i wanted to break up with my gf but was too scared cuz she was a real nice girl and i didnt want to hurt her feelings
i thought i might have given her a hint when i didnt reply whenver she said she loves me
but she didnt get the hint
me my m8s and my gf went on a camping trip
me my gf shared a tent with the girl who i really liked and we had kissed and everything
well when she was out of the tent i started kssing the girl and my gf caught us
this hapend week ago and she really upset and depressed
what can i do?????
i know i was wrong
2006-12-20 05:17:22 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
suck it up and tell her the truth. you already hurt her
2006-12-20 05:19:43 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell your GF you like the other girl and want to kiss her again. You are going to hurt her feelings but it is the truth. Be sincere when you tell her you feel bad but that you think you are better off not seeing each other anymore. Maybe she will let you date other girls. dating is good because you can spend time with several girls and kiss them. Then when you really find one you like above the rest, you can consider intimacy. Breaking up is hard to do but you'll be doing it until you are married so get used to it. Be nice though.
2006-12-20 13:21:55 · answer #2 · answered by sparetom 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your girlfriend is not a mind reader. Giving hints is just not good enough. If you really don't want to hurt her feelings then have the decency to tell her. You don't have to be horrible. It's all in the presentation. Show her respect and be considerate.
2006-12-20 14:08:15 · answer #3 · answered by Stef 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree with Micky g
What is done is done nothing you can do to change that, just learn from it and don't make the same mistake again
tell your (I presume EX) that you had tried to tell her and just couldn't because you were afraid of hurting her and that by not telling her you know you have hurt her more, tell her how sorry you are etc
2006-12-20 13:26:44 · answer #4 · answered by Peachy Girl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The problem is is that you already hurt her. You don't need to worry about hurting her more than you already have. Tell her that every rose has its thorn and that we didn't mean to hurt each other yet we did in the end, then just tell her that its over. (in the nicest way) and not over the phone. Good luck and best wishes.
2006-12-20 13:24:27 · answer #5 · answered by Zombie gurl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Break up with her. It's not like your going to make her feel any better by staying with her. She already saw you two kissing and that probably broke her heart anyway. so you might as well sit her down and tell her that it's time you part ways.
2006-12-20 13:20:29 · answer #6 · answered by partyof10 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi there what you did with this other girl is not fair on youre present g/f.....you have no choice but sit her down and finish this and as for not hurting her well thats a laugh she caught you kissing another girl ....thats really hurtful ,give youre g/f,some chance to get over things and dont be to suprized if she slaps youre face as i would have done it when i saw you with this other tart !! i feel so sorry for this g/f as you have not been fair to her at all
2006-12-20 13:24:05 · answer #7 · answered by a parent hows been there !! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
look
tell her whats bothering u and tell her the truth
dont wait until she finds out that uve been cheating on her.
tell her teht shes not the type for u and say it in a soft voice. look face to face and settle it 2gether trust me
good luck
2006-12-20 13:40:00 · answer #8 · answered by cherry 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you need to be honest with your current gf and let her know that you just want to be friends you have hurt her enough let her move on and find someone who can be true to her and make her happy you made a mistake by not telling her sooner but she deserves to know good luck
2006-12-20 13:21:47 · answer #9 · answered by linda y 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her, I think you are nice cos you care but if you are kissing her friend that is not how a B/F behaves. Sometimes you have to be cruel to be kind-just break up with her...:)
2006-12-20 13:21:52 · answer #10 · answered by kel s 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't lead people on.
You should have made it clearer to her that you did not love her.
She has ended up hurting more by thinking you've cheated.
Just apoligise and be honest in future relationships.
2006-12-20 13:20:18 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋