I've been with my boyfriend for four years; he's controlling, and sometimes abusive. I don'tknow why I'm still with him. I need advice.
2006-12-20 05:44:54 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You need to leave him at once. There are to many good guys out there to waste your time on a loser.
2006-12-20 05:49:05 · answer #1 · answered by Alexandra 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Here we go again--------unless you enjoy the abuse and "drama" you have in your life, get out of there NOW!!!! EX Cop here---I have seen way tooooooooo much of this over the years. The one doing the abusing always apologizes afterwards and says it will never happen again---but IT WILL. Eventually you will be threatened should you tryt to leave--so you will stay because you are afraid you will be hurt more--and YOU WILL----"PHYSICALLY"! Then somewhere down the road the ONLY way you will be completely out of the situatioin is : Some one WILL BURY YOU "6" feet under. Leave before it is too late. Like last week was not soon enough.
2006-12-20 13:52:56 · answer #2 · answered by nickle 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
please don't be with him any longer, you're worth more than that. life's too short for staying wit someone who doesn't make you happy, never mind being controlling/abusive. I'm sure you'll find someone who'll love you and do anything for you, and to do that, you've got to kick that man to the curb before his behaviour puts you in hospital.
2006-12-20 13:48:27 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would say talk to him, tell him how you feel. if you dont know why your with him then dont stay obviously yuor feelings arent strong enough.and if hes hitting you then get out now! guys never have any right to out there hands on a girl, thats wrong. i mean i know you probably love him but think about it, if he loved and cared about you would he be abusing you?! i dont think so..so get out of that relationship, trust me there are plenty of guys out there who would treat you amazing, he is not one you need to be wasting your time on.
2006-12-20 13:52:51 · answer #4 · answered by xsecretxowishesx 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Please get away from him. If you're unable to do that on your own, than seek help!
2006-12-20 13:47:39 · answer #5 · answered by iyamacog 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
LEAVE HIM!
2006-12-20 13:53:12 · answer #6 · answered by lo 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋