I had casual sex with a guy I had been with two years ago. We slept with each other last sunday, we agreed to have sex another time. A couple of dayz later, I sent him a text saying "Do you want to **** me later" (I tried to make that text straight to the point without making him think I want more, which I don't) Anyway its been 6 days and he hasn't replied. I see him out clubbing all the time, and I'm gonna feel stupid when I see him knowing he hasn't texted back. I haven't called or texted him since that text, but is there anything I can do to take back the control?!!!! to show I don't care....please help. It's killing me that he hasn't texted back.
2006-12-20 05:43:03 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Don't sweat it. I have a guy that i see casually and sometimes he contacts and sometimes i contact him, sometimes we link up sometimes we don't. If i see him at the club while I'm out I flirt with him a little bit give him a hug and go on about my business. I don't worry about what he's thinking or why he didn't answer my last text, because i know that he'll be watching me do my thing for the rest of the night and sure enough will try to hook up with me eventually. You have to show, not just him but yourself, he's not the only man you know or the only man that wants you.
I've said this before, a confident woman is a sexy woman. If he doesn't contact you again then F$@% him. There are too many men out here girl. Keep it moving!
2006-12-20 05:58:07 · answer #1 · answered by majones83 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can just let it go. If you keep obsessing over this then he will always have the control. You are allowing him to control your emotions and your life. Live and learn. There are plenty more guys out there. Maybe this time you come to an understanding that there is going to be a relationship or it is going to be a friendship with benefits. Either way you have a bigger say so in the who, what, when, where and how (or how many). Kick this looser to the curb. Move on.
2006-12-20 13:47:51 · answer #2 · answered by Patrinka E 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Another case of I wanna have the upper hand, just dont do nething stupid now,dont do nething at all, if u see him next time just give him a smile n move peacefully if he comes to u then there's ur control back in ur hands, if he doesnt to hell with it, enjoy u day, check out other guys n relax, dont get jumping about i want the last laugh , its okay, ok i've told enough
2006-12-20 13:54:06 · answer #3 · answered by vio_prince 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off you shouldn't have had "casual sex" with him. Second you should have let him call you your being too pushy. Third, I'm sure you could have said something a little bit more modest and still let him know that all you wanted was sex. It was a little to straight to the point.
2006-12-20 14:19:40 · answer #4 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well im pretty sure you were nothing more than a jump off to begin with anyway. I think once you sent him that text "do you want to **** me later" you confirmed it. He knew it but probably tried to give you the benefit of the doubt. When he read that he realized how much of a whore you actually are and it turned him off.
2006-12-20 13:51:40 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl what you do is boost yourself let yourself know you can get dick from anybody you wan't anytime you wan't . Don't call him or text him, and when he does call or text back . Either ignore him or set up a day and never get back with him it'll make him wan't you even more!
2006-12-20 13:49:58 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
when u go to the club or anywhere he is have as much fun as possibly with as many guyz as possibly sounds bad but its not if ur just dancing and having a good time with other guyz hes guna see that other guyz want you and hes guna be lyk well looks lyk it didnt bother her any that i didnt answer which is guna make him feel insecure guyz want every gurl to cry over them..when he sees ur not u get the last laugh!
2006-12-20 13:49:46 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, if it's killing you then that means you actually do want more than just sex. Just blow it off, again, if you didn't want more then it's not a big deal, him not responding means that the answer is no and he got what he wanted. If you see him, act like nothing happened, no big deal. Blow it off, it was just sex, remember?
2006-12-20 13:47:53 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
when and if you see him act like nothings wrong or that you never said anything go up to him and have a normal convo just like you would anyother day... also if you see him at a club go dance with other guys it'll make him jealous
2006-12-20 13:51:51 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you see him out act as if nothing happened let him come to you. Don't be rude but don't run to him either. If you honestly don't want anything more than sex then it shouldn't bother you.
2006-12-20 13:48:39 · answer #10 · answered by Amanda D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋