Family & Relationships - 20 December 2006

Every time I try to put a condom on, I always seem to put it on inside out. I've noticed on the base/rim of the condom, there's almost a jagged/raised side, and a not jagged/raised side. Any tips at how to work out instantly which way up it should go?

PLEASE HELP! & Sensible answers only!

2006-12-20 05:56:49 · 13 answers · asked by ralf_ny65rj 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-12-20 05:56:25 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-12-20 05:55:22 · 28 answers · asked by Rogernyc 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Tutored a guy a while back, kind of felt mutal chemistry between us, because he was a university employee and I a grad student we could not date and left the situation alone, he called two months later to see how I was doing. When we spoke I initialy acted as though I didnt know who he was (his response "its like that") to say in a sense that I wasnt caring to much about him calling and in the conversation kind of made a referance to having a boyfriend (which I didnt). It has now been six months since I last spoke with him and I still think of him everday and have never felt this way about a guy. What should I do? Call him and let him know how I feel. I am so friggen confused. Please Help!

2006-12-20 05:54:55 · 12 answers · asked by explosyv 2 in Singles & Dating

it seems to me that girls are either, hyper and annoying, or just grumpy, and tired. for that matter why cant they just be friends with someone.such as (for me) it is either they wont leave me alone, or they hate my guts.

mellow out, girls maybe then i could figure somthing out about you :)

2006-12-20 05:54:45 · 12 answers · asked by SwordDancer 5 in Singles & Dating

Just wondering if anything good can be derived from this statement, I know of the bad that can come from it. Everything has been very cool between me and the dude, we are NOT boyfriend/girlfriend, I just noticed lately when we talk especially online we'll have a conversation going but sometimes he'll just get silent and not say another word for the rest of the night, and today he said "I've been going through some changes" when I asked how he was doing

2006-12-20 05:52:18 · 25 answers · asked by Bootylicious316 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

my dad sent me a gift card for wal-mart and it's not that i'm being ugrateful. the thing is i don't shop for clothes at a cheap store like wal-mart. the quality is not good and i need clothes. buying $100 worth of cd's or something i don't need. last year he asked me and i gave him a store that i shop at all the time i just think it's messed up because he has two other kids and if he isn't buying wal-mart clothes i don't see why i should be wearing them i think he should have at least took into consideration the fact that i'm 18 and wal-mart is not a store i wanna go and shop for my things

2006-12-20 05:52:11 · 50 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

personally i dont believe. wht is ur opinion ???

2006-12-20 05:52:11 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ok my mom complains about how ugly I look, how I do my hair how I have such bucked teeth and look like an old woman.

Well recently earlier this year, I dyed my hair blonde and gained weight, I feel better and more beautiful about myself. I get surprising comments such as "I love your hair!" "you look nice today" "you look better than the last time I saw you!" "You have beautiful teeth" "You have a beautiful smile!"

I told someone I have bucked teeth and look like an old lady and my mom thinks my hair color is ugly and I'm fat(I don't think that my mom does!) my friends and aquaintance say "NO you don't have bucked teeth! You have a beautiful perfect smile! that hair color looks good on you you look older and more mature! Before, with your natural hair color you looked 15!"

Well I am 22 and I love looking older and more my age instead of looking like an underage minor!

Also my mom thinks I'm obese just because I gained weight and weigh 118 ibs. What's wrong with her?

2006-12-20 05:51:33 · 10 answers · asked by Snorty 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I know its sick and wierd but we can't help feeling this way about each other. I mean even though we are cousins we can't fall out of love. I feel for him deep and I haven't felt like that about any other boy before. I am 16 and my cousin is 21 and I have loved him like forever and I wasn't planning to tell him that I love him romantically until he told me that for some reason he gets jealous whenever he sees me with guys. The only thing we have ever done was kiss once and it was scary. I want to tell my family but he thinks that we should keep it a secret. Please I'm confused and need help!

2006-12-20 05:51:31 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

how do kno u over somebody when u loved them 2 da fullest and its been 2 months of ya break up and u nevered been in love?

2006-12-20 05:51:15 · 6 answers · asked by candy 1 in Singles & Dating

i want to know the marital status type "annulled" meaning.

2006-12-20 05:49:53 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

my have been with the same woman for almost 29 years, and at 24 and a half years she devorced me , she decided that she had made a mistake and we stayed together as man and wife, being devorced , about 3 mouths ago just got you and left me , althuogh this hurt me and could not speak her in to staying, what she is trying to do is creat a case of harrasment with the police to use against me ,to regain the council house that we were joint tenants in , she contacted the council when she left and has been taken of the council tennantcie where do i stand as i look after my 16 yr old son who is at collage , and she texts me and all i do is answer them back , some good and some back , i try to speak to her but just get sworn at or ignored, can the police and the council reposses the property on her aligations or is there some thing i can do , i cant belive the police would just take her side of the storie without checking with me , what do i do , please help christmas is bad enough on my own.

2006-12-20 05:49:47 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I'm not sure if i like this guy...i've known him for a while and lately i just am feeling so strange about him and i find myself just wanting to jump on him and do anything....it feels like i love him, i care about him very much but i question it....

2006-12-20 05:49:46 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my best friend's brother just died( she and her family are close friends to ours) and I am worried about it. I am deeply sad myself, and I cry every time I visit her, or remember him. but lately I have been able to numb my feelings for I have exams. I have been thinking of paying her more visits to cheer her up(of course you can imagine her state and her loss). Is it appropriate to hide my sadness in front of her and try to cheer her up? If so, what do I do?
By the way, I have been thinking of some ideas like buying her books, or sweets, a mug perhaps, you know stuff like that spontaneously, presents and so, everytime I visit. she is 21 by the way.

2006-12-20 05:49:33 · 7 answers · asked by mariamofcairo 1 in Friends

There is this guy who I like that I have known for only a few months. I hardly see him except for once or twice a week. He used to talk to me all the time whenever we were around each other, and we used to talk on the phone for a couple of hours at a time. However, I found out that he liked this other girl and he might date her because she was"making him" and I told him I was happy for him. We didn't talk that much the next week. Then, the next week after that I found out he doesn't like her anymore. It's been about a month since all that. We don't talk that much on the phone now because he is super busy (more than before) with sports at school and his band. However, I still catch him staring at me!! I wonder if he still is interested because it sure seemed like it earlier on until he randomly told me about this other girl (which he no longer likes). Anyways, we are still friends and I hold nothing against him. I have forgiven him and he apologized for being a jerk about the other girl

2006-12-20 05:48:50 · 12 answers · asked by dancing4ever 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-20 05:48:27 · 15 answers · asked by chris b 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-12-20 05:48:03 · 18 answers · asked by rikdi2 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Ok I need some advice. Everyone on both sides of my family mom and dads at one point in their life have asked me for favors and there are a few including mom and dad that are constantly asking. Things from find me a mortgage broker, to a car to an attorney to translating things. None of them speak enough english to feel comfortable doing these things themselves. I have told my mom how I like helping but at times it gets overwhelming. Sometimes I avoid some of them and I feel bad bc I do want to help and I always do but there have been times I've gotten sooo stressed out I was at the point of tears. Anyone else dealt with this or have suggestions? Oh have to go ones calling right now....

2006-12-20 05:47:03 · 13 answers · asked by isladelmar7 2 in Family

2006-12-20 05:46:15 · 44 answers · asked by karen. 4 in Family

It is YOU, and I like it.

2006-12-20 05:45:11 · 5 answers · asked by 120 IQ 4 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-12-20 05:44:59 · 24 answers · asked by naynay 1 in Singles & Dating

I've been with my boyfriend for four years; he's controlling, and sometimes abusive. I don'tknow why I'm still with him. I need advice.

2006-12-20 05:44:54 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am 18 years old, but she have 24

2006-12-20 05:44:24 · 9 answers · asked by konyk88 2 in Singles & Dating

Look I have a friend who thinks internet dating is bad but I trully don't think it is do you?

2006-12-20 05:43:30 · 17 answers · asked by Bloodywolf 1 in Singles & Dating

I had casual sex with a guy I had been with two years ago. We slept with each other last sunday, we agreed to have sex another time. A couple of dayz later, I sent him a text saying "Do you want to **** me later" (I tried to make that text straight to the point without making him think I want more, which I don't) Anyway its been 6 days and he hasn't replied. I see him out clubbing all the time, and I'm gonna feel stupid when I see him knowing he hasn't texted back. I haven't called or texted him since that text, but is there anything I can do to take back the control?!!!! to show I don't care....please help. It's killing me that he hasn't texted back.

2006-12-20 05:43:03 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

At first I found this site interesting b/c I thought it was a place where you could ask any question you want and get other people's opinions whether good or bad. But it seems to me there are people that are only out to judge you. If you dont agree, dont answer the question or just say you think the person is wrong. Why result to name calling? No one is perfect. It seems that any question in regards to relationships, people act like they are in perfect ones. Well, I'm sorry but I'm not, I'm human,not a whore or "skank". Am I the only one that feels this way? Does my imperfections make me a bad person?

2006-12-20 05:42:48 · 29 answers · asked by daprty1 2 in Marriage & Divorce

ok i have a b/f and i love him very much but i have an ex b/f we had to brakeup because his mom was racist and we still like each other but im in a relationship what do i do cause me and my ex still flirt and my b/f dont do nothing about it.what do i do

2006-12-20 05:42:29 · 8 answers · asked by angel cake 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-20 05:41:55 · 30 answers · asked by Alyssa 1 in Singles & Dating

i love him still

2006-12-20 05:41:52 · 8 answers · asked by greenismylife.songismyworld 2 in Singles & Dating