Family & Relationships - 20 December 2006

I have been married now for only 3 months, and i think i have made the biggest mistake of my life. He hasnt had a job for two months now and is doing drugs like i have never seen, he doesnt come home and we have a baby on the way. Yes it was my mistake for marrying him but now I have no choice, i need help. I dont know how divorce or separation works, I could use some advice on what to do first?

2006-12-20 05:19:02 · 9 answers · asked by Heather T 2 in Marriage & Divorce

while my partner was asleep i asked him some questions because i feel he is cheating. he answered my questions which i was quite shocked. would he have been telling the truth?

2006-12-20 05:18:38 · 20 answers · asked by shell 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I had my son when I was 18, his mother was my high school sweet heart and my first. I always thought of my self as a good father. I gave up a full scholarship to college, to work at a local restaurant for pennies to raise son. I made it and he is now 10 yrs. old. But even though I've done my best to be a father to him I feel that I'm not a great DAD. Communication is tough. We clash really bad cause he is my clone. I'm afraid that in the next few years as he grows into a young man he may stray in places that will lead him to trouble. How can I connect with my son to become a mentor and a guide in his young adult life before it's too late? Are all 10 yr olds defiant? Do they seriously have to do stupid things to push buttons and see how far they can push their parents? sorry that last one was stupid...I was the king at that one!!

2006-12-20 05:18:06 · 11 answers · asked by RX-7!! 2 in Family

i wanted to break up with my gf but was too scared cuz she was a real nice girl and i didnt want to hurt her feelings
i thought i might have given her a hint when i didnt reply whenver she said she loves me
but she didnt get the hint
me my m8s and my gf went on a camping trip
me my gf shared a tent with the girl who i really liked and we had kissed and everything
well when she was out of the tent i started kssing the girl and my gf caught us
this hapend week ago and she really upset and depressed
what can i do?????
i know i was wrong

2006-12-20 05:17:22 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i am 18 and have been with my boyfriend for 3 years we have had our ups and downs. he has cheated on me and he says he loves me and will never do it again he sounds honest and sincere, this is the first time he has cheated in 3 years and i dont know if i should beleive him. he said that i am the only one for him and that the sex is great but i cant help but wonder how am i great if he cheated on me? i mean yes it was only once but it could happen again. so should i beleive him or should i leave him? i love the guy and im really confused. i have a few secrets to but none while we have bewn together. i use to be a slut and cheat but i stoped and i dont know if he will though. should i trust the man i have loved for 3 years. i am 18 and hes 22 so shouldnt i be the one who is not ready to commit. iwould really like some help. he said he loves me and he wont do it again but should i beleive him. i really love him and im confused.

2006-12-20 05:17:10 · 3 answers · asked by ashley h 1 in Singles & Dating

I have a crush on this boy and we already exchanged email addresses and phone numbers and we are each others friends on myspace,but i want to know if he likes me...help plz!



NOTE:we r in middle school

2006-12-20 05:17:03 · 4 answers · asked by icepgurl 1 in Friends

2006-12-20 05:16:40 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-12-20 05:16:24 · 22 answers · asked by terry333 1 in Family

2006-12-20 05:15:57 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have been dating this girl for over a month now. We like each other. She broke with her BF before she started dating. I was concerned about being a rebound. She claims that she cares alot about me. We've had sex at least 10X. Should I still be concerned about being a rebound or not? What should I do?

2006-12-20 05:13:59 · 2 answers · asked by hey101 1 in Singles & Dating

About 2 months ago my boyfriend of 4 and a half years told me that he cheated on me with 3 different girls from his job. I found just the other day him asking for advise on this page about what he should do which was posted 2 months ago. I really love him but I really do not know how to open up and trust him again to allow those feelings of hurt back inside. We have been through so many things together from me moving away from my home town to be around him when his son left out to virgina and me sticking around and talking to him each night when he was in a shelter out there. I am really hurt by all of this a part of me wants to say go your own way and another part of me wants to say that we can work things out knowing the time frame we have been together. When I saw what he wrote "I have a girlfriend but I have meet someone else who I really like" also went one to say sexually attracted to. What do you do in these type of situations when true real feelings are involved?

2006-12-20 05:13:10 · 11 answers · asked by Tashi 1 in Singles & Dating

Here is the thing, this guy started emailing me from here and has insisted on continuing to do so - even AFTER I blocked his email he sent one through YA..... He seems obsessed and don't know how to get rid of him - what can I do??????

2006-12-20 05:13:09 · 7 answers · asked by ? 4 in Singles & Dating

Just asked about getting someone to chat with and not sure how to read the aswers

2006-12-20 05:12:59 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-12-20 05:12:47 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-12-20 05:12:19 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I thought that if I took her out for our anniversary dinner, it would prove to her that I care. But because the Arby's gave her the runs, she blamed it on me. It's HER fault! I wanted to go to Wendy's. We went to Hooters for drinks, and THAT made her mad. Then I tried to make it up to her by going to the stripclub. I even bought her a lapdance! But I had NO idea she didn't like seeing boobies. I figured she liked 'em. She has two of her own. But anyways, she said the night was a disaster and she's through with me. After I picked her up from the emergency room and took her home, she said she never wanted to see me again. GOD, why are woman so unfair?

2006-12-20 05:11:52 · 27 answers · asked by Doug Church 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-20 05:11:48 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-12-20 05:11:24 · 21 answers · asked by smores 2 in Singles & Dating

my daughter is having an affair with a man who is after her wealth and money, since he is under a lot of financial pressure. i am certain that this affair will lead her to problems. but i am not able to pull her out of this affair. i am not able to convince her the fact that the man is only looking for her wealth. kindly tell me how to persuade my daughter to leave him for gud. please. this is a request from a mother.. please.

2006-12-20 05:11:23 · 22 answers · asked by lalsgk123 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Ive been with my partner almost four years and we have a two and a half year old son together. Our relationship has had many up's and downs but we have always remained faithful to eachother. I just dont enjoy sex. He wants it, I dont. I cant enjoy it, I think about tescos or how long it is taking. I dont like to be kissed or touched intimately and after just roll over and go to sleep feeling dirty, if I do enjoy sex something always seems to ruin it for me, he is too rough or isnt doing it properly!! He watches porn and says its the only thing stopping an affair. Im only 22! How can I make myself want him again?

2006-12-20 05:10:50 · 14 answers · asked by katyllou 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

Basically im nervous about her cheating on me. Shes 20 im 21 and we have been together for 6 years. Basically she talks about getting engaged all the time and we always talk about the future. She says im tired of waitting and stuff like that. But she has asked me a few time ehen we were going to hang out to go to with her friends. Im wondering if its possible she doesn't want to be together any more or is cheating and still talks about marriage.

2006-12-20 05:09:31 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

If you are highly respected in your community and you and your husband maintain an appearance of being together for the sake of your prestige. (Like you are a high ranking offical in the governent) . It has been 13 yrs that you had slept in one bed. Your husband has a mistress abroad hidden from the eyes of his constituents...then someone came along that you fell in love with. What would you do?

2006-12-20 05:08:47 · 20 answers · asked by ? 7 in Other - Family & Relationships

or so I thought. Turned out to be a bull. Was I wrong to still pour it on my mom's cereal? The rice crispies went 'Snap, crackle, Gag'.

2006-12-20 05:08:12 · 19 answers · asked by seahawk 1 in Singles & Dating

They don't want to do anything! They haven't even gotten fitted yet and the wedding is in May! Help!

2006-12-20 05:08:12 · 13 answers · asked by tenieweny00 1 in Weddings

2006-12-20 05:07:54 · 5 answers · asked by tomel68 2 in Singles & Dating

I am 17 years old and have been asked out by a guy who is 21. He is nice and respectful, but he is already in his 3rd year of college, where as I am starting college next fall.

Does the age difference seem too "creepy" for me to accept? I really like this guy, but maybe I should say no because we are 4 years apart? What is your opinion?

2006-12-20 05:07:51 · 16 answers · asked by laurenlauren_33 1 in Singles & Dating

Delicious........................???...;0)

2006-12-20 05:07:30 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-12-20 05:07:00 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

As I look back at all the times we shared
I shoulda been more prepared

For all the tears now I shed
Lying in my bed
Thoughts of you swimming in my head

I never thought we'd be parted
and you'd leave me broken hearted

Every day I'll think of you
Until the day I die

I'll be missing you.

2006-12-20 05:06:42 · 17 answers · asked by Eraser 1 in Singles & Dating

My first ever, any pointers. It's not completely blind, I recognize her from a personals website.

2006-12-20 05:06:19 · 8 answers · asked by Woodstock 2 in Singles & Dating