Basically im nervous about her cheating on me. Shes 20 im 21 and we have been together for 6 years. Basically she talks about getting engaged all the time and we always talk about the future. She says im tired of waitting and stuff like that. But she has asked me a few time ehen we were going to hang out to go to with her friends. Im wondering if its possible she doesn't want to be together any more or is cheating and still talks about marriage.
2006-12-20 05:09:31 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
People have been know to actually get married and cheat, so if you suspect she's cheating, it's possible she is. If you've been together since you were 14 years old, I'd say it's highly possible.
2006-12-20 05:12:47 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Chances are if you've been together for 6 years, there would be a drastic change in her attitude/personality if she were cheating. You would be able to tell or she would do something that would lead to you to believe she is cheating. Just because she is "tired of waiting" doesn't mean that she is cheating or wants to call it quits. She probably is exactly that! If you two are serious enough and have been together 6 years, then she is just wanting to committ and settle down with you officially.
2006-12-20 05:24:41 · answer #2 · answered by twirling_cowgirl321 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok I am sure you have heard this already but you are young. I thought I was ready to marry my boyfriend when I was 21 and luckily I didn't - he was cheating on me. If you have doubts about her being faithful, bring it up. Marriage is a serious thing, I got married when I was 28 and realize what a big step it is. Some people don't think it is a liftime commitment - she may be tired of waiting but is she really ready to commit to you forever? If you are not sure, you should definitely ask. These type of communication is necessary in a relationship - especially in marriage.
2006-12-20 05:14:48 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Her saying that she wants to be with you or shes ready for marriage need not mean that shes not cheating. Normally women give out mixed and mutually contradictory signals when they cheat. I'm not saying this to freak you. So do not jump into conclusions.
2006-12-20 05:21:24 · answer #4 · answered by Lord Of Lust 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go buy a ring right now. Don't worry about the size or the cost. Something you can afford and is pretty. Take her to dinner and propose marriage. Put the ring on the finger and go out with her friends to annouce your engagement. Do it now.
2006-12-20 05:14:34 · answer #5 · answered by sparetom 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If someone cheats on you, they do not love you. And selfishly they want to be married to be married and that is never a reason to get married when love is at stake.
She sounds like a total vampire.
2006-12-20 05:13:42 · answer #6 · answered by darrellkern 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
people have been known 2 cheat and still discuss marriage~happened 2 me
2006-12-20 05:12:35 · answer #7 · answered by sis 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
6 years and you're asking "US" whether she's cheating????
I think you should think well about "YOUR" attitude towards her, yourself, and the relation..If there' something wrong in that, it's probably from your side
2006-12-20 05:16:06 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you are not totally ready just like she is than you need to tell her that so she can make her choice if the relationship will make if not its going to end anyways
2006-12-20 05:15:53 · answer #9 · answered by san8483 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont think shes cheating, well i hope not anyways, good luck
2006-12-20 05:13:18 · answer #10 · answered by Sarah 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋