Family & Relationships - 20 December 2006

why?

2006-12-20 06:08:35 · 20 answers · asked by rachel v 1 in Singles & Dating

I've known him for 5 years.We've been in a relationship for 3 years.We are from different religions. He was my best friend before this. He's extremely reserved and shy. he tells me its best not to tell too many people about it since somehow people at home may find out about it. But he's allowed me to tell my close friends..but he's not told a soul yet. Am i right in pursuing and believing in this relationship to be a true and everlasting one?

2006-12-20 06:07:38 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend is a total gamer, he loves to play WoW especially. He has been off work since May. I know he was looking for a job the first few months he lost his job, but lately I think he's just been slacking (looking every now and then). What can I do to motivate him back into looking for a job without being pushy?

2006-12-20 06:07:14 · 4 answers · asked by Twiztnin 5 in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend has told me several things that tells me he cares for me such as "I am falling and have fallen for you", "You are wonderful", "Your the perfect High" when we are together. I go to his work and he kisses me infront of everyone. Here is the thing. Him spending time with me (just him and me) is so random.. He can never schedual plans with me cause he has so much going on in his life. Lots of times he calls and goes "Hey lets get together" but then has to leave later for something else that he has to do. How do other women deal with a man like this?

2006-12-20 06:07:09 · 10 answers · asked by movu101779 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

can anyone tell me the answer to this question, theres a guy at work that i reallllly like!!!!!!!!!!!!!
we flirt etc etc but ..... he has a gf, but she is a "pain in he a***" according to him, im leaving my job tomoz, and i wanna leave my number with him but do it so he asks me, what do i do cos i really like him :D

2006-12-20 06:06:47 · 13 answers · asked by sarah_squidge 1 in Singles & Dating

i mean between a gul & guy. idont blive as 2day only infatuation occur. i blive in true luv bt 2day u cant find it.so i say tht true luv has been narrowed 2 crush bf gf......

2006-12-20 06:06:41 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

there is this boy in my year and i think he is dead sexy i really fancy me i have been told that he fancies me to what should i do i want to go out with him but are my friends lying when they told me that he said he fancies me?

2006-12-20 06:06:27 · 6 answers · asked by [x]...Chlo Chlo...[x] 1 in Friends

I am married to this man for 5years and he made me and my family what we are today. I have two kids for him, but I don´t Love him anymore, even when we lie in the bed I saw him as an enemy.
I don´t know what to do because I don´t want to hurt him.

Should I stay with him and look for another one outside for affair just to please him or should I leave him. ( I have no feelings for him anymore)

2006-12-20 06:06:20 · 11 answers · asked by nneka o 1 in Marriage & Divorce

how did you get your boyfriend to notice you when you first started to like him before you started to go out. How did you let him know you liked him.

2006-12-20 06:06:00 · 4 answers · asked by Daniela15 2 in Singles & Dating

I am a recently married woman that has her bestfriend still wanting to be attached to the hip what do I do?
Best friend wont give me space?
I was recenlt married in October and ever since I got married my best friend has been getting bent out of shape. Things have been busy for me and my husband we are in a new house we moved in a week before we got married and we are comfortable staying home spending our nights after work together doing nothing. My best friend will call me and want me to go shopping with her. I have worked all day and don't really feel like shopping. When I tell her know she will call me the next day and ask agian. I agian will say no I like to shop on the weekends when I have the energy and the money. She gets upset with me and says we never hang out and she knew this would happen when we got married. and gets all deppressred about it. We see each other once a week and I feel that is enough. I love her to death like I said she is my best-friend but sometimes lately for the last few months she has been driving me crazy and I dont want to hurt her. She right now is single and feels that she needs me.

Additional Details

34 minutes ago
Do you think i am wrong for this. I know alot of my problem is I have sesonal effective disorder so I am depressed in the winter and don't feel like doing much at all. The only peron I really enjoy to do alot of things with is my husband. We have been together for 6 years married only a few months. I really don't want to be a bad friend I just can't do it.

15 hours ago
just one more thing I would like to add I don't really think she is lonely she has several men that she is dating. That is another part of the reason I think things are kinda off between us. She plays games with these guys one week she really likes the one and then the next day she doesn't meanwhile she is still seeing the guy she has been seeing for 2 years that treats her like crap. Its just non stop drama and I am the one that always has to listen to it. I am not complaining thats what friends do but sometimes I will admit it gets to me

2006-12-20 06:05:25 · 9 answers · asked by BabyDolll128 3 in Marriage & Divorce

well um yeah we had our ups and downs but he act as thought he care and other times he act liike he do what should i do how should i react ?

2006-12-20 06:05:12 · 8 answers · asked by MiSsySexii 3 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-20 06:04:34 · 7 answers · asked by Addison 1 in Singles & Dating

We have known each other for one year.... & it has been two months into the relationship.

I like him a lot and although I do kiss him and rub him occasionally OK i don't neglect him in any way BUT I have resisted many many urges to be all over him to the point where I feel like I am suffocating him.

Last night I said to him sometimes I just want to shower you with affection but I dont want to smother you he told me he felt the same way about me and that I am free to smother him anytime...
my question is for your opinion on experience...should I continue to resist my urges? Which way is healthier for a long lasting relationship?

2006-12-20 06:04:07 · 10 answers · asked by Gia M 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

Seems like a stupid question, but my girlfriend (whom I love so much) is frequently off with me and quite nasty/horrible. I know she cares about me a lot, but she is awful at expressing it. "You always hurt the one you love" springs to mind. I've talked to her about it before, but nothing really has changed and it upsets me that my girlfriend treats me kind of like I'm her lapdog and talks to me like I'm a bit of crap.

I love her more than anything, so that's why this is harder than just "finding somebody else."

Advice would be much appreciated, thank-you!

2006-12-20 06:04:07 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

put you XMAS tree on top of your house, will santa still bring the presents in?

2006-12-20 06:03:41 · 8 answers · asked by YAHOO SUCKS ASS 3 in Singles & Dating

Why do you choose them?

2006-12-20 06:02:34 · 41 answers · asked by J~Me 5 in Singles & Dating

I've been dating this guy on and off since 05. We lived together on and off also for most of that time, and I was the sole provider. Giving him everything he needed even my car while I was working. We aren't together now, but we both find it hard to let go. My mom would be pissed if she knew I was still talking to him. We often get into bad arguements and say REALLY mean stuff to eachother. It's even gotten pysical on some occasions. Even now that we aren't together, we still have really bad arguements. I've even gone as far as to change my number, but I end up giving it to him again. Sometimes I feel that I'm just comfortable with him and I don't want to go through the dating thing again. I even dated someone else and all my ex did was bad mouth him, and say how much better he was than him. I love him, I don't want to be with him, but I can't let go. There is so much more to the story, but I don't wanna relive it.

2006-12-20 06:01:34 · 6 answers · asked by Lucky13 3 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-20 06:01:02 · 18 answers · asked by tysexy25 2 in Friends

I have noticed that different people have different relationships with their parents/family. What is your relationship like?

I have a rough realtionship, where I am in a nice position with my parents, I find that we have a lot of arguments due to the fact that i am a teen. I love my brothers with all my heart, but we get in fights all the time. :)

2006-12-20 06:00:42 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

im shy to girls but why?

2006-12-20 06:00:01 · 22 answers · asked by craigytraynor 1 in Singles & Dating

my friends wanted to know this and know i am not my friends this was their idea.

2006-12-20 05:59:28 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Are there any christians out there who truly love God but are struggling in the flesh?
I mean people who are not religious but have a personal realtionship with Christ, you know better but need strength to do better. one can preach and give sciptures as to what to do and not to do...but sometimes if you have never walked in another's shoes you cannot understand the struggles... I'm struggling with the fact that I'm in love with my church brother and we've been intimate for the past 4 months...we plan on getting married but are not yet married. We've known each other for 3 years and the chemistry between us is unbelievable.. we both love God and are trying to do things the right way but we need strength...Anyone who can relate to this???

2006-12-20 05:59:18 · 16 answers · asked by Mary S 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-20 05:59:11 · 4 answers · asked by mat2blue 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-20 05:58:51 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-12-20 05:58:44 · 13 answers · asked by Ahmad 4 in Marriage & Divorce

Ok, well we dated a long time ago, but we broke up, and then we dated again a few months ago, and we dated for a month and 2 weeks, and then we broke up again, but then he came back to me, and now we have only been dating for 3 weeks, and I kno its not a long time, but I have to get him something for Christmas, Im not gonna spend a lot of money on him, cus I have no idea how long we'll be dating, but I just dont kno wat to get him... he's a troublemaker, cus like right now he is in jail, and he gets out friday, and I was thinking since thats so close to Christmas, I would go see him as soon as he gets out and suprise him with his Christmas present, I kno its very short notice, but I am so stuck on wat to get him... I dont want to get him something liek clothers or a game, or cd or anything like that, i want to give him something thats meaingful, but I have no idea wat...PLEASE HELP ME SOON!!!!!!!!!

2006-12-20 05:57:23 · 7 answers · asked by I love a troublemaker! 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

she gets defensive when i tell her she has not called.

2006-12-20 05:57:21 · 8 answers · asked by peacepepper 1 in Family

i like this really hot guy and he likes me too but my friend like him and he like her so he likes us both but he likes me more should i be his girl friend? thanks every one

2006-12-20 05:57:19 · 2 answers · asked by walaa a 1 in Friends

Anyone have any thoguhts on celibeacy? I've been celibate by choice I might add for three months, and I must add, it gets hard sometimes..Does anyone here practice celebacy? And if so is it hard for you as well? Do anyone feel that celebacy is against nature since sex is part of human functionality?Post your thoughts

2006-12-20 05:57:09 · 14 answers · asked by Jenn B 1 in Singles & Dating

i fallen in love with her in 2 weeks...our relationship lasted 4 weeks...When we broke up, i said i will never love again.And i didn't...i talked with many beautiful, very atracting girls...nothing.Then i got back with my love...she fallen in love with me...Our second relatinoship lasted 4 years..We broke up.It's been 5 moths since then.Many girls want a relationship with me...but i just can't be with someone else..And i dont want to be with my "love" anymore...

2006-12-20 05:56:58 · 17 answers · asked by alesul 1 in Marriage & Divorce