a lot of hurt is going both ways. to begin with u have to know where the relationship between u and him stand and where he and his wife stand. if u know then then there's no need to be jealous. u are getting his full attention not his wife. the jealousy part is suppose to work the other way around(she jealous of u not u jealous of her). and also does the wife know about you all's relationship? the best thing to do is to set up a foundation in the relationship and then see how it goes from there. take it one step at a time and also tell him how u feel.

2006-12-20 05:06:37 · answer #1 · answered by Curius 1 · 0 1

What makes you think you are the only chick he has on the side? If he's that low down and dirty to cheat on his wife, do you REALLY think that he won't do the exact same thing to you if he married you? Think about it. How would you feel knowing that there was another woman occupying your man's time? That every time you were at work or out with your friends, that he isn't sleeping with another woman? When he claims he's working late, he's really banging a co-worker? You need some serious help. You're just as much of a jerk as he is for carrying on an affair with a married man for two years. Stop destroying this poor woman's marriage, get a man of your own and pray Karma doesn't come back to bite your dumb a$$.

2006-12-20 04:52:40 · answer #2 · answered by Koko Loco 2 · 3 0

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2016-11-27 23:01:22 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0 0

How can you believe this man is the most caring man? He is cheating on his wife. He hurting people. You think he caring because the way his with you and takes you on trips etc...Where is your head?Oh and your friends say he treats you like your his wife. No honey he is cheating on his wife. That is not a caring man. He is very selfish only thinking of his needs. When a person is married it's no longer just you.Did he tell you he's unhappy or did he say she no good in bed or he there for the kids or he feels sorry for her. Which line did he give you. Because most married men have Lot's of lines. I was single for 6yrs and more married men try-ed to pick me up,you know ask me out, then single men. And all I can think was this poor women at home and she don't even know her husband is a pig. Then there are women like you who buy into there ways.Why? Don't you know a married man is going to be on his best behavior as long as it takes.With you (for him) it's not real life. His relationship with his wife that's real, and real life for him. Your just something he been seeing, fooling around with. And if he has no thinking of divorcing his wife, guess what he going to expect you to be there, to waste your life, and wait.And if you don't he will find a other female toy like you to play with.OH YA you think he not like that because he such a caring man. A good caring man don't cheat on his wife.And now you say your jealous of her. You need to get over that. You have no right to her or feel any way against her.Your sleeping with her husband, not her sleeping with your husband. She has every right to tell you something or feel against you, not the other way around honey.And if you were to get your way with this man and the wife is not longer in the picher. Because she found out and left his butt. Do you really think every thing is going to be good between you and him? Don't you know what comes around goes around. You need to read ten stupid things women do to mess up their lives by Dr. Laura C. Schlessinger and please ask God for giveness.

2006-12-20 05:37:10 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1 0

ok see now hmmm... wow. first of all your not his wife and he wont marry you. i no that soudns tough bnut just listin im not judging you at all. but you are the other woman and knowingly, you cannot be jealous of his wife, that is HIS wife he chose her to put a ring on her finger and love and be committed to her now what makes you think if he marries you he wont have another woman on the side waiting just like you, nine times out of ten he wont leave his wife thats jsut the breaks, he has to much to lose in a divorse and also whatever love he had from her in the beginning he still has no matter what. your wasting alot of time because even if he does leave like i said what did you accomplish you took a man from his wife so you basically obtained a cheater and karma will bite both of you in the azzz. but mainly think about her as a woman and how you are probibly hurting their relationship, would you want that done to you? i want you to move on and find someone who will be yours and ALL yours that is what you deserve, what you give out you get back. dont forget that! love always envy

2006-12-20 04:56:33 · answer #5 · answered by envyme 2 · 1 1

WHY would you ever want to marry someone you KNOW is a cheater? Is your ego really so big that you think he wouldn't do it to you too? If so, then you are foolish.

You've built up some ugly karma here, so be prepared for it to come around to you...by participating in cheating, you've okayed yourself to be cheated on. Apparently, you are okay with the concept.

End this now and get your life and karma back in balance...treat others as you'd like to be treated...if you wouldn't want someone cheating with your man, don't cheat with theirs...and have more pride in yourself than to play with a man who is legally committed to someone else...if he was worth having, he'd be divorced and available because he'd have had the morals and the compassion not to cheat on someone he was supposed to love.

2006-12-20 04:51:03 · answer #6 · answered by . 7 · 2 0

AGHaaaa!
Your such a naughty girl.
Caught up in the excitement of doing that BAD thing.
Feeling secure that he will be there to get the free stuff you give.
Your just another of the loose women, guy's are happy to have around.
Face the music girl, your just a free escort and lay.
I have no intention to make this seem an insult.
Your just lost!

2006-12-20 04:58:53 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2 0

You're playing with fire...

You're also setting yourself up for a world of hurt. If he *really* loved you, would he STILL be married??? He loves his wife, but is just using you (and your body).

Let's just say, he wakes up one morning and decides to leave his wife for you. You guys get married... and then suddenly a younger/ prettier/ thinner/ richer/ smarter/ etc... woman comes along. He'll leave you just like he left his wife!

Get out while you still can. Also don't make him decide between you and his wife. He actually already did by not divorcing her, yet!

This girl made her boyfriend choose and he honestly told her that his wife was pregnant. He had a high sex drive and she had complications that sex would make worst. His wife allowed him a gf while she was preg, but the second the baby was born, he told his gf that they would be over!

2006-12-20 04:54:45 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1 1

You are just a loser who can not see other's happiness because of her losts!
I don't see you as someone who deserves true love and i'm in wonder how much you are sick!
you are geting her husband and still saying you feel jealous of her??? oh, my God!
but on the other hand, i think it's better that you go with someone like that cheater man! and hopefully his whife will know the truth soon to leave you together!
women like you are just some virous for humanity!

2006-12-20 05:05:34 · answer #9 · answered by - 3 · 1 0

Get a man who isn't married. He's cheating on his wife with you, and probably cheating on the both of you, what makes you think that if he leaves his wife for you, he won't cheat on you then?

2006-12-20 04:49:40 · answer #10 · answered by FaerieWhings 7 · 4 0

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