i fallen in love with her in 2 weeks...our relationship lasted 4 weeks...When we broke up, i said i will never love again.And i didn't...i talked with many beautiful, very atracting girls...nothing.Then i got back with my love...she fallen in love with me...Our second relatinoship lasted 4 years..We broke up.It's been 5 moths since then.Many girls want a relationship with me...but i just can't be with someone else..And i dont want to be with my "love" anymore...
2006-12-20 05:56:58 · 17 answers · asked by alesul 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
You need to mature a little and gain perspective on life before thinking about relationships.
2006-12-20 05:58:49 · answer #1 · answered by Haven 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I gave someone else this same advice, it really is the best advice I can give you. To forget is something so many of us want, but we know we can never truly have. No matter what happened with her and yourself , you grew as a person, even though you might not know it yet. She was your stepping stone to the next big challenge in your life, so thank her for that. You will move on, but it will take time, and some effort. You will grow as a person and be stronger from your learned mistakes. Love is a beautiful and terrifying thing, but love does heal what love has broken. Make sure you fill your days by being around people who love and care for you. There love will heal your wounds for sure. Just remember the time you spent with her taught you so many things that you will need for life's other challenges. So move on, and look at what life has to offer. Its a big world out there, and love is filled in almost every coner. You just have to look. Look from your soul, and before you know it shell be right in front of you. Have yourself a very Happy Holiday
2006-12-20 06:14:06 · answer #2 · answered by S-Darcy-81 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your afraid the next relationship will be just as painful as it was with her, and your actually cheating yourself by being so stubborn about it. be careful what u tell yourself, as what comes out of the mouth, we believe. why would u play the martyr, and deny yourself happiness, she isn't sitting there pining away for u, she has moved on, so why don't u. as long as u tell yourself these illogical things u will stay like this, yes u can be with someone else, there are more fish in the sea. embrace this misfortune, and transform yourself into whom ever u wish to be, turn this into something else, don't stay in the hurt and pain, life is too long to be alone and say if it can't be her you want no one. could be a long time. u think of this person as your love, but she doesn't see u as her love. we make our own future's by the choices we make.got to get out of this denial, got to see things as they really are, just cause this did not work out, doesn't mean u can never give someone else a chance. some things aren't meant to be, no matter how much we want them.
2006-12-20 06:13:29 · answer #3 · answered by jude 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, you will love again. You will find out that right now you are hurting and this will pass. The next relationship you have will be way better. We all have first loves that hurt so much we never think we will get over it, until the next person comes along. Just don't settle for someone who doesn't treat you the way you deserve to be treated and you will be fine. Thank you and good luck.
2006-12-20 06:09:53 · answer #4 · answered by cookie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you will love again,only if you allow yourself to. if you are afraid of getting hurt again, and never want a relationship again, you will never love again. but if you learn from what happened, and use that as a stepping stone, your next love will be even greater than the first. good luck, dont give up.
2006-12-20 06:02:13 · answer #5 · answered by superyduperymommy 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
just date. dont worry about it being love or anything like that. you are missing many great people out there by closing yourself off like this. dont try to go for a long term relationship, just date to meet people and have fun. if you meet the right person you'll know and you'll want to keep her around.
2006-12-20 05:59:26 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
well sure you can... if you find that right girl... i always say that there is no limit for love... there is a girl or boy out there for everyone in the world... it depends on if you are mature anough to love or if you can handle a serious relationship or if you are ready to have your heart broken... you have to want to love and care for this person... you have to make sure that the girl you love is the girl that si for you...
2006-12-20 06:02:09 · answer #7 · answered by stinkerbell 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
sometimes when you are in a great relationship and it seems to stop working out so well- it's just a way that God is speaking to you to find out if you love Him first!
God loves us first, we should love Him first in return, accpeting and believing He sent His Son (our Savior) to die for us.
then you can experience love here on earth. Nothing should come before God.
Deuteronomy 13:3
The LORD your God is testing you to find out whether you love him with all your heart and with all your soul.
1 John 4:7-9
Love comes from God...because God is love.
2006-12-20 06:07:45 · answer #8 · answered by insider 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Wow.....you are a sad case. Maybe you need to go out and meet someone. Your the type that will sit home now on Saturdays and gorge yourself on pizza and hot pockets.
2006-12-20 05:59:43 · answer #9 · answered by Husker 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Ha, you don't have to worry about that. Just wait for a few months, you will feel the desperation needing love relationship
2006-12-20 05:58:41 · answer #10 · answered by k_i_k_89 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋