I have been married now for only 3 months, and i think i have made the biggest mistake of my life. He hasnt had a job for two months now and is doing drugs like i have never seen, he doesnt come home and we have a baby on the way. Yes it was my mistake for marrying him but now I have no choice, i need help. I dont know how divorce or separation works, I could use some advice on what to do first?
2006-12-20 05:19:02 · 9 answers · asked by Heather T 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Hate to say it but, get a lawyer. I think you might be able to get the marriage anulled because it's only 3 months. But either way get out of it if it isn't good. You'll be better off and so will your new born child.
2006-12-20 05:23:56 · answer #1 · answered by Zig Zag 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, first thing to do is move out, get your own place. Next thing to do is file for divorce. Not sure what state you live in but in Texas you can do all your own paperwork and file without a lawyer. It costs about $200 in Texas to file for and complete a divorce but it takes about 3-4 months to complete the divorce. On the paperwork you list your unborn child and they'll make sure he gets charged for paying for it once he gets a job, it will also ask why you are divorcing and if you list his lack of employment and serious drug usage you'll have no problems getting a divorce when filing for yourself. If you have property between you it is often easier to let him have it all especially if you're not using a lawyer, people try to use property as a reason to drag out a marriage. Most importantly, decide you want to leave and then do it.
2006-12-20 05:27:34 · answer #2 · answered by Love to Love 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make an appointment with an attorney. You need to find out what the laws in your state are re: separation/divorce and make sure the drug use is noted, etc so it will be taken into account when it's time for the judge to determine custody and parental rights of the child (after its born).
2006-12-20 05:24:51 · answer #3 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hell no! so that you made a 'few' blunders, all of us make em, it is your previous. And why may you imagine a 'divorced woman' with 3 youngsters is broken products? I admit that is a mans international yet all this shouldn't and doesn't propose that each and every one which could preclude you from most advantageous a common lifestyles, and being able to pursuing a relationship. flow for it hun! Relationships are not any further only for baby-a lot less, undivorced human beings - all of us needs love, needs to experience needed so discover your mr precise and not in any respect enable each person allow you to recognize you're damaged products! and those who allow you to recognize so are deluded human beings stuck with misconceptions which they believe to be real. This ain't the 17th century lol, so flow for it and that i desire you the better of success hun :)
2016-11-27 23:11:54 · answer #4 · answered by wiltshire 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him to seek help with his issues. Obviously he's not gonna do that. So pack his stuff and toss it out the door. Change the lock. Talk with an attny, regarding divorce, child support/custody, and request a restraining order against him, so that he can NOT return.
2006-12-20 05:41:38 · answer #5 · answered by iyamacog 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Next time you see him doing drugs, call the police. Get him arrested then you will have good grounds for getting a divorce.
2006-12-20 05:29:28 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you go to the court house and file for a divorce and you have him sever with the paper also you can asked the court to give you a resistant order because of drugs good luck and stop give him money to do drugs
2006-12-20 05:28:56 · answer #7 · answered by nightman122554 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First walk out the door. Then get you a lawer.
2006-12-20 05:25:01 · answer #8 · answered by bad boy 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
first off, tell him what's up & to move out immediately. then go to the courthouse & ask them what to do.
2006-12-20 05:25:37 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋