it seems to me that girls are either, hyper and annoying, or just grumpy, and tired. for that matter why cant they just be friends with someone.such as (for me) it is either they wont leave me alone, or they hate my guts.
mellow out, girls maybe then i could figure somthing out about you :)
2006-12-20 05:54:45 · 12 answers · asked by SwordDancer 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
some of you are probably right, they need to grow up a little. come to think of it: i do seem to get along better with women in their late 20s+ than most others.........
2006-12-20 06:01:15 · update #1
haha...i am a girl...and i completely agree...i have to say i though am not like that...i believe that a girl should either like like a guy, not like a guy at all or like him as a friend...but no matter how they like or dislike him just be cool...don't be hyper all the time..be able to hold a conversation with out having to be "cheerleader happy" using like and omg every other word is pointless...girls should talk to guys like they are human...if you "mellow out" then guys might actually like you more because then they can get to know you!
2006-12-20 06:09:02 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't even know what you are referring to. I think the main difference between men and women, is that women run on a monthly cycle, and men have no cycle or regulation or change of mood at all. It must be hard for you to understand. But I get sad the same day every month. not because someone dies every month on that day, but because of horomones. Horomones are why women are emotional. yes, we are. get used to it if you want a relationship with us. It could just be the wrong time of the month. Or maybe, you are a jerk??
2006-12-20 05:59:16 · answer #2 · answered by -- 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Apparently you're either hanging out with the wrong females, or the in-between states hit when they move from being girls to women...many women I know (including myself) have all the gears from stop to turbo (and everything in between) depending on our mood and the situation.
So next time reword your question to say "Why do SOME girls (or women)..." so you don't make a blanket statement or question about every girl on the earth...nothing is going to apply to all females or all males...
2006-12-20 05:58:51 · answer #3 · answered by . 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
lol....you made me laugh..i like your way of thinking. i'd be right up your alley though. i've actually been told by guys that they wish i was either more hyper and showed more emotion by being grumpy and whatnot. I'm just a very down to earth chic. who like to work to pay my bills and hang out with friends when i can. I hate drama as well...anyway- you made me laugh though..there are girls out there..keep looking.:)
2006-12-20 06:03:46 · answer #4 · answered by tigerlily 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Girls are complex, we have different hormones than guys do and therefore you don't always get us. You have to find girls with the right balance, a lot of us are like you mentioned- but not all of us. We have our extremes, depends on the day and what time of the month you find us on...lol, but seriously its not all that bad, you need us like we need you, so you'll get used to it, Good luck
2006-12-20 05:59:36 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You just aren't around a normal nice girl that likes to be serious but also have a good time. Maybe you are the one that needs to change your stereotypical views...don't clump us all into one group b/c of your bad experiences. :)
2006-12-20 05:58:30 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
yes, some gals can be a bit emotional and up and down or on and off, however, as we get older and grow up a bit we realize what life is all about and we mellow a good bit.
a god guy can help us do that.
good luck and happy holidays!
2006-12-20 06:01:59 · answer #7 · answered by joey322 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
YOUR SOOOO RIGHT !!! WE WISH WE HAD A MEDIUM SPEED BUT WE DONT WE JUST DONT...... AT LEAST YOUR BETTER OFF THAN MOST MEN, YOU ASKED ABOUT IT AND YOULL KNOW HOW TO HANDEL IT PERHAPS A BIT BETTER THAN MOST MEN. WE DONT LIKE IT EITHER, I WILL SELL OUT ALL OUR BAD HABITS PROVIDED YOU WILL BE ABLE TO SEE THE GOOD IN US.............ONE DAY OUT OF THE MONTH IT HAPPENS............LOL
2006-12-20 06:06:55 · answer #8 · answered by that girl 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
did you ever think about the possibility that it's your fault?... about not leaving u alone or hating ur guts i mean...
you are generalizing. really now... I'm somewhere in the middle.
can't say that I hate you... but I don't like you very much :P
2006-12-20 05:59:06 · answer #9 · answered by sea_star 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
they're not done growing up yet. when they grow into mature women, the become balanced- sometimes.
2006-12-20 05:57:17 · answer #10 · answered by Violet Pearl 7 · 5⤊ 0⤋