Tutored a guy a while back, kind of felt mutal chemistry between us, because he was a university employee and I a grad student we could not date and left the situation alone, he called two months later to see how I was doing. When we spoke I initialy acted as though I didnt know who he was (his response "its like that") to say in a sense that I wasnt caring to much about him calling and in the conversation kind of made a referance to having a boyfriend (which I didnt). It has now been six months since I last spoke with him and I still think of him everday and have never felt this way about a guy. What should I do? Call him and let him know how I feel. I am so friggen confused. Please Help!
2006-12-20 05:54:55 · 12 answers · asked by explosyv 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Think not of the consequences of your actions but of your want, your need. If you must think of the bad think of the good. He could be the one you will spend the rest of your life with. Isn't true love worth the effort?
2006-12-20 06:00:52 · answer #1 · answered by joe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
O-k, If you liked him so much, why did you feel it necessary to be so UN true in how you felt?? I will never get that with people.Why say the opposite of what you want when you know you really wanted it??
If I was you I would give him a call and let him know how you feel, but be prepared that he may have moved on and now has someone else that he is dating.All you can do this time is be honest and express how you feel truthfully this time and hope for the best. If it don't work out then its hopefully a lesson learned for you that you will act different if ever in same position again.
2006-12-20 06:00:44 · answer #2 · answered by vmaxer85 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Couldn't hurt to try to talk to him again. Try to keep it casual at first though. As if you just want a friendship. Tell him you were thinking about him, and see if he wants to catch a movie or something. See him a couple times and see if you still feel this way, and if he seems to feel the same. Then make sure he doesn't have a girlfriend, and dive in, tell him you think you would like to date him.
2006-12-20 05:58:31 · answer #3 · answered by Cyndi Storm 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You should call him to wish him a Happy Holiday season. You don't have to say how you feel, just let the conversation flow. You already showed him the stop sign once, maybe him more of a green light. Don't play games like you did last time.
2006-12-20 05:59:15 · answer #4 · answered by boredperv 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You acted as if you didn't know who his was? Made a reference to a boyfriend? You kind of blew him off, right?
Now you've been thinking about him for 6 months every day?
Get professional help.....please!
2006-12-20 06:09:55 · answer #5 · answered by aggie babe 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well yeah ofcourse go talk to him and explain how you really feel about him and let him know that ever since that moment ...you regret not knowing what to do....nah just call him and tell him you miss him
!!!!! and that you've never felt like this for a guy!!!!!
2006-12-20 06:00:35 · answer #6 · answered by runnerchick16 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You shouldn't have played games with him. He might not be interested anymore. You could still call him and see how he feels, but be honest with him.
2006-12-20 06:00:05 · answer #7 · answered by Sean C 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should just call him then. He might not be available or interested now though.
2006-12-20 05:58:34 · answer #8 · answered by Violet Pearl 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
well go for it if you still dont have the employee student thing goin on
2006-12-20 05:57:25 · answer #9 · answered by T-NutZ 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Call him and see what happens - I heard it said "The heart wants what it wants".
2006-12-20 05:57:59 · answer #10 · answered by into_thematrix 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋