do we tell the truth when we talk in our sleep?

Question

while my partner was asleep i asked him some questions because i feel he is cheating. he answered my questions which i was quite shocked. would he have been telling the truth?

Answer 1

it's his subconcious talking. it usually means he's telling the truth

Answer 2

It's possible. But it's also possible that he's in a completely different reality when he's asleep. I swear my husband is two people, him when he's awake and him when he's asleep! Thankfully they both love me! You never know what he's dreaming about that's is making him say what. I would use what he told you to do further research into the matter. If he said he was seeing someone else in his sleep then dig into his cell phone and emails and find out for sure who he's talking to. You would have a good reason to do some snooping but not enough proof to bust him with.

Answer 3

I wouldn't rely on that alone. He might have been telling the truth but then again he might have been in a dream. With that said I believe you should go with your gut. I was married a few years back and I had a feeling that he was cheating and come to find out I was right.

Answer 4

If he was truly asleep, and not dreaming, then the words were likely truthful. I'm not sure our brains can form a lie without us consciously telling it to do so...unless we've told and thought about the lie so much, that even we now believe it.

Answer 5

My boyfriend once woke me up shouting 'THERES CROCODILES!!!' and i asked him what the hell he was on about to which he replied 'Ive got no power left and i really need to get over there because of them, where the f'ing hell have you put my lasagne?' (to which I'm saving for the best man speech)

Sleep is just a subconscious state of our mind and couldn't be relied upon as what he said was the truth, ask him outright, you deserve to know the truth hunni

take care xx

Answer 6

not usually, because we are asleep we don't know what we're saying. I went to ask my sister where something she'd borrowed was one morning but she was asleep and she said "in the bag on the door, next to the rum" see now there's no way that could be the truth, there's no bag or rum on the door!

Answer 7

There has been research into this but I don't remember the complete results, but you can affect someone's subconcious in their rem sleep process. not during deep sleep. and this method has been used for centuries for finding truth on subjects. however if you think he is cheating on you you could use the morning show I like to listen to. check http://www.newrock933.com/ and click on the rise guys. you could call them and setup a war of the roses with them. you can e-mail me if you want more info on it.

Answer 8

It probably depends because he could have incorparated your questions into his dream, so his subconscious was answering the questions. When we are dreaming we aren't really ourselves.

Last week my b/f's face was close to mine while we were sleeping. I could feel him breathing on my face. In my dream I said "I am going to f-ing punch whoever is blowing in my face." I wouldn't have said that in real life. I realized I was dreaming and that he was blowing in my face, so I rolled over.

Answer 9

Most likely, yes.

But sometimes, the brain just puts out some things that a person is dreaming of.

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stranger.

Answer 10

Its possible but not completely 100%. My husband came to bed the other night and I told him "we're just looking, we arent going to steal anything." Dont put all your trust into it.