Weve been together for over 2 years, so we know eachother like the back of our hands. I KNOW he doesnt have anything like an std, we have only had sex with eachother. I know hes not gay. And I know he would NEVER cheat on me. We just know eachother this well, so is there any OTHER reasons? He says he's tired all the time and is never in the mood. Ask me questions if you need to.
2006-12-20 04:51:10 · 15 answers · asked by kdamm05 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Good grief. You don't have to be cheating to not want sex. These people have obviously had some rough experiences in life. Look. There IS something wrong. But it might have more to do with his general level of stress, or a job he hates, or a bad family situation... It could also be depression or something related. Go to a doctor! Let someone help you guys figure this out! (And. To be fair. He COULD be unhappy with you. Keep your eyes open, k?)
2006-12-20 04:59:35 · answer #1 · answered by stillstanding 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Well hun...when my sex life with my husband started to go downhill...I played the naive roll and believed that he really was tired, he was military and his job was very demanding and trying...and I also believed he would NEVER cheat on me. Well, NAIVE that's exactly what I was. My husband was cheating on me. With a girl he worked with...to make matter worse. So all the time he was spending at work...he was screwing her...of course making him tired. Now his *** is stuck with her and he's miserable beggin for me back.
The thing about human beings is that sex becomes a necessity of life. Once you have sex for the first time it becomes a part of you life. And people especially guys have needs and desires that need to be filled. And masturbation just doesnt fill those needs most of the time. So if he's not sleeping with you...the brash harsh reality is that he's probably finding it elsewhere. Sorry to say.
I am not tryin to say that he is in fact cheating on you or anything like that. But don't ever for a minute under estimate someone. Trust yes you can trust him...but dont think that he will NEVER cheat on you because then you get comfortable in the relationship and it might just happen. I wish you the best and you should just sit down and talk to him.
He could be depressed...is he extremely stressed out at work. Maybe it's the holidays. I know that around Christmas time my sex drive totally depletes because I am so worried about the holidays and everything else. The best bet is to talk to him...he should understand your concerns and help alleviate them.
Good Luck and Happy Holidays!
2006-12-20 13:00:40 · answer #2 · answered by Love Tha Skins! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nobody, and I mean nobody knows anyone the way you claim. You may think you know your love interest like that but it is nothing more than a socially induced myth! If you really knew him as well as you claim, you would know he isn't pulling a fast one and that he is as tired as he says he is. How sure are you that he would never cheat on you.? Just because he says? If there is something that is out of the ordinary and there is no evidence to support his claim, then he is hiding something! Is he working a shift that would cause him to be tired so suddenly? Is he on drugs? How do you know for sure he didn't turn gay? Why isn't he in the mood? Your feminine instincts tell you there is something wrong! As a man I can tell you that you probably aren't wrong! Don't let your guard down and get to the bottom of it before it is too late!
2006-12-20 13:02:41 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's cheating. Sorry to say. I dated a guy who hated his father for cheating on his mother. Said he would never cheat and was the best guy I had every met. We were perfectly happy. He was cheating the whole 2 years we were together. Never say never. I did and was devastated.
2006-12-20 12:56:10 · answer #4 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My recommendation would be to NEVER say NEVER when it comes to the actions of others. That is a sure way of getting your heart broken in a million pieces. Anything is possible. Usually when men dont want to have sex its either stress or they are cheating.
2006-12-20 12:57:44 · answer #5 · answered by JustMe 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well first off hes probably bored not trying to be mean but i mean do the same thing over and over agian does get boring. I would stop it for a little and tease the hell out of him to make him want it but dont give in. Make him wait for it when he really needs it. Beat around the bush...oh and try new things like a hot bra or underwear and just walk around in front of him in it. Works all the time :)
2006-12-20 13:46:32 · answer #6 · answered by ~It's Me~ 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Sweetie I hate to say it but he is cheating, no man never turns sex for 1 month unless he is getting it somewhere else.
2006-12-20 12:57:08 · answer #7 · answered by Sweet 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wake up! He's cheating on you. Maybe not physically with another woman but maybe emotionally or mentally he's cheating. NEVER say NEVER. You can not predict the future.
2006-12-20 12:54:07 · answer #8 · answered by MiMi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree with Mimi.
I can understand a couple of days because of stress or tiredness...but, a whole month - yeah, something else is distracting him.
2006-12-20 12:57:06 · answer #9 · answered by Mintygoodness1 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmph he respects you unlike majority of the other guys in life
2006-12-20 12:55:35 · answer #10 · answered by spiritualism0 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋